Well, your Emily is quite stuck-up now! They say money ruins people, and it surely has changed her! I couldnt understand where all this was coming from, or what Id done to offend anyone so much.
There was a time when I had a wonderful marriage: a loving husband and our two children. But one day, everything fell apart. My dear Tom was on his way home from work when he had a terrible accident. I genuinely believed I wouldnt survive the grief, but Mum was steadfastshe was adamant that I had to pull myself together for the sake of my children. So I did just that. I threw myself into work with everything I had. When the kids were older, I left to find better work, first in Birmingham and then further afield in London. I had to make sure they had a sound footing since I had no support whatsoever.
I went through a parade of different jobs before finally earning well enough. Month after month, Id send money home to the kids, and eventually I was able to buy them their own flats and refurbish mine splendidly. I felt proud of what Id accomplished. Id even started to imagine returning home for good. But last year, my life changed againI met a man. Hes British by birth but has lived in London for over twenty years now. We got talking and, to my surprise, something real developed between us.
Still, uncertainty gnawed at me. David couldnt leave England, but I longed to return home. This week, I finally made the trip back. I saw the children first, then my parents, but kept putting off visiting Toms parentsthere were simply too many other things to do. Then, my friend Abby, who works as a shop assistant, came round and shared a bit of news:
Your mother-in-law is really upset with you!
How do you know that?
Overheard her telling the neighbours, saying youve grown so high and mighty, and that moneys ruined you. She even said you never gave them any financial help.
It was painful to listen to. I raised two children by myself and did everything for themI just couldnt afford to also support Toms parents. I had to look after myself a bit, didnt I?
After hearing all that, my intention of visiting the in-laws faded. But I forced myself. I bought a generous supply of groceries and went over. At first, it went smoothly, but that conversation haunted me until I finally spoke up:
Please understand it wasnt easy for me all these years. Everything I did was for my children, because I couldnt rely on help from anywhere.
We had no support either. Most peoples children help them out, but were left to cope alone. Were just orphans too! You ought to come back and look after us.
Toms mum made me feel so ashamed. I couldnt even bring myself to mention David back in London. I left feeling miserable, and now I honestly dont know what to do. Am I truly obligated to help my late husbands parents? Im just at my wits end.












