You Just Don’t Know How Lucky You Are — Half a million? — Karina read the notification on her phone three times before the numbers made sense. — You took out a loan for half a million pounds? Dimitri sat on the sofa, glued to his smartphone, not even glancing up. — Oh, that… Yes, just a small thing, for Mum’s house renovations. You know, her pipes are leaking, the flooring’s ruined, the wallpaper’s going mildewy… — Hold on. — Karina sank into the nearest armchair, her legs too weak to stand. — You took out a loan. For half a million. And gave it all to your mother? Without saying a word to me? Dimitri finally looked up, baffled, as if his wife was asking about something perfectly normal. — Karina, it’s my mum. She lives alone, her pension’s tiny. Who else would help her? — What about discussing it with me? — Karina was shouting now, unable to stop. — Asking my opinion? At least warning me? — You’d have started arguing, — Dimitri shrugged. — And Mum needed the money urgently. Four years. Four years she’d put up with that woman who called every evening to check what Dima had eaten for dinner. Who turned up without warning and commented on the state of the flat. Who always sat Karina at the far end of the table during family meals. — Don’t make a mountain out of a molehill, — Dimitri said in his usual calm tone. — We’ll manage. We can pay it off quickly, it’s no big deal. It’s family. Hot, angry tears burst forth. Karina wiped them away, smearing mascara across her cheeks. — Family? Am I “family”? Or just an accessory? Remember when your mum decided it was time we switched cars and you sold ours without asking? When she threw my things out of the spare room because she “couldn’t sleep surrounded by someone else’s junk”? When on my birthday, you and she went fridge shopping for her? — All details, — Dimitri waved off. — You’re just tired, you need a break. Karina looked at the man she married—tall, soft-featured, those dimples she once found charming. Now, all she saw was a thirty-something child, unable to cut the apron strings. — We’ll get through it, — he repeated like a mantra. — Love conquers all. Karina stood up and walked to the bedroom. Two large duffle bags sat on the top shelf—the ones she’d brought when she first moved in. She hauled them down, opened the wardrobe and started packing. Twenty minutes later, Dimitri appeared, just as the first bag was stuffed full. — What are you doing? Karina, don’t be ridiculous. You’re not serious, are you? She didn’t answer. Folded jumpers, jeans, underwear. Reached for her jewellery box—gifts from parents and friends, nothing from him. — Where will you go? Back to your mum? She’s in Manchester! She zipped the second bag. Checked her handbag—passport, card, keys to her mum’s flat, kept just in case. — Karina, say something! You can’t just leave. I love you! She gave him a long look. Then picked up her bags and walked out. …Next morning, Karina stood at the register office holding the divorce application, feeling a strange calm inside, despite the grey drizzle outside. The decision was made. The first call came at 2.30am. Karina, startled on Lena’s sofa, confused about where she was. — We need to talk, — Dimitri was ragged, incoherent. — I understand now, I’ll change. Give me another chance. She hung up. Twenty minutes later, the phone rang again. — Karina, I can’t live without you. You are my reason to go on. By morning, forty-three messages had arrived—tearful confessions, promises, threats. “If you don’t come back, I don’t know what I’ll do.” “Mum says you’re just being difficult.” “I’ll wait for you forever.” A week later, he began showing up at her work. Karina went for lunch and found him by the sandwich shop. Headed for the Tube, spotted him across the street. — Just passing by, — he’d smile when she demanded an explanation. — Wanted to see you. One evening, the doorbell rang at Lena’s flat. Expecting the pizza delivery, Karina opened the door. Dimitri stood there—bouquet of red roses. — Just one chance, — he whispered. — That’s all I’m asking. Karina shut the door. He stood outside for two hours before neighbours threatened to call the police. Eventually, she learned to live with it—as one does with chronic pain. Ignoring messages, screening calls from unknown numbers, not looking over her shoulder. She switched jobs for remote work, moved to a sleepy suburb where Dimitri was unlikely to show up. The divorce was finalised three months later. Karina walked out of court, paper in hand, tears streaming—not of grief, but