My husband betrayed me

I have been in this difficult situation for a year now. My husband (50 years old) has another woman, they work together. My husband refuses, says he has no one, but lately he has changed a lot, he has become irritable, simply inadequate, he can explode over a trifle, he swears and says that I provoke him to it with my suspicions of adultery. He lies all the time, even about little things, and has become a complete stranger, aloof. Often I hear him say: “I have always been alone, you never supported me, did not understand, I can not live like that anymore, I’ll go away. At these words I answer him: “Go, I do not keep you. And so almost every day.

My husband was military, we started from scratch, we often had no money for food and clothes, all this was in the 90s. I waited for him from business trips, I always supported him. And now he has a high position, a good job, an expensive car, wealth. And he is completely different. He reproaches me for not working, for not treating him well, and he wants peace and quiet.

A friend of mine said: “whatever you find out, don’t worry about it.” She works with my husband, and I asked her if she knew anything. And I got this answer. My husband has always paid attention to other women. And now he’s just inadequate, there are a lot of unmarried women at his work who want everything at once.

Or maybe he’s in love. I can not understand why he does not leave himself, as if waiting for me to throw him out myself, with a scandal. I am very uneasy, we are together for 30 years. He is not a gift, but I love him. And I do not know how to be. He just betrayed me.

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My husband betrayed me