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My Husband Compared Me to His Friend’s Wife at the Dinner Table and Ended Up Wearing a Bowl of Salad in His Lap
So, you wouldn’t believe what happened at my cousin Sarahs house last weekend. It was her husband’
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Nothing, dear mother! You have your own home—so that’s where you should live. Don’t come here unless we invite you.
Nothing, dear Mum! Youve got your own house, havent you? Thats where you live. And dont come here unless
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He Was Always Away on Business Trips—Until the Night He Told Me He’d Fallen for Someone Else. After Our Swift, Drama-Free Divorce, I Faced Everything Alone—Until an Unexpected Encounter in a Coffee Shop Led Me to a Younger Man Who Truly Listened and Valued Me. Now My Ex Wants Answers, but I’ve Finally Found Genuine Happiness: Is This Life’s Gift to Me?
He often travelled for work, and Id long since grown used to it. Hed reply to my texts late, come home
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Why Should It Matter Who Cared for Grandma? Legally, That Flat Should Be Mine! – My Mum Argues Bitterly With Me My own mum is threatening to take me to court. Why? Because Grandma’s flat didn’t go to her—or even to me—but to my daughter. My mum thinks it’s a grave injustice. She insists Grandma’s flat should rightfully be hers. But Grandma chose otherwise. Why? Probably because my husband and I lived with Grandma and cared for her during her final five years. My mum could quite rightfully be called selfish. Her wants and interests have always come before anyone else’s. She’s had three marriages but just two children: me and my younger sister. My sister and I have a great relationship. But things with Mum are a different story. I can’t even remember my dad. He divorced Mum when I was only two. Until I was six, Mum and I lived at Grandma’s. For some reason, I thought Grandma was terribly unpleasant—maybe because Mum was always in tears. Only later, as an adult, did I learn that Grandma was actually a good person, just desperate to set her daughter straight. Later, Mum married again and we moved in with my stepdad. That’s when my sister was born. Mum stayed with him for seven years, then divorced him too. This time we didn’t return to Grandma’s; instead my stepdad went off to work and let us stay in his flat. Three years later, Mum married a third time and we moved in with her new husband. Obviously, he wasn’t thrilled about his new wife’s kids, but he never treated us badly—he simply ignored us. So did Mum, who was busy being wrapped up in her new relationship, riddled with jealousy and dramatic outbursts. Every month, Mum would start packing her bags, but my stepdad always managed to talk her out of leaving. My sister and I got used to it, and eventually stopped caring. I took over raising my sister because Mum had no time. Luckily, both our grandmothers helped us a lot. I eventually left for university accommodation, and my sister went to live with Grandma. Dad always helped her, but Mum only called us at Christmas. I grew up accepting Mum as she was—the kind of parent who never worried about us. My sister, however, could never forgive her, and especially resented that Mum didn’t show up for her graduation. We both grew up. My sister married and moved to another city. My boyfriend and I lived together for ages but were in no hurry to wed, renting a place and visiting Grandma often. We were close, but I tried never to be a nuisance. Then Grandma fell ill and was hospitalised. The doctors told me she needed plenty of care, so I started coming daily—bringing groceries, cooking, cleaning, and, most importantly, making sure she took her medicines. For six months, this was life. Sometimes my boyfriend came too and handled the odd DIY job. One day, Grandma suggested we move in to save money for our own home. Of course we agreed. Grandma liked my boyfriend, and we all got on well. Six months later, I found out I was pregnant. We decided to keep the baby and Grandma was overjoyed about her great-grandchild. We had a simple wedding and took the family out to a café—my mum didn’t even show up or call with congratulations. When my daughter was just two months old, Grandma fell and broke her leg. Caring for a newborn and Grandma was almost impossible alone, so I called Mum for help. She refused, saying she wasn’t well and would come by another time—a promise she never kept. Six months later, Grandma suffered a stroke. Suddenly, she was bedridden. The care was gruelling, and I don’t know how I’d have managed without my husband. Grandma slowly regained some mobility and speech, and lived another two and a half years—long enough to watch her great-granddaughter learn to walk. She passed away quietly in her sleep, leaving us heartbroken. Mum only came to the funeral. A month later, she turned up demanding that I move out so she could claim the flat as her own. She was sure she’d inherit it—completely unaware Grandma had signed the property over to my daughter after she was born, leaving Mum without a penny. Mum was furious, demanding I hand over the flat or she’d sue. “Look how cunning you are! You tricked that old woman out of her flat and now you’re living there yourself! You won’t get away with this! It makes no difference who cared for Grandma—the flat should be mine!” But Mum won’t be getting that flat. I know this for sure—I’ve checked everything with the solicitor and notary. We will stay in the home Grandma gave us. And if our next child is a girl, we’ll give her Grandma’s name.
Why does it matter who looked after Gran? By law, that flat should belong to me! my mother argues with me.
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A Wife Discovers the Truth Too Late: The Day I Found Out My Husband’s Mother Was Alive—And in Prison—And That He’d Lied to Me About His Family for Years
Is this what youre looking for? she held out the letter to him. Nick paled. Claire, you…
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He Was Always Away on Business Trips—Until the Night He Told Me He’d Fallen for Someone Else. After Our Swift, Drama-Free Divorce, I Faced Everything Alone—Until an Unexpected Encounter in a Coffee Shop Led Me to a Younger Man Who Truly Listened and Valued Me. Now My Ex Wants Answers, but I’ve Finally Found Genuine Happiness: Is This Life’s Gift to Me?
