I have been married for six years and have a child. My husband sought me out for a long time, and at that time I could not get over my ex-boyfriend. When he called me to marry him, I agreed.
After giving birth I gained five extra kilos, but in a month I had my figure back completely. Over time, I gained a little weight again, but it was almost imperceptible, I didn’t even have to change my clothes. But my husband started making fun of me, calling me fat, and now he is seriously telling me that I need to lose weight. He reproaches me that I am not as beautiful as I was when we met. But he has changed during this time! When I told him this in response to another taunt, he took offense. Then he said that a man of any age and any appearance women like.
We quarreled, my husband did not even apologize. I decided to go on a diet to prove to him that I am still beautiful and men can like me. I lost three pounds, but instead of support and compliments I heard: “Now you can forget about going to the beach in shorts. Then he started showing me pictures of slim girls, giving me as an example.
The last straw was a list that my husband sent me from work. Apparently his demands to voice openly did not have the courage. He wrote that I should lose weight, remove wrinkles around my eyes and slightly enlarge my lips. I did not even begin to ask where to get the money for all these procedures, just sent their wishes. The first item was to remove the beer belly, then bald spots and grow a little taller, since I like tall and slender men.
When I showed my friend our correspondence, she said that we are slowly but surely approaching divorce if we do not stop these games. But I do not care about his attitude to me, I realized that I was wrong about the man. And the love had evaporated somewhere.
