My former mother-in-law is always watching over our family.
My ex-mother-in-law, Linda, is 52 years old and shes the mother of my late wife, Emily. I married Emily when I was 23. She became pregnant just before our wedding and we had a daughter, Sophie.
Sadly, just two years later, our life together came to an abrupt end: my wife became seriously ill and passed away not long after.
It was just Sophie and me then. I made the decision to move to a different city, back to my parents house. It made sense I worked ten-hour days and my mum and dad could care for Sophie. That was our arrangement.
Before long, I received a promotion at work and bought a house about thirty minutes from my parents. From that point on, Sophie would either be cared for by my parents or a hired nanny (I insisted they take proper breaks; I didnt want to burden them). Sophie is now eight years old.
At some point, Linda decided to relocate to our city so she could be near her granddaughter. It was quite a shock, to be honest Not because of her reasons (theyre completely understandable!), but because she moved from hundreds of miles away!
Alright then, I thought. Emily was her only child, and it seems Sophie is her only grandchild. She probably doesnt want to be alone.
But ever since Linda moved nearby, there have been issues
To begin with, she is in my house for most of the day. And I mean, every day, including when I come home from work. As if that wasnt enough, Linda has started coming over at weekends as wellComing over is putting it lightly she sits in our living room literally from morning until evening.
Shes even here when Sophies at school. These are some of her justifications:
Theres nobody to clean the house, so I stay. Dust appears daily, you cant manage without a woman about.
The flowers are drooping; a couple more days and theyll be thrown out.
Burglars were nosing about the gardens yesterday, but didnt try this house because I was here.
Dont worry, Im not after your money.
I almost wonder whether she thinks her daughters spirit is haunting the house with me. More than once, Ive caught her talking to someone, when theres no one else in the room!
After many, many conversations, I found her behaviour deeply embarrassing and felt it was an invasion of my personal space. Linda seemed to take my concerns on board. But then
Last week, things went too far. The thing is, Ive been seeing a woman called Alice for a year and a half. Last weekend seemed like the perfect time for an evening together at my place Sophie was staying with my parents, and I invited Alice round.
We cooked dinner, watched a film everything was lovely. We were relaxing on the sofa when I suddenly heard a faint thud and a rustling from the hallway. I looked up, startled, and saw Lindas vague silhouette by the door. Shed apparently let herself in without knocking, ringing, or asking.
What, have the flowers drooped again?
But I wasnt even the one to express my irritation Linda was absolutely livid. Before I could even protest, she accused me of betraying and disrespecting the memory of my late wife.
I was absolutely stunned by her nerve. I confronted her, explained everything to her, took the house key she had, and told her to leave:
Youre not welcome here anymore!
Now, Linda has no one else in her life, and several people my own parents included have advised me to reconsider. Out of decency, perhaps I should reach a compromise and let Sophie visit her grandmother from time to time, since she is her granddaughter. But as for our home, it will remain off limits to Linda. Thats final.












