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My Mother-in-Law Offered to Help Look After Our Children During the Summer Now She’s Retired, but When My Brother-in-Law Left His Three Kids with Her Too and Didn’t Provide Food or Money, We Ended Up Paying for Everything – How Do I Address This Without Starting a Family Row?

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My mother-in-law suggested she could help look after the children over the summer holidays. She’s retired now and suddenly has all the time in the world, so we took her up on the offer.

Both of us are working and weve got three children, but regular holidays are something of a daydream for us. Usually, we just take turns calling in “working from home” whenever one of the kids comes down with the sniffles or has an event thats simply unmissable. If were very lucky, we sneak off for a weekend awayprovided the universe doesnt conspire against us that week. Thats about as glamorous as things get.

For the past three years, we’ve been paying off a twenty-year mortgage. Perpetual flat-hopping had ground us down, so we finally gave in and bought a houseeven if it means our monthly bank balance is wincing a bit more. Despite working all summer, an actual holiday is laughable; theres just not enough left over after the mortgage takes its cut. Add to this the summer holidays when schools shut up shop and the kids run riot with too much time and too little supervision. At least now, with my mother-in-law on babysitting patrol, during those muggy months the kids are safe and wellwhere they belong, at home!

As summer approaches and we set off for my husbands mums, we always pack enough groceries to feed a small army, and slip her a bit of cash for those extra little treats. His mum never spends her own money on the children, mind youshe always says her pension isnt exactly extravagant. We usually give her the money straight up; it costs much less than paying a nanny, so everyones fairly content with the arrangement.

Then my husbands brother, whos juggling his own set of three, decided to deposit his kids at Grandmas as well. Trouble is, his lot are younger and considerably more chaotic, so they need constant attention. Naturally, he didnt bring a morsel of food for them or even a tenner for the kittymeaning we had to feed his brood from our own supplies.

Its completely understandable to feel a bit miffed. Ive pleaded with my husband to have a quiet word with his brother, but hes mastered the art of doing precisely nothing, desperate to avoid a row. Honestly, why am I bending over backwards so someone else can duck out of raising their own kids? Id love to know the best way to tackle the subject without turning Sunday lunch into a soap opera.

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My Mother-in-Law Offered to Help Look After Our Children During the Summer Now She’s Retired, but When My Brother-in-Law Left His Three Kids with Her Too and Didn’t Provide Food or Money, We Ended Up Paying for Everything – How Do I Address This Without Starting a Family Row?
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All’s Fair in the Fight for the Family Fortune The entire family had gathered together, though the real reason—as usual—was financial, thinly disguised as a family dinner. Lydia, daughter of Granny Thelma and mother to Katie and Arthur, fiddled with her mother’s old handkerchiefs—the same ones Granny used to hide her savings. Granny was no longer able to manage her own affairs; she remembered nothing and recognised no one, but Lydia, by force of habit, continued tucking her pension into those same cloths. “Oh, look,” Lydia lamented, turning to the family, “they’ve gone missing again. Ten thousand, at least. I couldn’t have made a mistake—I counted it myself! Where have they gone? Mum, do you remember how much there was?” Granny Thelma turned—not to her daughter, but to the portrait of her late husband. “Oh, Pete… how lovely,” she murmured, gazing at granddaughter Jenny. “And you, dear, leave my sweets for the guests… Where’s Artie? At school?” Lydia rolled up the thousand-pound notes. Her mother certainly couldn’t remember how much there was. But Lydia was certain—someone was stealing them. An unthinkable idea, because only family ever