My husband has a child with his ex-girlfriend. They broke up before they found out she was pregnant, then they got back together for the baby, but it didn’t work out. Before the wedding, this person called my future husband, threatening to do something to herself, saying she was coming over now. It’s nighttime, we live 300 km away from her, and she is also married. Anyway, since then I can’t stand her.
My husband’s daughter is seven years old. We have a normal relationship with her. I take care of her, take care of her, make up her leisure time, but love her… No, I only love my child. Sometimes when we take her to visit, she doesn’t talk, but after a couple of hours or the next day, she won’t let go of me. Our joint child (my son is 3 years old) for a long time she did not like and was very jealous, but now she is playing with him.
What annoys me the most in this situation is my mother-in-law. It is noticeable that she loves her granddaughter more than her grandson. And when it comes to parenting, there are a lot of disagreements. I told her that it was too late to go to the first grade at 8, and she immediately retorted: “You have a son, so decide, let him go to school at 5 years old at least. It’s a shame.
