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“We’ll Be Staying with You for a While—We Can’t Afford Our Own Place!” My Friend Announced. I’m a Lively 65-Year-Old Who Loves Travelling and Meeting Interesting People, But When My Old Holiday Friend Sara and Her Whole Family Turned Up on My Doorstep, My Kindness Was Stretched to the Limit – They Ate My Food, Made Themselves at Home, and Even Left with My Dressing Gown and a Pot of Cabbage! That Was the End of Our Friendship.

Well be staying at your place for a bit we cant afford to rent our own flat! announced my friend, as

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The Ever-Helpful Grandmas Eleanor Stirling awoke to laughter. Not to a quiet chuckle, nor a polite giggle, but to a loud, riotous guffaw so inappropriate for a hospital ward that it grated her nerves. It was her bed neighbour, pressing a phone to her ear, waving her free arm as if the person on the other end could see her. “Lynn, honestly! He actually said that? In front of everyone?” Eleanor glanced at the clock. Quarter to seven. Morning rounds wouldn’t start for another fifteen minutes – fifteen precious minutes she’d hoped to spend in silence, preparing herself for the surgery. Last night, when she’d arrived, her roommate was already in bed, typing furiously on her phone. Their greeting had been brief: “Good evening.” “Hello.” And then they’d retired to their own thoughts. Eleanor was thankful for the quiet. But now? A circus. “Excuse me,” she intoned, clear but soft. “Could you keep it down a little?” Her roommate turned. Round face, short silver-grey hair, unapologetically uncoloured, a flamboyant polka-dot pyjama—bright red in a hospital ward! “Oh, Lynn, I’ll call you back, looks like I’m in trouble,” she said, slipping the phone away and turning to Eleanor with a grin. “Sorry! I’m Cathy Shepherd. Did you sleep well? I never sleep before operations. That’s why I call everyone I know.” “Eleanor Stirling. Just because you can’t sleep doesn’t mean others don’t need to.” “But you’re awake now,” Cathy winked. “All right, I’ll whisper from now on. Promise.” She didn’t whisper. By breakfast, she’d already made two more phone calls, each growing louder. Eleanor dramatically turned to face the wall and pulled her duvet over her head—but it was useless. “My daughter called,” Cathy explained at breakfast—neither of them actually ate as surgery loomed. “She’s worried, bless her. I’m trying to keep her calm.” Eleanor said nothing. Her own son hadn’t rung. Not that she expected him to—he’d warned that there was an early work meeting, very important. She’d taught him: work is everything, responsibility above all. Cathy was taken down to surgery first, waving a cheery goodbye and shouting some joke to the nurse, who laughed. Eleanor found herself hoping her neighbour would be moved to another ward after her surgery. She herself was collected an hour later. Anaesthesia had always been hard on her. She woke nauseated, her right side throbbing dully. The nurse reassured her it had gone well. She’d just have to be patient. Patience, at least, she had in spades. When she returned to the ward that evening, Cathy was already back, lying still, face ashen, eyes closed, drip needle in, silent for the first time. “How are you?” asked Eleanor, though she had no intention of starting a conversation. Cathy opened her eyes, managed a slight smile. “Still alive. You?” “Yes. Alive.” They fell silent, the room prickled by the shiver of gathering twilight and the quiet ring of IV drips. “Sorry about this morning,” Cathy finally said. “When I’m anxious, I talk non-stop. I know it’s annoying. I just can’t help myself.” Eleanor wanted to retort, but she couldn’t muster the strength. She eked out, “It’s all right.” Neither slept much that night, both troubled by pain. Cathy no longer called anyone, but Eleanor could hear her shifting, sighing; once, she thought she heard quiet sobs muffled in a pillow. The doctor arrived in the morning, checked stitches, took temperatures, then commended them both: “Doing well.” Cathy immediately grabbed her phone. “Lynn, hi! All fine, I’m alive, no need to worry. How are the kids? Really? Kyran had a fever? Is it gone now? See, I told you it would be nothing.” Eleanor listened unwillingly. “The kids”—so, Cathy’s grandchildren. Her own phone sat quietly. Two texts from her son: “Mum, how’s it going?” and “Text when you can”—sent last night, as she’d been groggy from anaesthesia. She replied: “All fine,” added a smiley. He liked them, said messages felt cold without. Reply came three hours later: “Brilliant! Love you.” “Don’t your family visit?” Cathy asked later that day. “My son works. Lives far. No real need—I’m not a child.” “Exactly,” Cathy nodded. “My daughter says the same: ‘Mum, you’re a grown woman, you’ll manage.’ Anyway, what’s the point if everything’s okay?” Something in her voice made Eleanor look closely. Cathy was smiling, but her eyes were far from cheerful. “How many grandchildren do you have?” “Three. Kyran—the oldest, he’s eight. Then Maddy and Leo—three and four. Want to see photos?” Cathy produced her phone, scrolling through pictures: children at the seaside, at a birthday, hugging, grinning, Cathy always with them, clowning for the camera—her daughter behind the lens, never in view. “She hates being in photos,” Cathy explained. “Your grandkids stay with you a lot?” “I basically live with them. My daughter works, my son-in-law as well, so I do…well, everything. School run, homework checks, dinners.” Eleanor nodded. Her story was similar—daily help in her grandson’s early years. Then it lessened—now, once a month, Sundays, if plans aligned. “And you?” “Only one grandson. Nine. Keen footballer, does well at school.” “See him much?” “Some Sundays. They’re busy. I understand.” “Yes,” Cathy turned to the window. “Busy.” They grew quiet as evening rain speckled the window. Later, Cathy suddenly announced, “I don’t want to go home.” Eleanor looked up. Cathy sat on her bed, hugging her knees, staring at the floor. “I really don’t. I’ve thought about it and…I don’t.” “Why?” “What for? I’ll get back, Kyran’s homework won’t be done, Maddy’s got snot all over her face again, Leo’s ripped his trousers. My daughter’s at work until late, my son-in-law’s always away. So I cook, clean, tidy, help, sit, fix. And no one even—” she faltered, “even says thank you. Because, well…that’s just what grandmas do.” Eleanor said nothing. She felt a lump rising in her throat. “Sorry,” Cathy wiped her eyes. “Don’t know what’s got into me.” “Don’t apologise,” murmured Eleanor. “Five years ago, I retired. Thought I’d finally focus on myself. Wanted to go to the theatre, to exhibitions. I even signed up for French classes. Lasted two weeks.” “What happened?” “My daughter-in-law went on maternity leave. Asked me to help. I’m the grandma, I’m not working, surely not a problem. I couldn’t say no.” “How was it?” “Three years, every day. Then nursery, every other day. Then school—once a week. Now…now I’m not really needed. They have a nanny. I just sit at home, waiting for them to call. If they remember.” Cathy nodded. “My daughter was meant to come in November—for a visit. I cleaned the house, baked pies. She rang: ‘Mum, sorry, Kyran’s got football club, we can’t come after all.’” “She didn’t come?” “No. I gave the pies to my neighbour.” They sat, quiet, listening to the patter of British rain. “You know what stings?” Cathy said. “It’s not that they don’t visit. It’s that I keep hoping they will. I clutch my phone, thinking: maybe now they’ll call because they miss me. Just to chat—not needing something.” Eleanor felt the sting of tears in her nose. “I do too. Every time my phone rings, I hope my son just wants to talk. But no—it’s always for something.” “And we always help,” Cathy shrugged. “Because we’re mums.” “Yes.” The next day brought redressing of wounds—painful for both. Afterwards they lay quiet, until Cathy said, “I always thought I had the perfect family. Wonderful daughter, good son-in-law, lovely grandkids. That I was essential—that they couldn’t do without me.” “And?” “And now I’ve realised, here, that they manage just fine. My daughter hasn’t complained in four days. In fact, she sounds more upbeat than ever. So…they could cope all along. It just suits them to have a grandma-nanny on hand.” Eleanor propped herself up. “I’ve realised it’s my fault, too. I taught my son—Mum always helps, always waits, always stands aside. His plans matter, mine don’t.” “Me too. I always drop everything for my daughter.” “We taught them we aren’t people,” Eleanor said quietly. “That we have no lives of our own.” Cathy nodded. And was silent. “So now what?” “I don’t know.” On day five, Eleanor managed to get out of bed unaided. On day six, she walked to the end of the corridor and back. Cathy was a day behind, but determined. They took walks together, slow, trailing a hand along the wall. “After my husband died, I felt lost,” Cathy confided. “I thought it was all over. My daughter said: ‘Mum, now your whole meaning is the grandkids. Live for them.’ So I did. Only now it feels…one-sided. I live for them; for me, they’re there when it suits.” Eleanor related her own divorce, thirty years ago when her son was five. How she raised him alone, worked two jobs, studied evenings. “I thought if I was the perfect mum, he’d be the perfect son. If I gave everything, he’d be grateful.” “But he grew up, and has his own life,” Cathy finished. “Yes. I suppose it’s normal. I just didn’t expect to feel so lonely.” “Me neither.” On day seven, her son showed up, unannounced. Tall, in an expensive coat, with a carrier bag of fruit. “Mum! How are you? Better now?” “Better.” “Fantastic! Doctor says three more days and you’re out. Maybe you’ll come stay with us? Olesya says the guest room is free.” “Thanks, but I’m better at home.” “As you wish. If you need anything, call.” He stayed twenty minutes—work stories, grandson updates, new car chat. Asked if she needed money, promised to visit again next week. Left quickly, with palpable relief. Cathy pretended to sleep through, then opened her eyes. “Your son?” “Yes.” “Handsome fellow.” “Yes.” “Cold as ice, though.” Eleanor could only nod. Her throat was tight. “You know,” Cathy whispered, “maybe it’s time we stopped waiting for their affection. Just…let it go? Understand that they’ve grown up, their lives are their own. Time to find ours again.” “Easy to say.” “Hard to do. But, what’s the alternative? Sitting here hoping they’ll remember us.” “What did you say to your daughter?” Eleanor asked, surprised to have switched to ‘you’. “Told her I’d need two weeks’ rest after discharge; the doctor said so,” said Cathy. “Not able to watch the kids.” “Was she cross?” “Oh yes. But you know what? I felt lighter, like a huge weight was lifted.” Eleanor closed her eyes. “I’m scared. If I say no, they might take offence—stop calling entirely.” “Do they call much now?” Silence. “Exactly. Can’t get worse. Can only get better.” On day eight, they were discharged together. Packing in silence, as if saying a final goodbye. “Let’s swap numbers,” Cathy suggested. Eleanor agreed. They did. Stood there, looking at one another. “Thank you,” Eleanor said. “For being here.” “Thank you. You know…I haven’t spoken like that to anyone in thirty years. Heart to heart.” “Nor have I.” They hugged—awkwardly, gently, careful not to jostle stitches. The nurse arrived with their discharge notes, called a taxi. Eleanor left first. Her flat was quiet and empty. She unpacked, showered, lay on the sofa. Checked her phone—three messages from her son. “Mum, are you discharged yet?”, “Call when you’re home”, “Don’t forget your tablets.” She replied: “Home. All good.” Set the phone aside. She stood, went to the cupboard, pulled out a folder—untouched for five years. Inside, a French class leaflet and a printed theatre schedule. She stared at the leaflet, thinking. The phone rang: Cathy. “Hi—sorry to ring so soon, but…I just wanted to call.” “I’m glad you did. Really.” “Shall we meet up? When we’re both fitter? In a week or so—coffee, maybe? Or just a walk? Only if you’d like.” Eleanor looked at the leaflet in her hand, then at the phone. Then back at the leaflet. “I’d like that. Really. In fact, why wait? Let’s meet Saturday. I’ve spent long enough lying around.” “Saturday? Are you sure? The doctors said—” “They did. But I’ve spent thirty years looking after everyone else. Time I looked after me.” “Deal. Saturday.” They rang off. Eleanor picked up the French leaflet again. Classes started in a month. Registration was still open. She reached for her laptop, hands trembling slightly, and filled out the registration form. All the way to the end. It was raining outside. But behind the clouds, the sun was breaking through—just a little, the soft, silvery glow of an English autumn. And Eleanor Stirling suddenly thought, perhaps life was only just beginning. Then she pressed ‘submit’.

