My brother is 26 years old and he’s dating a girl that my mother and I don’t like. We hope that he will realize that she is not the right person for him.
The girl is divorced and has no children. She frequently changes jobs, and now she’s living off her brother’s money, saying she was promised a job at some big, famous company. She often comes to our house, and yesterday she stayed in her brother’s room at night. When I heard them talking in a high-pitched voice, I snuck up to the door and overheard. I found out that the girl had debts and the brother was pissed that she wanted to take out a loan again. The brother yelled that he wasn’t going to pay for her anymore, let her parents do it. When I heard the noise, I ran to my mom’s room. And just in time, my brother went out for a smoke.
Now I wonder if I should tell my mom about what I heard. I’m afraid my brother will get very angry and I’ll get hurt. My mom is not a very good defense, and we don’t have a father. I’m only 14 years old, I can’t protect myself. But I don’t want my brother to pay other people’s debts when we can barely afford to live on our own.