I am 31 years old, I was married. Now I want to get married again, I met a man. I split up with my last husband a few years ago. We are planning to get married in a few months. We both want children. But for some reason I have very little energy. In my last marriage I could hardly cope with everyday life and was very tired. I’m slow and weak physically. I’m not much of a hostess. But that’s not why we broke up, I left for another reason.
My ex-husband was not too good at housework, I had to talk him into doing men’s work at home for a long time. If it was just my laziness, that is one thing. That could be overcome. But my body won’t let me do it. If I overexert it, I get weak or sick. I’ve had all sorts of tests, everything is more or less normal, except for iron deficiency.
But it’s not that important. I’m afraid that if I struggle to cope with the household for 2 people, then whether I will pull the baby? After all, when I give birth, it will be too late to change something. I do not want to be a bad wife and mother. But I do not want to be alone. Some people say that with the birth of a child will add strength. Who has had it?
