A guy met me, wooed me very nicely and quite convincingly promised a strong relationship. We started dating. We slept together. I started noticing that he hides his phone or puts it on air mode. Asked why he did this, he said he didn’t want us to be disturbed.
He has only stayed with me three nights in a row, but he usually goes home. I’ve been to his place twice (he lives in a private house) and I felt something was wrong. He said he wanted to invite a friend over, and I asked him too. He did, and it was terrifying! We were playing Monopoly in the kitchen, and then the window breaks, a rock flies out saying, “who did you bring home?” I ran up to the second floor while they were figuring things out. She left. It turned out that they had lived together for two years and were still in touch today.
I was shocked. The whole time he was lying to me. I can’t get my head around it, how can you do that? They broke up sort of, she took things away. We talked to this girl on the phone. I said I had no idea he was in a relationship. He met me yesterday after work and asked to talk. I listened, asks for forgiveness, asks for a chance. And I can just imagine him sleeping with me and then driving home and telling me how he feels and sleeping with her.
Also as far as I know he asked the girl he lived with to go back to her. Now he writes to me that this is not the end, he will get his way. I calmly replied that I did not want him to count on anything.
I could not think that this can happen. I am hurt, I was humiliated. How to get through all this and not completely lose confidence in people? I was married, divorced. I was alone for a year. And then I decided to give it a chance and it happened. I’m 27 years old.