came around, but somebody had to be nicking them! And from an old lady, too… Arthur arrived, just as Granny had been asking after him. “What’s this, a wake?” he joked, tossing his car keys aside. Lydia, his mother, choked out: “Arthur, it’s awful! The money! Granny’s money’s missing again. I’ve been putting her pension in this cabinet for months. Someone’s taking it!” Arthur looked around the room with suspicion—his mum trusted everyone, Arthur trusted no one. “Money disappearing, eh?” he squinted, “I bet I know right where it’s going!” He strode to the hall, grabbed Katie’s striped tote bag, and before Katie could blink, unzipped it and dumped the contents onto the old plastic tablecloth. Out tumbled lipstick, keys, mirror—and money. Wads of crumpled notes—five grand in five-hundreds. “Look!” Arthur exclaimed, holding up a note. “I dropped her bag just now, reached to pick it up—and out spilled these! And don’t these look familiar?” Auntie Gail, who’d been munching salad without blinking, immediately choked on her mouthful. If you looked closely at each note, you could see a faint blue ballpoint pen line. “Remember last month, when Mum was counting the money and Ivan scribbled on it by mistake?” Arthur went on. “These are those five-hundred notes from Granny’s pension!” All eyes turned on Katie. Frozen until then, she flinched. “Arthur, what are you doing?” “Me? Nothing! I told you—the bag fell as I passed, and there they were! Very familiar money, too!” Katie realised it was pointless to challenge him; she had to defend herself. “It wasn’t me!” she cried, knocking the table as she shot to her feet. Even Granny turned at the commotion. “Who’s making a ruckus?” asked Granny Thelma. “Where are my slippers?” Everyone’s eyes were wide as saucers. “Katie, darling,” Lydia stood, “how could you? Why? You have a job, I help you out… How could you steal from your own grandmother?” “Mum, it wasn’t me! I didn’t take anything!” “Who else?” Arthur pressed, “You’re the only one always around, caring for Granny, as you keep saying. No one else has access. Mum would never do it. That leaves you.” Katie backed away as if they might hit her. “I swear I never touched a thing!” She glanced at her mother, hoping for belief, but Lydia looked at her as though she were a monster. “You’re lying,” Lydia whispered. “How could you…” “I love Granny!” Katie cried, tears spilling over. “I only came to help her! I swear I didn’t take the money!” But all the evidence was stacked against her. The money had come from her bag. No other suspects. “That’s that,” Arthur declared, “Sad, Katie. Really sad. You could’ve just asked. But stealing from a helpless old lady… No one expected that from you.” That night, they kicked Katie out, and her life was turned upside-down. No one understood, no one wanted to listen. Even Lydia, regretful later, begged the family to be kinder, but… “Don’t let her back, Lydia,” hissed Auntie Gail on the phone. “She’s a disgrace! Granny may not remember, but what if she knew what Katie’s become…” Lydia obeyed. She barely spoke to her daughter. When Katie rang, Lydia gave only clipped answers: busy, later, not now. Katie tried to fight back. She called her relatives from different numbers, but as soon as they caught on, they hung up. Katie launched her own investigation, which quickly fizzled; nobody would talk or let her near Granny again. Eventually, she managed to get Lydia to meet. “Mum, please,” Katie begged, “I know it sounds like an excuse, but I swear—I didn’t do it! Why won’t you believe me?” It was hardest on Lydia; after all, Katie was her daughter. “Katie… it pains me too. But the money was with you. I don’t want to talk about this anymore. If I’d been the only one to find out, maybe we could forget it, but the rest of the family won’t. It’s hard for me too. Granny did so much for you.” “But I’m not guilty! Maybe it fell in there before, from another bag? Maybe someone else…” “Enough!” Lydia snapped. “You’re my daughter and I want to believe you, but the facts! The facts say you’re a thief!” With that, Lydia left Katie freezing in the cold. Katie didn’t even get to say goodbye to Granny. But she waited until the dust settled, until everyone left, then tried Granny’s flat, hoping her mother would be there. Lydia, though