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My Ex-Husband Asked Me for Money When His Son from His New Marriage Fell Seriously Ill—But I Refused to Help!

Monday, 12th February Im 37 now, and its been a decade since my divorce. My ex-husband was unfaithful

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“While We Sell the Flat, Why Not Stay in a Care Home?” Suggested Her Daughter Lydia Married Late in Life, Only to Watch Her Husband Edward Take Over Her Mother Mary’s Flat—Cramming the Elderly Woman Into a Cupboard, Complaining About ‘Musty Old Smells’, and Finally Sending Her to a Care Home ‘Just for Now’ So They Could Sell Up—But When Guilt and Karma Finally Caught Up, the Truth Was Too Much to Bear

While we sort out selling the flat, you can stay in the care home for a bit my daughter told me.

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My Children Are Well Settled, I’ve Saved Up for Myself, and I’m Ready to Retire – The Story of My Neighbour Fred: Beloved Mechanic, Devoted Family Man, and the Heartbreak of Growing Old in Modern England

My children are all settled; I have a few pounds tucked away, and soon enough, I shall be drawing a pension.

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“Sending Dad to a Care Home: Liza’s Agonising Decision After a Lifetime of Suffering at Her Father’s Hands”

What on earth is this about? A care home? Absolutely not! Im not going anywhere! This is my house!

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Gradually We Connected Aunt Catherine’s House to Water and Finally Gas, Renovated Every Convenience, and Then Discovered Her Home for Sale Online—The Story of Improving My Seventy-Eight-Year-Old Aunt’s Village Life, Only for Her to Leave for Sweden and Sell the House Without a Word

Little by little, we managed to hook up Aunt Margarets place to running water, and eventually, even gas.

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You Don’t Need a Wife—You Just Want a Housekeeper

You shouldnt need a wifeyou need a housekeeper. Mum, Bellas chewed up my pencil again! Sophie burst into

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I’m 45 and I No Longer Host Guests in My Home: Why I Chose Restaurants Over House Parties and Put My Comfort First

Im 45 years old, and I no longer welcome guests into my home. Some people, when they visit, completely