He often travelled for work, and Id long since grown used to it. Hed reply to my texts late, come home
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A Wife Discovers the Truth Too Late: The Day I Found Out My Husband’s Mother Was Alive—And in Prison—And That He’d Lied to Me About His Family for Years
Is this what youre looking for? she held out the letter to him. Nick paled. Claire, you…
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How My Husband Secretly Supported His Mother While I Struggled to Clothe Our Child
How My Husband Secretly Supported His Mother While Our Daughter Had Nothing to Wear My husband and I
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My Husband Left Me After Eleven Years of Marriage, Claiming the Reason Was Surprisingly Simple: He Said I’d Stopped Taking Care of Myself—Even Though He Never Once Spoke Openly About It When We Met, I Took Care of My Appearance Daily—Makeup, Stylish Clothes, Always Perfect Hair. I Worked, Went Out, Had Time for Myself. Then Came the Children, the Routines, the Responsibilities. I Kept Working, But Also Managed the House, the Food, the Cleaning, Doctors’ Appointments—All the Things That Keep a Family Going but Are Seldom Noticed. My Days Started Before 6am and Ended After Midnight. Many Times I’d Go Out Without Makeup Because There Simply Wasn’t Time. I’d Grab the First Clean Outfit I Could Find. Not Because I Didn’t Care—But Because I Was Exhausted. He’d Come Home, Eat, Watch TV, Fall Asleep—Never Asked How I Was or If I Needed Help. Gradually Came the Comments—That I Didn’t Look After Myself Like I Used To, That I Didn’t Wear Dresses, That I Looked Neglected. I Thought They Were Just Throwaway Remarks—Never Imagined They’d One Day Be His Reason to Leave. He Never Said “I Feel Distant From You” or “We Need to Talk.” He Just Packed His Bags One Day. The Day He Left He Told Me Clearly—He Didn’t Feel the Same, That I’d Changed, That He Missed the Woman Who Made an Effort for Him. I Reminded Him of Everything I Did For the Home, the Kids, Us. He Told Me It Wasn’t Enough—That He Needed to Feel Proud of the Woman by His Side. He Quietly Packed and Left. Days Later I Learned He Was Already Seeing Someone Else—A Woman Without Kids, With Time for the Gym, Able to Keep Herself Up Every Day. That’s When I Realised: The Problem Was Never Just the Makeup. Today I Still Wake Up Early, Still Work, Still Keep the Home Running. I Take Care of Myself When *I* Want, Not When Someone Demands It. I Didn’t Stop Looking After Myself for Lack of Love—I Stopped Because I Carried a Whole Life on My Shoulders. And Still, He Chose to Leave. I Think About Joining a Gym, But I Don’t Have Time. Whatever the Case—It Turns Out He Just Didn’t Want Me.
My husband left me after eleven years of marriage, and the reason he gave was surprisingly simple: he
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The most heartbreaking thing that happened to me in 2025 was discovering my husband was having an affair—and that my brother, my cousin, and my father had known all along. We’d been married for eleven years. The woman my husband was involved with worked as a secretary at the same firm where my brother worked. Their affair began after my brother introduced her to him. This was no accident. They kept running into each other at work, meetings, business functions, and social gatherings that my husband attended. My cousin also saw them together in those circles. They all knew each other. They all saw each other often. For months, my husband kept living with me as if nothing was wrong. I’d go to family get-togethers, chat with my brother, cousin, and father—never knowing all three were fully aware of his affair. Not one of them warned me. No one said a word. No one even tried to prepare me for what was happening behind my back. When I found out about the affair in October, I confronted my husband first. He admitted it. Then I talked to my brother. I asked directly if he’d known. He said “yes.” I asked him how long. “A few months,” he said. I asked why he never told me. He replied it wasn’t his problem, that it was between a husband and wife, and “men just don’t talk about these things.” Next, I spoke to my cousin—asked him the same questions. He knew, too. He said he’d seen behaviour and messages that made everything obvious. He hadn’t warned me because he “didn’t want to get involved” and “it wasn’t his place to interfere in someone else’s relationship.” Finally, I talked to my dad. I asked whether he knew as well. He said “yes.” I asked for how long. He said he’d known for a while. I asked why he hadn’t told me anything. He said he didn’t want any drama, that these things should be settled between husband and wife, and he wouldn’t intervene. Essentially, all three told me the same thing. After that, I moved out, and the house is now up for sale. There were no public arguments or dramatic confrontations—I refuse to demean myself for anyone. The woman continued to work at my brother’s firm. My brother, cousin, and father all carried on as usual with both my husband and her. At Christmas and New Year, my mum invited me to celebrate at her house, where my brother, cousin, and father would all be present. I told her I couldn’t come. I explained I simply wasn’t able to sit at a table with people who knew about the affair and chose to stay silent. They celebrated together. I wasn’t there for either holiday. Since October, I haven’t had any contact with any of the three. And I honestly don’t think I’ll ever be able to forgive them.
The most painful thing that happened to me in 2025 was discovering that my husband had been unfaithfuland