cold, would sometimes talk. Maybe now? But Arthur answered the door. He was tall—she had to crane her neck to meet his eyes. Maybe, she thought, that was all for the best. “Arthur,” she pleaded. “Please, can we talk? Once. Just once.” “Oh, Katie. Still hoping to clear your little name? Too late,” her brother said. “Best just confess. Maybe you’ll be forgiven.” But Katie wouldn’t apologise for something she hadn’t done. “No. I need the truth. Maybe you made a mistake? What if the money fell from another bag? A pocket? Think—” Suddenly, Arthur’s eyes went cold. “Mistake? Katie, are you really that naïve?” He leaned closer. “Of course I know you didn’t steal it. I planted it in your bag myself.” She reeled. “What?” It was all she could manage. “You heard.” “Why?” she whispered. “Why would you do that?” To get rid of the competition. “In the race for the inheritance, sis, all’s fair. Granny wasn’t going to last more than a year, tops—you saw it. That flat? It was already signed to Mum so there wouldn’t be probate problems. Then came the issue: Mum’s sentimental, you know. She wanted to give it to you.” Katie was still lost. “But why?” “Because, darling Katie,” said Arthur with a sneer, “you came by every evening. Fed Granny, cleaned her flat, read little books she couldn’t even understand—a perfect granddaughter. Mum saw that and melted. She thought you deserved it all. And I didn’t? Am I not a grandson? Don’t I deserve something too? So I decided to compete.” “I never did it for the flat!” Katie shouted, more pained by the confession than anything else. “I did it for Granny! I loved her!” He snorted. “Oh spare me, Katie. We’re all human. You wanted to play the good girl, the devoted granddaughter, and scoop everything up. But I outplayed you. One-nil.” When Katie couldn’t answer, he finished it off. “So now,” Arthur concluded, “you’re the thief. Mum will never turn on me; I’m the good son. You’re the black sheep. And the flat is mine—who’d let you through that door now without a scene?” “You’re a real piece of work,” Katie spat. “Guilty as charged. Bye, sis. Inheritance secured.” He opened the front door. Katie didn’t move. A flat really would have helped—renting was dear and she’d never afford to buy. But she truly had loved Granny. She remembered Granny Thelma, even in confusion, once stroking her cheek and saying: “Thank you for coming, love. You’re just like my Pete.” And now, the only way to set her name straight would be to prove Arthur lied—but how? She couldn’t. Leaving the house, Katie knew that in a year, no one would remember she’d never been a bad person. They’d only remember one thing: Katie stole money from her dying grandmother. Arthur had already won, and he was celebrating.
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“Get Out of Here! I Told You, Go! Why Are You Hanging About?” – Mrs. Martha Smith Banged Down a Plate of Hot Sausage Rolls Under the Apple Tree and Shoved the Neighbour’s Lad Aside. – “Go On, Off With You! When Is Your Mother Finally Going to Start Looking After You? Lazy Rascal!” Thin as a rake, Danny—who no one ever called by his first name, as everyone was long used to his nickname—cast a shy glance at his stern neighbour and shuffled back toward his own porch. The enormous Victorian house, divided into several flats, was only half-occupied. In truth, just two-and-a-half families lived there: the Cotterills, the Simmonses, and the Carters—just Kate and her son Danny. It was Kate and her son who were that “half,” whom the neighbours mostly ignored—unless some urgent need arose. Kate was never regarded as important, so there was no point wasting time on her. Apart from her son, Kate had no one. No husband, no family. She muddled on as best she could, quietly judged but rarely disturbed—except when Danny, whom they all called “Cricket” for his twig-like limbs and bobble head, had to be chased from the garden. Cricket, awkward and nervous, was the kindest soul. He could never pass a sobbing child without trying to help—which earned him strict scoldings from protective mothers who didn’t want “that Scarecrow” near their precious ones. For the longest time, Danny didn’t know whom they meant. Then one day, his mother gave him a book about a girl called Ellie and her friends. With a sudden