And who do you think you are, telling me what to do! Iris Henderson hurled the dishcloth straight into her daughter-in-laws face. Youre living in *my* house, eating *my* food!
Emma wiped her face, clenched her fists. Three months married, and every day felt like a battlefield.
I do the washing up, the cooking, the cleaning! What more do you want from me?
I want you to keep your mouth shut, thats what! Tagging along here with another mans child, bold as brass!
Little Lucy peeped nervously round the kitchen door. Four years old, and she already understood Nanna was angry.
Mum, thats enough! Thomas stepped in from the garden, boots muddy from work. Whats going on now?
Oh, this! Your wifes got a cheek! I tell her the soups too salty, she gives me lip!
The soups fine, Emma said, exhausted. Youre having a go on purpose.
Look at her! Did you hear that? She says Im picking on her, in my own home!
Thomas went over to Emma and placed an arm round her shoulders.
Mum, you need to stop. Emma works hard all day, but you just argue.
Oh, I see! So now its you against your own mother? I raised you, fed you, and this is what I get!
The old woman stormed out, slamming the door behind her. Silence settled over the kitchen.
Im sorry, Thomas stroked Emmas head. Shes just become unbearable as she gets older.
Thomas, maybe we should rent somewhere? Even just a room?
With what money? Im a tractor driver, not a manager. We barely scrape by as it is.
Emma nestled into him. He was a good man, kind and hardworking. But his mother she was a nightmare.
Wed met at a village fete. I was selling knitted scarves and hats, Thomas bought some socks. We got talking. He told me straight away that he didnt mind that I had a child he loved kids.
We had a modest wedding. Iris Henderson had taken a dislike to me from day one. Young, educated, an accountant. While her own son just a farm worker.
Gran, dinners ready, Lucy tugged at my skirt.
Coming, sweetheart.
At dinner, Iris shoved her plate away with a flourish.
Well, this is inedible. You cook this for pigs, not people!
Mum! Thomas banged his fist on the table. Thats enough!
Im only saying the truth! Look at Becky, now *shes* a real homemaker! Not like this one!
Becky Iriss daughter. Lives in town, visits once a year. The house is in her name, even though she never stays here.
If you dont like my cooking, youre free to do it yourself, I replied calmly.
How dare you! she snapped, leaping up. Why, Ill
That’s it! Thomas put himself between us. Mum, either calm down or were leaving. Tonight.
Where to? Out on the street? The house isnt yours!
It was true. The house was in Beckys name. We lived there by her goodwill.
***
A Heavy Burden
That night I couldnt sleep. Thomas held me and whispered,
Hold on, love. One day Ill get a tractor of my own. Start up my own business. Well earn enough for our own place.
But its expensive, Thomas…
Ill find an old one, fix it up I know how. Just believe in me.
In the morning, nausea woke me. I dashed to the bathroom. Could it be?
The test showed two blue lines.
Thomas! I burst into the bedroom. Look!
He rubbed his eyes, peered at the test, and suddenly sprang up, spinning me around.
Emma! Darling! Were having a baby!
Shh! Your mother will hear!
But it was too late. Iris appeared in the doorway.
Whats this racket?
Mum! Were having a baby! Thomas practically beamed.
Her lips pressed into a thin line.
And where do you plan to put it? Were packed in as it is. When Becky visits, shell throw you out.
She wont! Thomas snapped. This is my home too!
House belongs to Becky. Remember? I signed it over. Youre just a lodger.
The joy drained from the room. I sat heavily on the bed.
A month later, the worst happened. I was carrying a heavy bucket theres no running water in her precious house a sharp pain, crimson staining my trousers…
Thomas! I yelled.
A miscarriage. The doctors said: too much stress, too much strain. What rest was I supposed to get, living with Iris?
I lay in hospital, staring at the ceiling. I was done. Couldnt do it any longer.
Im leaving him, I confessed to my friend by phone. I just cant.
But Emma, Thomas is a good bloke. He loves you.
Yes, he does. But with his mother… Ill be crushed.
Thomas arrived from work, filthy, tired, a bunch of wildflowers clutched in his hand.
Emma, darling, please forgive me. Its my fault. I should have kept you safe.
Thomas, I cant live there any more.
I know. Ill get a loan. Well rent a flat.
Theyll never lend you enough. Your wages are too low.
Ill get by. Ive found a second job. Nights on the dairy farm. Driving by day, milking cows by night.
Youll wear yourself out!
Ill be fine. Id move mountains for you.
They discharged me a week later. Iris met me at the door.
Couldn’t keep it, could you? I knew you were too feeble.
I brushed past her, silent. She wasnt worth my tears.
Thomas worked like a slave. Tractor-driving mornings, the dairy at night. Three hours sleep, if that.
