My first marriage ended in divorce. The thing is that I can’t have children, and my husband loves them very much. But it was his fault, too, because not only did he not talk me out of my first abortion, but he was also supportive. Back then, our finances and housing were bad, he was looking for a job, and then we got pregnant. So we decided that it was too early, we needed to get back on our feet. And when things got a little bit better, it turned out that I wouldn’t have any more children. And what’s a family without kids?
My second marriage was a hasty one, to spite my ex-husband. My second husband turned out to be a gambling addict and spent all his money on slot machines. Then he asked me for money for commuting to work and lunch. How could I not give him money? I was patient in order not to give reason to talk about my next divorce. We have a small town (district center), almost everyone knows each other. And my ex-husband lives here, got married and has two children. Although the fact that her husband plays, many know, it can not hide. My acquaintance’s son also got into it, and I found out about my husband from her.
I wasn’t going to cure him of gambling addiction, let his parents and brother do it. I divorced and was alone for two years. I make good money, I have an apartment and a car, but I am not happy. I no longer hope to meet a decent man, because there was a third marriage. I didn’t want to get married, I was afraid to trust myself. It turned out not for nothing. The man said he was sent on a business trip and disappeared forever, taking my jewelry and money.
I did not write a statement, so as not to embarrass myself. I decided that no man would ever set foot in my apartment again.