relief. At first, freedom was terrifyingly empty. She’d always checked her choices with someone, even if that someone always decided anyway. Now, she could buy any yoghurt in the shop, without worrying if Elena Victoria approved. Watch any film she liked, without being told “proper women don’t watch that”. She could breathe. She signed up for English lessons—a long-held dream, which Dimitri dismissed as “a waste of money”. Started attending sunrise yoga. Took a solo weekend trip to Cornwall, wandering the streets and eating clotted cream fudge. After six months, the calls and messages stopped. Karina waited another month, then realised she could finally relax. Landed a job at a marketing agency—bright office, young team, exciting projects. Life was looking up. …She met Andrew at a work do her colleague, Mary, convinced her to attend. — This is our lead programmer, — Mary introduced her to a tall man in wire-rimmed glasses. — Andrew, meet Karina from marketing. He shook her hand—firm but gentle. Smiled, simple and sincere. — You ducked out of karaoke too? — he nodded at the stage, where finance was butchering “Wonderwall”. — Got to preserve my nerves, — Karina grinned. They talked all evening—books, travel, life’s quirks. Andrew listened more than he spoke. He asked questions and waited for the answers—never lectured or explained how she should live. When he discovered she was divorced, he simply nodded and changed the subject. …Six months later, they moved in together, picking a cosy, light-filled flat in a quiet London square. — Are you sure you like this one? — Karina checked, viewing the place. — Do you? — Andrew replied. — I love it. — Then it’s settled. Those small things—the right to her own opinion, respected—mattered far more than grand declarations of love. He proposed on the building’s rooftop at sunset, the sky awash in gold and pink. Produced a tiny box—inside, a diamond ring. — I’m rubbish at speeches, — Andrew admitted. — But I want to wake up next to you every day. If you’re willing to put up with my snoring and my love of bad coffee. Karina laughed through tears and nodded… …One May evening, as usual, Andrew stayed late at work—deadline panic, a final bug in the code. Karina was making pasta, humming with the radio, when the doorbell rang. Sharp, insistent, demanding. She looked through the peephole—and recoiled. Dimitri stood on the landing. Pale, hollow-eyed, rumpled shirt. Two years. Two years of silence—and now, he was here. — Karina, open up! — his fist pounding the door. — I know you’re in there! We need to talk! Karina grabbed her phone and dialled Andrew. Engaged. — We still love each other! — Dimitri shouted from outside. — You can’t be with someone else! It’s wrong! The door shook—he threw his whole weight against it, trying to break in. Karina pressed her back to the door, bracing hard. — Go away! — she screamed. — I’ll call the police! — You’re my wife! — his voice cracked. — You were mine, you’ll stay mine! Two years I waited for you to come to your senses! Two years! — We’re divorced! It’s over! — It’s not over! — he shoved the door again. — I’ve changed! Mum says you don’t appreciate your own happiness! Open up, let’s talk! Through the peephole, his face twisted—obsessed, unrecognisable. Karina dialled three digits. — Dima! One call; the police will be here. Leave. Now. Dimitri froze. Silent. Then turned and stormed off down the stairs. The main door slammed below. Karina slid to the floor, her heart pounding. Thirty minutes passed before she could ring Andrew. She filed a police report the next day. The local officer—a kindly, mustached man—took down details, listened, nodded. — We’ll handle it. He’ll get a warning. What he said to Dimitri, Karina never knew. But her ex-husband never showed up again. No calls. No texts. No “chance” encounters. The wedding took place in early June, at a small country pub—twenty friends, just those closest to them. No fuss, no groom’s side relatives laying down “traditions”. Karina stood opposite Andrew in a simple white dress, holding his warm hands. Outside, the birch trees rustled, carrying scents of flowers and fresh-cut grass. — Do you…? — the registrar began. — I do, — Karina interrupted, and everyone laughed. Andrew slipped the ring on—a thin gold band, engraved inside. Three words: “Forever with you”. Karina lifted her gaze to this man who would be her husband. Not a mummy’s boy, not a possessive stalker. Just a man who listened, respected, and loved. Ahead lay a life where her voice finally mattered…

