Please dont leave me on my own again. Not tonight. Those were the last words 68-year-old retired constable
The scene is the living room of a terraced house in Manchester. The low afternoon sun streaks through
For many years, I was little more than a silent shadow drifting between the shelves of the grand municipal library.
“You Can Live with Us—Why Bother with a Mortgage? Our House Will Be Yours One Day!” My Mother-in-Law Insisted
My mother-in-law is determined to stop us from getting a mortgage. She wants us to move in and promises the house will eventually go to my husband, since he’s their only heir. But she’s only forty-five and my father-in-law’s forty-seven.
My husband and I are both twenty-five, have good jobs, and can afford to rent—but I worry everyday squabbles will strain family ties.
My husband’s parents keep urging us to live together. My own parents have a spacious three-bedroom home, but I don’t want to be a guest on someone else’s turf—especially not at my in-laws’ place.
When lockdown hit, our landlord asked us to move out so her niece’s family could move in. With no time to find a new place, we wound up at my in-laws’. They welcomed us warmly, and my mother-in-law never bullied me, but she did constantly point out everything I was doing wrong. She’s different from my own mum.
We’d always wanted a place of our own, but now seemed like the perfect moment to save more. As much as I wanted to move out, I realised renting again would mean saving for ages before buying.
Although my in-laws don’t meddle, their routines and rules are so different from ours. My husband and I are always having to adjust, and it makes me feel out of place—even if it seems trivial.
From day one, my mother-in-law banished me from the kitchen. That’s her realm, no exceptions. But I struggle with her cooking; she uses way too many spices and onions.
It may sound petty, but it’s a real problem for me. When I tried cooking for myself, she took it personally, thinking I was criticising her homemaking.
Every Friday, she deep cleans after work. My husband and I are exhausted after the week—we just want to crash. She’s hurt that she’s cleaning alone. When I asked why the big clean isn’t on Saturday or Sunday, she said weekends are for relaxing.
These little things add up. What makes it bearable is knowing her attitude isn’t mean-spirited—it’s just how she does things, and that living there isn’t forever.
My husband and I agreed not to tell our parents we were saving up for our own place. We paid half the bills, contributed to the shopping, and saved the rest. One day, the topic shifted to the new car his cousin bought. My father-in-law suggested we buy one too, but my husband said a house was the real priority.
“How long will you have to save?” his father asked. My husband explained we’re saving for a mortgage deposit—not buying outright.
“You can just live with us—why bother with a mortgage? The house will be yours anyway!” my mother-in-law said.
We tried explaining our wish for independence, but my in-laws thought it was daft to pay the bank when we could live for free. Seeing she couldn’t sway us, my mother-in-law started urging us to focus on having kids instead of worrying about a mortgage.
Day after day, we heard her arguments for living together. They didn’t work on me, but they started getting through to my husband—he even started agreeing with her.
“We don’t need a mortgage. Mum’s right. Life is peaceful, no arguments. The house will be ours one day,” he told me.
“Fifty years from now, maybe!” I snapped.
After that, my husband became convinced his parents were already old and might soon need care. He said a mortgage was a form of slavery—it would be much harder to pay off, especially if I go on maternity leave.
But I want my own home now—not to wait for my mother-in-law to pass away to finally be the lady of the house… You can live with us. Why bother with a mortgage? Youll have our house anyway! chirped my mother-in-law
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