My brother is cheating on his wife

I live with my parents, and today my older brother came to visit us from another city for a couple of days, he needed to bring something home. I should say at once that we have a rather warm relationship with him, we always help each other, in deed and in word.

And so it is evening, we are all sitting in a family circle, chatting, my brother often goes to the phone and texting with someone, and always smiling. I thought it was his wife (a very nice girl, our whole family, close and distant relatives love and respect her very much), but a little later my brother said that she was already asleep, and still continued to correspond. I paid almost no attention to all this until I took his phone just to look, pressed the start button and saw a message from a certain girl. There was nothing suspicious about it, but then three more messages came in and the last two were very flirty with a kiss at the end.

Everything became clear. My brother was corresponding with each other for the rest of the evening, but I never got to see anything more to be 100% sure or on the contrary to see with my own eyes that I was wrong and there was nothing like that there (I highly doubt that, but still I have a small hope that I misunderstood all that). The whole time my brother was turning the phone away from everyone, you wouldn’t know it, but it was obvious to me, because you wouldn’t hold the phone like that if there was nothing to hide.

When I wanted to go into the phone later that night and read everything, it turned out that there was a password, and a very long one, although not so long ago there were no passwords at all. Of course, I have been replaying this situation in my head all evening and into the night, wondering what I should do. I can’t tell my brother’s wife that easily, they have a small child. It would be a blow to her, she and I are friends, I know that he was her first in every way. But I’m not going to make excuses for my brother either. I did not even think he was capable of such a despicable act, because no more than six months ago he told the whole family that he loved his wife and that is why he chose her and married her, made her a child. He said she was the best girl he ever had.

I was used to trusting his word, because he usually kept it and did everything he said. And now this whole wall fell before my eyes today, I was very disappointed in him and probably in other men as well. I want to tell my mom everything and discuss it with her, we have a very trusting relationship and if I ask, she will never tell anyone anything, but at least she will be aware of it, if anything, she and I will think what to do.

I really don’t want to ruin their marriage, I hope that my brother is temporary and will come to his senses, but here’s how to give him a hint about it.

And another thing – his mistress has a very familiar name, all around my brother there are two girls with the same name – a cousin of his wife and his ex-girlfriend, a very unpleasant person who has always used my brother as a reserve airfield, and he kept on loving her. She lives in the same town as our parents, well my brother lived until he left. I really hope it’s some other girl he doesn’t have that much in common with.

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My brother is cheating on his wife