“Half a million?” Catherine stared at the notification on her phone, blinking three times before the numbers made sense. “You took out a loan for half a million pounds?”

James was sitting on the living room sofa, hunched over his own phone, not even looking up.

“Oh, that Yes, just a little something, for Mums renovations. You know, her pipes keep leaking, the floors warped, the wallpapers peeling”

“Wait a minute.” Catherine collapsed onto the armchair, her knees refusing to hold her. “You got a loan? For half a million? And gave all of it to your mother? Without even telling me?”

James finally lifted his gaze from the screen, squinting at her with genuine confusion, as if shed asked something utterly obvious.

“Cathy, its Mum. She lives alone, pensions next to nothing. Who else will help her?”

“And you couldnt talk to me first?” Catherines voice rose with a fury she could barely contain. “You didnt even ask what I thought? Or warn me?”

“Youd only argue.” James shrugged. “And Mum needed it urgently.”

Four years. Four years shed endured that woman, who called every evening, grilling James about his dinner. Who showed up unannounced and critiqued the flats cleanliness. Who orchestrated every family dinner so Catherine landed at the far end of the table.

“Dont make a mountain out of a molehill,” James continued in that infuriatingly calm tone. “Well cope. Well pay it off quickly; its not such a large amount, really. Family comes first.”

Hot, angry tears streamed down Catherines cheeks; she wiped them away, smearing mascara with the back of her hand.

“Family? And what am I? A footnote? Do you remember when your mother decided it was time to change the car, and you sold ours without asking me? Or when she tossed my things out of the guest room because ‘its uncomfortable sleeping among someone elses clutter’? That birthday when you left with her to shop for her new fridge?”

“Its all little things,” James brushed it off. “Youre over-tired, love. You need a break.”

Catherine stared at the man she once adored tall, gentle-featured, with the dimples she used to find endearing. Now, all she saw was a thirty-year-old boy who couldn’t cut the apron strings.

“Well be fine,” he repeated like an incantation. “Love conquers everything.”

Catherine rose silently and went to the bedroom. Two large holdalls lay up in the wardrobe the same ones she’d brought when she first moved in. She dragged them down, flung them on the bed, and began opening cupboards.

James appeared in the doorway twenty minutes later, just as the first bag was stuffed full.

“What are you doing, Cathy? This is mad. You cant be serious?”

She didnt answer. Neatly, she folded jumpers, jeans, underwear. Lifted down the box of jewellery gifts from her parents and friends. Nothing from him.

“Where are you going? To your mothers? Shes in York!”

Zip. The second bag sealed. She checked her handbag passport, card, keys to her mums flat shed always kept just in case.

“Cathy, say something! You cant leave me. I love you!”

She looked at him, long and steady. Hoisting the bags, she walked out.

The next morning, Catherine stood in a queue at the registrar office, clutching the divorce application. Outside, rain trickled and grey clouds sagged over the rooftops, but inside she felt a strange calm. Her decision was made.

The first call came at half-past two in the morning. Catherine startled awake on Lenas sofa, momentarily confused.

“We need to talk,” James gasped into the phone, frantic. “I understand everything now; Ill change. Give me a chance.”

She hung up. Twenty minutes later, the phone rang again.

“Catherine, I cant live without you. Youre my whole world.”

By morning there were forty-three messages. Tearful confessions, promises, and threats.

“If you dont come back, I dont know what I’ll do.”

“Mum says youre just being childish.”

“Ill wait forever.”

A week later he started appearing at her office. Catherine would emerge for lunch and see him lingering near the sandwich van. Walking to the tube after work, shed catch sight of him across the road.

“Just passing by!” James grinned when she demanded answers. “Wanted to see you.”

One evening, the buzzer sounded in Lena’s flat. Thinking it was the pizza delivery, Catherine opened the door without even checking.

James stood there, holding a bouquet of red roses.

“One chance,” he whispered. “Im not asking for more.”

Catherine shut the door in silence. He stayed outside for two hours, neighbours threatening to call the police.

She learned to live with it like one learns to live with chronic pain. Dont read the messages, dont answer calls from unknown numbers, dont glance over her shoulder on the street. She switched to remote work with a new firm, moved to a quiet suburb, somewhere James could never “accidentally” wander.

