I am 29 years old, I am a mother of two children (6 and 4 years old). I am married, my husband and I have always had a mutual understanding and a great relationship, but lately I notice that he is shy of me. The thing is that I am fat. I gained weight after the second birth, and return to the old days is not possible. Hormonal failure is also accompanied by some illness, I got shortness of breath.
I do not blame my husband, because he married a beautiful and slender girl. Now we rarely go out together, even in the store, he prefers to go without me, saying that he can handle himself, and I do something at home in the meantime. If we walk with children in the park, he never takes me by the hand, as before, goes even away, as if shunning me. I think he is ashamed that I am fat. He suggested I go jogging in the morning, but it is hard for me to do, and it will not help. I tried to eat less, but I can’t cope with hunger.
What to do if I can’t lose weight? It is sad that men love not for mental qualities, but for a beautiful figure.