I started dating my husband back in college. We lived together for 10 years and had a long-awaited daughter. He never let her out of his arms, got up at night, went for walks, and could play with her for hours at home. I had a long treatment before I was able to get pregnant, which is also why we treasured our treasure so much.
But when the baby was 5 years old, my husband gave me a shock – he packed up and left. There were no preconditions for that. No delays at work or incomprehensible financial expenditures, no hints of a relationship on the side. Unbounded trust and understanding. And love, I thought. But it wasn’t like that. He explained that he didn’t want a scandal, that he would help and participate in his daughter’s life, but that he loved someone else and would live with her.
Later it turned out that we had mutual acquaintances. The town is small and everyone knows each other through someone. That’s how I found out that this girl had been diagnosed with infertility for years. That it was because of this that her first husband left her. And now my husband is leaving me and my daughter for her. I don’t know if he knows, and maybe I should warn him. The doctors said I can’t have any more babies, and he always wanted a big family. Maybe he’s hoping for something there, so he left me.
I love him very much, I hope he comes to his senses and I’m waiting. It’s been six months since he left, and in those six months he’s been very little with us. He comes a couple of times a month, says he works a lot. He helps with money, as he promised, but my daughter needs her father. She misses him very much, cries without him. She does not understand why she has become a stranger to him so suddenly. My husband does not even want to take her on weekends. He won’t explain anything, and he won’t talk to me either. I’m afraid that for the sake of this girl he will completely abandon his daughter. He has not yet filed for divorce, I do not know why he is dragging it out. I’m not going to do it myself. Maybe I should do what I can to keep our family together.
To tell her about her infertility, to talk to her myself, I can not decide. My parents do not believe in what ispovedi.com is happening, they have always had a better opinion of my husband. And his family stopped contacting me at all. I don’t even know how to go on living and how to relate to all of this. We wanted to take another baby from the orphanage, we were planning to expand our living space, so many plans, so much love was in our family. I can’t believe it’s all happening to me.