Three months later, the divorce came through. Catherine stepped out of the courthouse, official papers clutched, and burst into tears not of grief, but relief.

Freedom was empty at first. Catherine had always checked every decision with someone else even if that someone always decided in the end. Now, she could buy any yogurt at the shop without wondering whether Mrs. Victoria would approve. Watch any film without being told “decent women dont watch that sort of thing.” She could breathe.

She signed up for English classes her old dream, which James had called “a waste of money.” Started yoga at dawn, when London was still half-asleep. Took a weekend trip to Bath alone, strolling streets and nibbling fudge.

Six months on, the calls stopped. The messages, too. She half-expected something to go wrong for another month, then another, then realised she could finally relax. She took a job at a marketing agency lively office, young team, creative projects. Life began again.

She met Andrew at a company party, dragged there by her colleague, Mary.

“Hes our lead developer,” Mary introduced the tall man with wire-framed glasses. “Andrew, this is Catherine from marketing.”

He took her hand firm, but gentle. Smiled, not trying to impress.

“Hiding from karaoke too?” He nodded toward the stage, where the financial director was butchering “Wonderwall.”

“Saving my nerves,” Catherine smiled.

They talked all evening about books, travel, and the strange routes lives take. Andrew listened more than he spoke. He asked questions and waited for answers, never interrupting, never lecturing. When he learned she was divorced, he just nodded and changed the subject.

Six months later, they moved in together, choosing a cosy flat in the city centre, windowed and bright with tall ceilings, overlooking a peaceful courtyard.

“Are you sure youre happy with this place?” Catherine asked during the lease signing. “We could look at others.”

“Do you like it?” Andrew turned.

“I do. Very much.”

“Then lets take it.”

It was the little things having her opinion taken seriously that mattered more than grand romantic gestures.

He proposed on their rooftop, sunset painting the sky pink and gold. Pulling out a small box, he opened it diamond ring glinting inside.

“Im not great with speeches,” Andrew confessed, “but I want to wake up next to you every day. If youre willing to put up with my snoring and dreadful taste in coffee.”

Catherine laughed through tears, and nodded.

That May evening began like any other. Andrew was working late looming deadline, urgent bug fix. Catherine made pasta, singing along to the radio, when the doorbell rang sharp, insistent.

She checked the peephole and recoiled.

James stood outside. Pale, eyes sunken, shirt crumpled. Two years. Two years of silence, and now this.

“Catherine, open up!” he banged on the door. “I know youre in there! We need to talk!”

She grabbed her phone, dialled Andrews number. Engaged.

“We love each other!” James shouted through the door. “You cant be with someone else! Its wrong!”

The door quaked as he threw his weight against it. Catherine braced herself, feet planted.

“Go away!” she shouted back. “Ill call the police!”

“Youre my wife!” his voice cracked. “You were, and youll always be! Ive waited two years for you to come to your senses! Two years!”

“Were divorced! Its over!”

“Its never over!” He shoved the door again, Catherine barely holding it shut. “Ive changed! Mum says you simply dont know what makes you happy! Open up, lets talk!”

She saw his face in the peephole twisted, obsessive. Not the man she had once shared a bed with.

Catherine dialled 999.

“James! One more move, and the police will be here. Leave. Now.”

He went still. Silent. Then wheeled round and stomped down the stairs, the front door slamming below.

Catherine sank to the floor, back against the wall. Her ears were ringing. Half an hour later she managed to call Andrew.

The police registered her statement the next day. The neighbourhood officer an older man with a moustache took down the story, nodded.

“Well sort it out. Have a word with him.”

Whatever he said, James never showed up again. No calls, no messages, no surprise meetings.

Their wedding was held in early June at a small countryside restaurant just twenty close friends. No fuss, no grooms relatives dictating tradition.

Catherine stood opposite Andrew in a simple white dress, her hands squeezed in his. Birch trees whispered outside, floral scents mingling with cut grass.

“Do you, Catherine” began the celebrant.

“I do,” she interrupted, and the guests laughed.

Andrew slipped the ring onto her finger slender gold, engraved inside. Three words: “Always with you.”