smile, Danny realised why they’d called him “Scarecrow.” None of it hurt his feelings. Not a bit. Danny decided that those who called him “Scarecrow” must have read the story and surely understood the Scarecrow was clever, brave and helpful, and even ruled a beautiful city in the end. Holding on to this hope, Kate never crushed his optimism. Why shouldn’t her son believe the best of people? The world was already harsh enough—let him have his bit of childhood happiness. Kate adored her son with all her heart. Forgiving the father’s failings, she embraced her fate and snapped back at the midwife who commented on Danny’s unusual looks. “Rubbish! My son is the most beautiful child in the world.” “A clever lad he may not be—” “That remains to be seen!” Kate caressed her son’s face through tears that wouldn’t stop. Through endless trips to specialists, late buses, and worn shoes, Kate gave Danny the best she could afford—robbed herself so her son would never want for anything. Over time, Danny caught up with the other children—even if he’d never be handsome. Doctors marvelled at his transformation and his mother’s devotion. “What a boy! What a mum!” they’d say. But Kate didn’t understand the praise. Wasn’t it a mother’s job to love her child with everything she had? By the time Danny started his first day of primary school, he could already read and write, but his stammer sometimes overshadowed his efforts. His first teacher, Mrs. Simmons, cut him off impatiently, and in the staffroom complained that while Danny was bright, “no one could stand to listen to him.” She stayed just two years before leaving, replaced by kindly Mrs. Lane, who saw Danny’s promise and encouraged him to submit work in writing. “You write so wonderfully, Cricket!” she’d praise. “What a joy to read your answers.” Each word of encouragement made Danny glow. His mum, so grateful, wanted to fall at Mrs. Lane’s feet, but the teacher laughed her off. “Come now, it’s only my job! Your Danny is a wonderful boy—he’ll go far!” Danny’s skipping gate as he ran to school became a local cue: “Look, there goes Cricket! Time for us to toddle, too!” Neighbours gossiped about Kate and her “unfortunate lad,” never able to fathom why fate had left him. But Kate paid them no mind. If a person didn’t have true heart and soul, no force would make them kindly. She saved her energy for useful things—gardening, caring for her home, or adding another rose by the porch. The shared front garden was never formally divided up; each family tended the bit outside their door. Kate’s little patch was the prettiest: roses, with a great lilac bush, and a porch she’d mosaicked with broken tiles salvaged from the village hall. The neighbours scoffed—until the porch became the envy of the whole neighbourhood. Kate never cared what others thought. All that mattered were her son’s words: “Mum, it’s so beautiful.” Danny would gently trace the intricate tile pattern, heart full of wonder. That made her weep—from joy. Danny’s joys were few: The rare praise at school, or when Kate made his favourite stew and called him “cleverest of the clever.” Danny had few friends—he preferred books to kickabouts, and was kept at arm’s length from girls (especially by Mrs. Martha Smith, who had three granddaughters and did NOT want “Cricket the bug-eyed oddball” anywhere near them). “Don’t you dare go near my girls!” she’d call with a wagged finger. “Not for you, those sweeties!” Kate told Danny not to rile Mrs. Smith—there was no need to make her ill with nerves. Danny wisely gave her a wide berth. On the day of the youngest granddaughter’s birthday, Danny was just passing by when Mrs. Smith, overwhelmed but aware of how it would look if she hoarded all the party pastries, hurried after him: “Here! Take these sausage rolls—and don’t let me see you in the yard again! Stay inside ’til your mum gets home, do you hear?” Danny, grateful, slipped away. Mrs. Smith had a party to host; her darling Svetlana’s birthday was being celebrated in grand style, and the last thing she needed was the “big-headed, scrawny neighbour boy” in the way. Danny munched his pastry on the windowsill, watching the girls and their friends dash about the back garden, and especially the birthday girl in her fancy pink dress—like a fairy or