I met a man who is almost 10 years older than me. I definitely decided for myself that I wanted to communicate with him, to grow and develop, to build a further serious relationship, to have children with him.
I certainly wanted to feel protected. In addition, he has financial stability, and I so wanted to go abroad, to receive expensive gifts, to live in a beautiful, well-repaired apartment, to help my mother financially. In general, I wanted to get all the things I could not afford before I met him. Especially since I really liked my man. He was so nice, tall, handsome and well-mannered. I thought I could be really happy. We could make a strong family with him.
I didn’t have a father, and I always wanted a man’s shoulder to lean on. I note that we have common interests, despite the ten-year age difference. He introduced me to his acquaintances and friends. In addition, he is proud to have me. And when communicating with acquaintances he constantly emphasizes it. I can be called both beautiful and interesting. I can hold a conversation on any topic, I know several foreign languages.
But when I decided to share my joy with my mother, she took my news differently. She said that can not be forty-year-old man to such an age to be completely free. As a result, the conversation didn’t work out, and my mother and I had an argument. I didn’t really take her belief that if he wasn’t married, he was either drinking or a bum. She doesn’t even know him.
And I like the way he looks after me so much. My man appreciates my actions, and his words and actions mean something to me. Or maybe she’s afraid that he has children. And having to provide not only for me, but for them as well? I asked him about this and he said he wasn’t married and didn’t have children. He said he had been with several girls, that he took care of his parents who were sick all the time. And the most important thing in his life is work, career, financial stability. Despite this, he wants a family and children. He has serious intentions.
How can I convince my mother that not all normal men marry early? I do not want to fight with her, but I do not want to break up with my man either. I’m already 30 years old. That’s why I don’t want to be alone. I’m tired of living with my mother, listening to her reproaches, to live her life. After all, at every age people have their own needs and desires.
And maybe she is afraid of being alone? I had never had a serious relationship with a man before, just a little flirting. It’s so easy for my mom to tell me I shouldn’t be in a relationship with him because he’s not right for me. She didn’t even want to talk to me? But you can’t do that either, can you?