Catherine gazed at the man who would be her husband not a mamas boy, not a haunted stalker. Just a man who listened, respected, and truly loved her. Ahead lay a life where her opinion mattered.

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You Just Don’t Know How Lucky You Are — Half a million? — Karina read the notification on her phone three times before the numbers made sense. — You took out a loan for half a million pounds? Dimitri sat on the sofa, glued to his smartphone, not even glancing up. — Oh, that… Yes, just a small thing, for Mum’s house renovations. You know, her pipes are leaking, the flooring’s ruined, the wallpaper’s going mildewy… — Hold on. — Karina sank into the nearest armchair, her legs too weak to stand. — You took out a loan. For half a million. And gave it all to your mother? Without saying a word to me? Dimitri finally looked up, baffled, as if his wife was asking about something perfectly normal. — Karina, it’s my mum. She lives alone, her pension’s tiny. Who else would help her? — What about discussing it with me? — Karina was shouting now, unable to stop. — Asking my opinion? At least warning me? — You’d have started arguing, — Dimitri shrugged. — And Mum needed the money urgently. Four years. Four years she’d put up with that woman who called every evening to check what Dima had eaten for dinner. Who turned up without warning and commented on the state of the flat. Who always sat Karina at the far end of the table during family meals. — Don’t make a mountain out of a molehill, — Dimitri said in his usual calm tone. — We’ll manage. We can pay it off quickly, it’s no big deal. It’s family. Hot, angry tears burst forth. Karina wiped them away, smearing mascara across her cheeks. — Family? Am I “family”? Or just an accessory? Remember when your mum decided it was time we switched cars and you sold ours without asking? When she threw my things out of the spare room because she “couldn’t sleep surrounded by someone else’s junk”? When on my birthday, you and she went fridge shopping for her? — All details, — Dimitri waved off. — You’re just tired, you need a break. Karina looked at the man she married—tall, soft-featured, those dimples she once found charming. Now, all she saw was a thirty-something child, unable to cut the apron strings. — We’ll get through it, — he repeated like a mantra. — Love conquers all. Karina stood up and walked to the bedroom. Two large duffle bags sat on the top shelf—the ones she’d brought when she first moved in. She hauled them down, opened the wardrobe and started packing. Twenty minutes later, Dimitri appeared, just as the first bag was stuffed full. — What are you doing? Karina, don’t be ridiculous. You’re not serious, are you? She didn’t answer. Folded jumpers, jeans, underwear. Reached for her jewellery box—gifts from parents and friends, nothing from him. — Where will you go? Back to your mum? She’s in Manchester! She zipped the second bag. Checked her handbag—passport, card, keys to her mum’s flat, kept just in case. — Karina, say something! You can’t just leave. I love you! She gave him a long look. Then picked up her bags and walked out. …Next morning, Karina stood at the register office holding the divorce application, feeling a strange calm inside, despite the grey drizzle outside. The decision was made. The first call came at 2.30am. Karina, startled on Lena’s sofa, confused about where she was. — We need to talk, — Dimitri was ragged, incoherent. — I understand now, I’ll change. Give me another chance. She hung up. Twenty minutes later, the phone rang again. — Karina, I can’t live without you. You are my reason to go on. By morning, forty-three messages had arrived—tearful confessions, promises, threats. “If you don’t come back, I don’t know what I’ll do.” “Mum says you’re just being difficult.” “I’ll wait for you forever.” A week later, he began showing up at her work. Karina went for lunch and found him by the sandwich shop. Headed for the Tube, spotted him across the street. — Just passing by, — he’d smile when she demanded an explanation. — Wanted to see you. One evening, the doorbell rang at Lena’s flat. Expecting the pizza delivery, Karina opened the door. Dimitri stood there—bouquet of red roses. — Just one chance, — he whispered. — That’s all I’m asking. Karina shut the door. He stood outside for two hours before neighbours threatened to call the police. Eventually, she learned to live with it—as one does with chronic pain. Ignoring messages, screening calls from unknown numbers, not looking over her shoulder. She switched jobs for remote work, moved to a sleepy suburb where Dimitri was unlikely to show up. The