storybook princess. The children drifted towards the old well at the end of the lawn—the very place Kate had always warned Danny never to go near. The rotten beams might give way! He promised he would never. But abruptly, Danny noticed something odd: Svetlana, the girl in the pink dress, was missing from the group—nowhere in sight. Panic-stricken, Danny dashed out and saw the children hadn’t noticed—nor had any adults at the party table. There was no time to call for help. Instinct took over: he scrambled to the well’s edge and, seeing a swirl of pale fabric deep below, yelled: “Hold on to the wall!” Danny clambered down among the slimy, crumbling beams, heart hammering. Svetlana couldn’t swim—he knew that for sure, often seeing her panic at the paddling pool while Mrs. Smith barked orders at a quivering Danny nearby. As she clung to Danny, who shouted for help, each second felt an hour. Every slip of his hand, every gasp meant the difference between life and—well, Danny couldn’t think about that. He only knew: This little girl had to live. There wasn’t enough beauty OR time in the world not to save it. His shouts were barely heard above the din, but by some grace, Mrs. Smith—searching for her granddaughter to show off to guests—suddenly realised Svetlana was missing. Shouting, panic, neighbours flocking; the birthday party became a rescue. Kate, home just then, recognised his voice, raced for the washing line rope and, with a strong neighbour’s help, climbed down. First Svetlana, then—by miracle—Danny himself were hauled out, exhausted but alive. Danny spent two weeks in hospital, arm in a cast, lungs sore, but glowing whenever Svetlana visited with her family. He was a hero. Even Mrs. Smith wept as she hugged him tight: “My dear boy, if it weren’t for you—I’ll give you anything, anything at all!” “Why?” Danny shrugged his thin shoulders. “I just did what I had to. That’s what men do, isn’t it?” What no one could know was that, in years to come, “Cricket” would still answer to his childhood nickname, and risk his life in war, driving an armoured ambulance filled with wounded out from under gunfire—and believe it simply the right thing to do. When asked why, when few had ever shown him kindness, Cricket’s answer would always be simple: “Because I’m a doctor. That’s what’s needed. To live, and to do right.” *** Dear readers, A mother’s love knows no limits. In the face of hardship, misunderstanding, and even cruelty, Kate’s devotion and belief in her boy helped him grow into a gentle and brilliant soul. This story reminds us that true heroism is defined by compassion and courage, not by looks or social standing—and that real strength is in the ability to forgive and act kindly, even to those who have never repaid you in kind. Cricket’s story shows us: Kindness always finds its way, no matter the odds. Do you, too, believe that goodness can change the world for the better? When in your life have you seen that a person’s worth lies in their heart, not their appearance?
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— In Our Family, Four Generations of Men Worked on the Railways! And What Did You Bring? — “A Little Girl, Galina,” Anna Whispered, Stroking Her Bump. — “We’ll Call Her Galina.” — “Another Girl? Is This a Joke?” snapped Mrs. Osborne, Tossing the Scan Results on the Table. — “A Family of Railwaymen for Four Generations—And You Bring Us That?” — “Galina,” Anna Repeated Quietly. — “We’re Naming Her Galina.” — “Well, at Least the Name Is Sensible. But What Good Will She Be? Who Will Ever Want Your Galina?” Max Stayed Silent, Glued to His Phone. When His Wife Asked His Opinion, He Just Shrugged: — “It Is What It Is. Maybe Next Time We’ll Have a Boy.” Anna Felt Something Clench Inside. “Next Time? Is This Baby Just a Rehearsal?” Galina Was Born in January—Tiny, Wide-Eyed, with a Shock of Dark Hair. Max Showed Up Just for the Discharge, Bringing Carnations and a Bag of Baby Clothes. — “She’s Beautiful,” He Said Cautiously, Leaning Over the Pram. — “Looks Like You.” — “But She’s Got Your Nose,” Anna Smiled. — “And Your Stubborn Chin.” — “Oh, They All Look Alike at That Age,” Max Shrugged. Mrs. Osborne Met Them at Home, Face Sour. — “Neighbour Val asked if it was a grandson or granddaughter. Embarrassing to