I graduated from high school ten years ago. During that time, he had already been married and divorced. About two weeks ago, I ran into a former classmate I had a crush on in high school. I remember courting her at the time, paying attention to her, but she quickly put me in my place, looking at me as if I were nothing.
When I met her she was very excited, cuddling and kissing me. She asked about my personal life, asked where I worked and where I lived. Then we exchanged phone numbers.
I was no longer glad that I met her. On social media, she writes all sorts of nonsense, sends selfies of herself with the caption: “did you get it?” or “what do you think?” I try to answer neutrally or with emoticons. And yesterday she offered to meet me in a cafe. I will go only out of curiosity, but also maybe to reject her as she once did me. I don’t believe that 10 years ago you dislike a man so much that you ask him to go far away, and then suddenly you start loving him.
Now I look at the woman I was once in love with and I don’t understand what was there to love about her? She was a narcissist, she was a narcissist and she still is. You look at her feed, what she likes and writes, and you start to realize that she is stuck in the tenth grade in terms of development.
It’s a shame that as a teenager, you obviously don’t think in the right way…
