While my children and grandchildren make do in a tiny flat, my son-in-laws parents enjoy life in a spacious
You know, thinking back, I basically bought myself a younger life. But after a few years, the truth about
Emily is still young, shell have more children! thats what she kept saying. In the end, no one wanted
My sister-in-law recently spent a lovely holiday at a seaside resort while we were up to our necks renovating
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So, let me tell you whats been going on with my daughter and her family. She married, but unfortunately
My Husband Only Ever Thinks of Himself: He Eats Absolutely Everything—Not Even Our Child Gets Any Leftovers
— “Adam, where have all the bananas gone?” I ask my husband.
— “I ate them because I fancied them.”
— “Couldn’t you at least have saved one for our son’s afternoon snack?”
— “You’re making a fuss over nothing. It’s not like they don’t sell bananas in the shop.”
— “Then go and buy some.”
— “I’ve got the football match on—how can I go?”
This is how it always is in our family: cheese, biscuits, apples—I even have to hide food because with a father like this, my son could go hungry.
We’ve been married for five years. Our son is nearly two. We have a mortgage, so money’s tight. My husband believes he’s the provider—he gave us our home. But in reality, he only sold his one-bedroom flat for the deposit; my parents helped too. My mum thinks Adam is a real egotist, and honestly, I kind of agree.
One day we were preparing for a birthday party. I’m cooking for our guests, and he keeps wandering in and emptying the plates. The worst part: he got to the cake as well. I left it on the balcony since there was no room in the fridge. Brought it back to the kitchen to slice up—and saw all that was left was a piece of decorated chocolate. Imagine how embarrassed I was!
This happens all the time. Yes, he earns money, but surely we can manage things sensibly and think about others. He always says, “Don’t worry! We’ll just buy more.” Okay, don’t care about me—but how can you not care about your own child? Especially when money’s tight and I have to make things last. In a week, we can go through a month’s worth of food.
— “Why are you picking on him? He’s a man, let him eat. He earns the money. Instead of complaining, just cook more,” his mum defends him.
But no matter how much you cook, he’ll never have enough—he eats everything. There’s no point in buying more, when we have a mortgage to pay, clothes and other household things to buy.
Overall, I told my husband that if he does this one more time—I’m filing for divorce. We’ll split the flat, and each go our own way. He was offended and went running to his mum. Now my mother-in-law refuses to speak to me, but I think I’m right. What do you think? My husband only ever thinks of himself. He polishes off all the food, not leaving anything, not even
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LOVING WITH PATIENCE, ENDURING WITH LOVE Once, a long time ago, William and Alice were joined in holy
I was eight years old when my mum left home—she walked to the corner, got into a taxi, and never came back. My brother was five. From then on, everything in our house changed: Dad started doing things he’d never done before—waking up early to make breakfast, learning how to wash clothes, ironing our uniforms, clumsily brushing our hair before school. I watched him get the measurements of the rice wrong, burn the food, forget to separate whites from colours. Yet he never let us go without. Every evening, he’d come home tired from work, check our homework, sign our notebooks, and prepare our packed lunches for the next day.
Mum never returned to visit. Dad never introduced another woman at home, never presented anyone as his partner. We knew he went out and sometimes stayed late, but his personal life remained outside the walls of our home. It was just me and my brother. I never once heard him say he’d fallen in love again—his routine was to work, come home, cook, do laundry, sleep, and repeat.
On weekends, he took us to the park, to the river, even just window shopping at the nearest shopping centre. He learnt how to braid hair, sew on buttons, make packed lunches. When we needed costumes for school events, he’d make them from cardboard and old fabric. He never complained. He never said, “This isn’t my job.”
A year ago, my dad passed away. It happened quickly—no time for long goodbyes. Sorting through his things, I found old notebooks, lists of household expenses, important dates, reminders like “pay the fee,” “buy shoes,” “take the girl to the doctor.” There were no love letters, no photos of another woman, no signs of romantic life—only the traces of a man who lived for his children.
Since he’s been gone, one question won’t leave me: was he happy? My mum left to find her own happiness; my dad stayed and seemed to sacrifice his own. He never built another family, never had a partner to share a home with, never again was anyone’s priority except ours.
Now I realise I had an incredible father. But I also know he was a man who stayed alone so that we wouldn’t be. And that weighs on me. Because now that he’s gone, I wonder if he ever received the love he truly deserved. I was eight years old when my mum left our home. She walked to the corner, got into a black cab, and