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This Is Not Your Home Alena gazed sadly around the house where she’d grown up from childhood. At eighteen, she was already completely disillusioned with life. Why was fate so cruel to her? Her beloved Nan had died, she’d failed to get into university not because she didn’t know the answers, but because a girl at the next desk had cheated from her paper and whispered something to the examiner when she handed it in. He frowned, demanded to see Alena’s answers, and then announced she was disqualified for cheating. She couldn’t prove anything. And it turned out that girl was the daughter of a local bigwig. How could you fight people like that? Now, after so many misfortunes, her mother had resurfaced, together with two brothers and a new husband. Where had they been all these years? Alena had been raised by her grandmother, her mum leaving before she even turned four. She had no pleasant memories of her mum from those few years. While Dad was at work, Mum left her alone and went out for fun. Even married, she never stopped looking for a “real man” and made no secret of it, either then or later, when Alena’s father died suddenly. Her mum, Tamara, didn’t grieve long. She packed her things, dumped her four-year-old on Grandma’s doorstep, sold the flat left by her late husband and left for parts unknown. Grandma Raya’s appeals to her conscience were in vain. Tamara visited now and then, but Alena was of no interest. She showed up again when Alena was twelve, bringing along her son, seven-year-old Svyatoslav, and demanded the old lady sign the house over to her. “No, Toma! You’re getting nothing!” Grandma flatly refused. “Sooner or later you’ll die and then it’ll be mine anyway!” snapped Tamara, glancing irritably at her daughter, packing Svyatoslav and slamming the door on her way out. “Why do you always argue when she turns up?” Alena asked her gran. “Because your mother is a selfish woman! I raised her badly. Didn’t discipline her enough!” Grandma retorted angrily. Grandma Raya fell ill suddenly. She’d never complained of her health, but one day, when Alena came home from school, she found her usually busy grandmother pale, sitting idle on the balcony. Alena had never seen her like that. “What’s wrong?” she asked, worried. “I’m not feeling well… Call an ambulance, darling,” her gran said calmly. The next days were a blur—hospital, drips, and then… death. Grandma Raya spent her last days in intensive care, where visitors weren’t allowed. Desperate with fear for her only real family, Alena dialed her mother. At first Tamara refused to come, but when Alena said Grandma was in ICU, she finally agreed—arriving only in time for the funeral. Three days later, she thrust a will under Alena’s nose. “This house now belongs to me and my sons! Oleg will be arriving soon. I know you don’t get along with him—so why not stay with Auntie Gally for a while?” Not a trace of grief in her voice. She actually seemed glad that Grandma Raya was gone—she was now the heir! Crushed with grief, Alena didn’t resist. The will was clear. For a time, she really did live with Auntie Gally, her father’s sister—a scatterbrained woman, never giving up hope of finding a rich husband, always surrounded by noisy, tipsy guests. Alena couldn’t stand it, especially when some started paying her unwanted attention. Terrified, Alena told her boyfriend, Pasha. “Enough of those sleazy old men eyeing you up!” he said. Then, decisively—remarkable for his nineteen years—he added: “I’ll talk to my dad. We have a flat on the edge of town. He promised I could have it when I started university. I’ve kept my end, now it’s his turn.” “I don’t really see how that helps me…” Alena stammered. “It means you and I will live there. Together!” said Pasha. “Will your parents ever agree to that?” “They have no choice! Consider this a proposal—will you be my wife and live with me?” Alena nearly cried with happiness. “Of course—yes!” Auntie Gally was thrilled, but Alena’s mother nearly ground her teeth to powder—“Getting married, are you? Look at you! Couldn’t get into university, so you found another way! Don’t expect any money from me! And that house is mine. You’re getting nothing!” Her mother’s words hurt deeply. Pasha could barely make sense of her tears, but he took his weeping fiancée home, where his parents tried to comfort her. Andrei Semyonovich listened to all Alena had suffered—more in a few months than many get in a lifetime. “You poor girl! What sort of woman is your mother?” exclaimed Pasha’s mother. “But what puzzles me,” said Andrei, “is why your mum is so desperate for the house if she has a will and keeps using it to threaten you…” “I don’t know…” sniffled Alena. “She always argued with Grandma over that house. First wanted her to sell it and hand over the money, then pushed her to sign it over. Grandma wouldn’t, said then we’d end up out on the street.” “Strange,” Andrei said thoughtfully. “Did you go to the notary after your gran died?” “No, why would I?” Alena asked, confused. “To process inheritance rights.” “But my mother’s the heir—it says so in the will! I’m just the grandchild. And Mum showed me the will.” “It’s not that simple,” said Andrei. “We’ll go to the notary after the weekend. For now, rest up.” Later, her mother tried to make her sign some documents, but Pasha intervened. “She’s not signing anything!” “Who are you to say?” Tamara snapped. “She’s an adult, she decides!” “I’m her future husband, and I think it would harm her. She won’t sign a thing.” Tamara screeched but had to leave empty-handed. Andrei’s suspicions only deepened. A few days later, he accompanied Alena to the notary. “Listen carefully, but check everything before signing!” he advised. The notary was scrupulous. Alena lodged her claim, and the next day they were told that a case had been opened for Alena’s inheritance. There was a savings account, left by Grandma Raya to pay for her education—of which Alena had known nothing. “What about the house?” Andrei enquired. “A deed of gift for the house was signed in the girl’s favour some time ago. No other documents exist.” “A deed of gift?” Alena gasped. “Yes. Your grandmother signed it to you several years back. Now you’re eighteen, you have full rights to the house.” “What about the will?” “It was written long ago and later cancelled. Your mum probably doesn’t know. The house is yours—you can live there as you wish.” Andrei’s suspicions were confirmed. “So what do I do now?” Alena asked, lost. “Tell your mother the house is yours—and she’ll have to leave.” “She’ll never do that! She’s already packed my things to throw them out!” “That’s what the police are for.” When Alena broke the news, Tamara exploded: “You little cow! Chucking your own mother out, are you? You can clear off! Who told you this rubbish? That fiancé of yours? I have a will!” “Exactly! Now get lost, or I’ll break your legs for good measure!” Oleg joined in. Andrei Semyonovich stood firm. “You should know, threatening behaviour is a criminal offence,” he said, polite but firm. “And who are you to tell me what’s what? We’re selling this house. Buyers are coming today!” Oleg sneered. But instead of buyers, the police arrived. Seeing proof of Alena’s ownership, they ordered Tamara and company to vacate, warning of prosecution if they didn’t. Furious, Tamara, her husband and sons had no choice but to leave. Alena returned home, with Pasha moving in too, for her safety. He was right—Tamara and Oleg kept pestering Alena for weeks. When Tamara heard about the bank account, she went after it, managing to secure part of it by law. But she could not get the house, no matter what she tried. Only after consulting every solicitor she could did Tamara finally give up and move away with her family. Alena never saw her again. Alena and Pasha married. The next summer Alena got into her dream university course, and by her third year she gave birth to their first child. Surrounded by her loving husband and his family, who had supported her through the darkest times, she finally found happiness. By Odette

This is Not Your Home I glanced with sadness around the little house where Id grown up. At eighteen