I can get a job, I told him. There’s a vacancy for an accountant at the office.
They only pay pennies.
Every penny counts.
I started work. Each morning, Lucy to nursery, then me to the office. Evenings Id collect her, cook, tidy. Iris picked away just as before, but Id learnt to tune her out.
***
A Place of Our Own
Thomas was still saving for a tractor. Found an old wreck for sale, owner almost giving it away.
Go on, get a loan, I told him. Fix it up and well work for ourselves.
What if it doesnt work?
It will. Youve got golden hands.
He got the loan. We bought the tractor. It looked like junk, rusted and falling apart.
Brilliant! cackled Iris. Youve wasted your money on a heap of scrap!
Thomas said nothing, just buried himself in engine parts night after night, torch between his teeth, me by his side handing him tools.
Go to bed, love. Youre worn out.
No. We started together, well finish together.
A month of evening graft. Then two. Neighbours sniggered there goes the daft driver and his pile of metal.
But one morning, it spluttered and roared to life. Thomas just sat at the wheel, not quite believing it.
Emma! It starts! It runs!
I dashed out and hugged him, both of us giddy.
I knew youd do it. I never doubted you!
First job: plough old Petes field. Second, fetch logs for Mrs Evans. Third, fourth… the money started coming in.
Then I felt the queasiness again one morning.
Thomas, Im pregnant again.
This time, no lifting a finger! Promise me? Ill do everything.
He looked after me like I was made of glass. Wouldnt even let me carry a cup. Iris grumbled:
Delicate little thing! I raised three, never fussed! Look at her!
But Thomas held firm. No more strain for me.
At seven months gone, Becky arrived, her husband in tow, full of plans.
Mum, were selling the house. Got a good offer. Youll move in with us.
And what about them? Iris asked, nodding at us.
What about them? Theyll have to sort themselves out.
Becky, I was born in this house! Its my home too! protested Thomas.
Is it? The deeds are in my name. Dont forget it.
When do you want us out? I asked plainly.
In a month.
Thomas simmered with rage. I squeezed his shoulder shh, dont.
That night we just sat, arms wrapped around each other.
What will we do? Babys due soon.
Well find something. All that matters is were together.
He worked like a demon. The tractor rattled from dawn till dark. In a week, he earned more than he used to in a month.
Then came a call from Mr. Harris an old farmer from the next village.
Thomas, Im selling up. Old but solid house. Decent price. Fancy a look?
We went. The place was ancient but sturdy. Stove, three rooms, a shed.
How much are you after? Thomas asked.
Mr. Harris named his price. We had half, not all.
Could we pay in instalments? Thomas offered. Half now, half in six months.
Deal. Youre good people.
We drove home on cloud nine. Iris met us at the front door.
Where have you been? Beckys brought the papers!
Wonderful, I answered, calm as anything. Were moving out.
Where to? Under a bridge?
To our own house. We bought it.
She stopped in her tracks, lost for words.
Rubbish! Whered you find the cash?
We worked for it, Thomas smiled, his arm around me. While you were complaining, we were getting on.
We packed up in two weeks. Not much to take whats truly yours living in someone elses house?
Lucy ran from room to room, the little dog barking.
Mum, is this really our house?
Ours, darling. All ours.
Iris turned up the day before we moved in. Hovered in the doorway.
Thomas, Ive been thinking… perhaps youll take me in too? The citys stuffy and small.
No, Mum. You made your choice. You live with Becky.
But Im your mother!
Mothers dont call their grandchildren strangers. Goodbye.
He gently closed the door. It hurt, but it was the right thing.
Matthew was born in March. Healthy, strong, a hearty set of lungs.
Just like his dad! the midwife laughed.
Thomas cradled him, almost scared to breathe.
Thank you, Emma. For everything.
No, love. Thank you for never giving up. For believing in us.
We settled in, planting the veg patch, getting chickens. The tractor kept us going. Evenings, wed sit on the doorstep, watching Lucy run around with the dog while Matthew slept in his crib.
You know, I said to Thomas, Im happy.
Me too.
Remember how hard it was? I thought Id break sometimes.
But you didnt. Youre strong.
Were strong. Together.
The sun set over the woods. Bread and milk scented our real home ours.
No one would put us down, or drive us out, or call us strangers.
Here, we could live, love, raise our children.
Here, we could be truly happy.
***
Dear readers, every family has its trials, and sometimes they seem impossible. Emma and Thomass story is a mirror maybe you see your hurdles there, and the strength that helps you get through.
Thats how we all carry on: from hardship to happiness, wandering our own path until fortune smiles.
But what do you think should Thomas have stood up to his mother sooner, or was it right to wait? What makes a real home for you walls and roof, or the warmth inside?
Share your thoughts, because life is a school, and every lesson is precious!