divorce was finalised three months later. Karina walked out of court, paper in hand, tears streaming—not of grief, but relief. At first, freedom was terrifyingly empty. She’d always checked her choices with someone, even if that someone always decided anyway. Now, she could buy any yoghurt in the shop, without worrying if Elena Victoria approved. Watch any film she liked, without being told “proper women don’t watch that”. She could breathe. She signed up for English lessons—a long-held dream, which Dimitri dismissed as “a waste of money”. Started attending sunrise yoga. Took a solo weekend trip to Cornwall, wandering the streets and eating clotted cream fudge. After six months, the calls and messages stopped. Karina waited another month, then realised she could finally relax. Landed a job at a marketing agency—bright office, young team, exciting projects. Life was looking up. …She met Andrew at a work do her colleague, Mary, convinced her to attend. — This is our lead programmer, — Mary introduced her to a tall man in wire-rimmed glasses. — Andrew, meet Karina from marketing. He shook her hand—firm but gentle. Smiled, simple and sincere. — You ducked out of karaoke too? — he nodded at the stage, where finance was butchering “Wonderwall”. — Got to preserve my nerves, — Karina grinned. They talked all evening—books, travel, life’s quirks. Andrew listened more than he spoke. He asked questions and waited for the answers—never lectured or explained how she should live. When he discovered she was divorced, he simply nodded and changed the subject. …Six months later, they moved in together, picking a cosy, light-filled flat in a quiet London square. — Are you sure you like this one? — Karina checked, viewing the place. — Do you? — Andrew replied. — I love it. — Then it’s settled. Those small things—the right to her own opinion, respected—mattered far more than grand declarations of love. He proposed on the building’s rooftop at sunset, the sky awash in gold and pink. Produced a tiny box—inside, a diamond ring. — I’m rubbish at speeches, — Andrew admitted. — But I want to wake up next to you every day. If you’re willing to put up with my snoring and my love of bad coffee. Karina laughed through tears and nodded… …One May evening, as usual, Andrew stayed late at work—deadline panic, a final bug in the code. Karina was making pasta, humming with the radio, when the doorbell rang. Sharp, insistent, demanding. She looked through the peephole—and recoiled. Dimitri stood on the landing. Pale, hollow-eyed, rumpled shirt. Two years. Two years of silence—and now, he was here. — Karina, open up! — his fist pounding the door. — I know you’re in there! We need to talk! Karina grabbed her phone and dialled Andrew. Engaged. — We still love each other! — Dimitri shouted from outside. — You can’t be with someone else! It’s wrong! The door shook—he threw his whole weight against it, trying to break in. Karina pressed her back to the door, bracing hard. — Go away! — she screamed. — I’ll call the police! — You’re my wife! — his voice cracked. — You were mine, you’ll stay mine! Two years I waited for you to come to your senses! Two years! — We’re divorced! It’s over! — It’s not over! — he shoved the door again. — I’ve changed! Mum says you don’t appreciate your own happiness! Open up, let’s talk! Through the peephole, his face twisted—obsessed, unrecognisable. Karina dialled three digits. — Dima! One call; the police will be here. Leave. Now. Dimitri froze. Silent. Then turned and stormed off down the stairs. The main door slammed below. Karina slid to the floor, her heart pounding. Thirty minutes passed before she could ring Andrew. She filed a police report the next day. The local officer—a kindly, mustached man—took down details, listened, nodded. — We’ll handle it. He’ll get a warning. What he said to Dimitri, Karina never knew. But her ex-husband never showed up again. No calls. No texts. No “chance” encounters. The wedding took place in early June, at a small country pub—twenty friends, just those closest to them. No fuss, no groom’s side relatives laying down “traditions”. Karina stood opposite Andrew in a simple white dress, holding his warm hands. Outside, the birch trees rustled, carrying scents of flowers and fresh-cut grass. — Do you…? — the registrar began. — I do, — Karina interrupted, and everyone laughed. Andrew slipped the ring on—a thin gold band, engraved inside. Three words: “Forever with you”. Karina lifted her gaze to this man who would be her husband. Not a mummy’s boy, not a possessive stalker. Just a man who listened, respected, and loved. Ahead lay a life where her voice finally mattered…