I can’t keep quiet about it anymore! My spouse and I have been living together for five years. We love each other, and we are raising a child. We live alone, even though we first lived with his parents and then with mine. We had nothing to rent with.
One day his mother suggested that we go to his grandmother’s house. She has two houses – one she rents out, and the other she lives in. Just at that moment the tenants left. We gladly accepted the offer and left. From that moment on, everything went wrong…
His grandmother started coming to see us almost every day. She started telling us what to clean, where to clean, and how to rearrange the furniture. I kept quiet for a while, but told my husband to talk to her properly. And to ask him not to come so often.
He told her everything, she took offense, but she learned and said she agreed. She only came on weekends. I thought the terror was over.
A year went by and we got married. We were given money with which we were going to renovate the house. That’s where it started. This woman jumped in at every moment, supervised the repairs. We bought the wrong wallpaper, the wrong color linoleum. In the end, she began to resent the fact that I had agreed to move the water meter to another place.
She called me and started yelling that I had no right to dispose of the meters in her house, that it was none of my business and that I should mind my own business. I was already pregnant at the time. So I put the phone in my husband’s hands and said loudly that I should never see that woman again. From that moment on she didn’t call for six months until she gave birth.
Then she came, I was at home myself at the time and simply didn’t open the door. She called my husband and asked what I was offended about. There seemed to be no reason for that.
Since then, another year has passed, and she continues to prove and direct what to cook, how many times a week to clean and meddles in the education of the child. Annoying terribly. I do not know how to communicate with her. I do not want to hurt my spouse, because he loves her and shows respect for her.