answer—Me, playing with dolls at my age…” Anna Locked Herself in the Nursery and Cried, Hugging Her Daughter. Max Worked Longer Hours, Picking Up Overtime on Other Shifts. “Family’s Expensive, Especially With a Kid,” He’d Say. He Came Home Late, Tired, and Barely Spoke. — “She Waits for You,” Anna Told Him When He Walked Past the Nursery, Not Even Looking In. — “Galina Brightens Up Whenever She Hears Your Footsteps.” — “I’m Tired, Anna. Early Start Tomorrow.” — “But You Haven’t Even Said Hello…” — “She’s Too Young. She Won’t Understand.” But Galina Did. Anna Saw How Her Daughter Turned Her Head Toward the Door When She Heard Dad’s Steps, and Stared Long After They’d Gone. At Eight Months, Galina Fell Ill. The Fever Shot Up to Thirty-Nine, Then Forty. Anna Woke Max: — “Get Up—Galina’s Really Unwell!” — “What Time Is It?” He Grumbled. — “Just After Seven. I Haven’t Slept a Wink. We Need the Hospital!” — “So Early? Maybe Wait ‘til Evening? Important Shift Today…” Anna Looked at Him Like He Was a Stranger. — “Your Daughter’s Burning Up and You’re Worried About Work?” — “She’s Not Dying! Kids Get Sick.” Anna Ordered a Taxi Herself. At the Hospital, Doctors Put Galina in Infectious Diseases, Suspecting Serious Inflammation—She Needed a Spinal Tap. — “Where’s the Father?” the Consultant Asked. — “Both Parents Need to Consent.” — “He’s… at Work. He’ll Be Here Soon.” Anna Rang Max All Day. No Signal. He Finally Answered Near 7pm. — “I’m at the Depot, Busy…” — “Max, Galina’s Got Suspected Meningitis! They Need Your Consent—NOW!” — “What, a Spinal Tap? I Don’t Get…” — “Come Here—Please!” — “Can’t—Shift Ends at Eleven. And Then I’m Out With the Lads…” Anna Hung Up. She Signed the Consent Alone—as the Mother, She Was Entitled. The Tap Was Done Under General Anaesthetic. Galina Looked So Small on That Big Trolley. — “Results Tomorrow,” Said the Doctor. — “If It’s Meningitis, Treatment’ll Be Long. Six Weeks in Hospital.” Anna Slept the Night There. Galina Lay Pale Under a Drip, Her Chest Rising Weakly. Max Appeared at Lunch Next Day—Unshaven, Rumpled. — “So… How Is She?” He Asked, Hovering in the Doorway. — “Not Good,” Anna Replied Briefly. “We’re Waiting for Results.” — “What Did They… Do?” — “A Lumbar Puncture. Took Fluid From Her Back.” Max Blanched. — “Did It Hurt?” — “She Was Asleep. Didn’t Feel a Thing.” He Stood Silent By the Cot. Galina Slept, Tiny Hand Wrapped With Tape for Her Cannula. — “She’s… So Small,” Max Whispered. “I Didn’t Think…” Anna Didn’t Reply. Good News—No Meningitis. Just a Nasty Virus, Treatable at Home. — “You Got Lucky,” Said the Doctor. “Another Day or Two—It Would Have Been Worse.” On the Way Home, Max Was Quiet. Just Before They Arrived, He Asked Softly: — “Am I Really a Bad Father?” Anna Shifted Her Sleeping Daughter and Looked at Him. — “What Do You Think?” — “I Thought There Was Plenty of Time. She Was So Little, Didn’t Know Anything. But When I Saw Her There, With Tubes… I Realised I Could Lose Her. And That I Have So Much to Lose.” — “Max, She Needs a Father,” Anna Said. “Not Just a Breadwinner. A Dad Who Knows Her Name and Her Favourite Toys.” — “What Are They?” He Whispered. — “Her Rubber Hedgehog and Rattle With Bells. She Always Crawls To The Door When She Hears You. She Waits For You To Pick Her Up.” Max Lowered His Head. — “I Didn’t Know…” — “You Do Now.” At Home, Galina Woke and Cried—Thin and Sad. Max Reached for Her, Then Hesitated. — “May I?” — “She’s Your Daughter.” He Picked Her Up Gently. The Little Girl Quietened, Gaze Locked On His Face. — “Hello, Darling,” Max Whispered. “Sorry I Wasn’t There When You Needed Me.” Galina Reached Out and Touched His Cheek. Max Felt His Throat Tighten. — “Daddy,” Galina Said Suddenly—Her First Word. Max Looked at Anna, Eyes Wide. — “She… She Said…” — “She’s Been Saying It a Week,” Anna Smiled. “Just—Only When You’re Not Home. Maybe She Was Waiting for the Right Moment.” That Night, Galina Slept In Dad’s Arms. Max Carried Her To Bed, Hesitating To Loosen Her Grip on His Finger. — “She Doesn’t Want To Let Go,” Max Murmured. — “She’s Afraid You’ll Disappear Again,” Anna Explained. He Sat By Her Cot Half an Hour, Not Daring to Move. — “Tomorrow I’ll Take The Day Off,” He Told Anna. “And The Day After, Too. I Want… I Want To Get To Know My Daughter.” — “What About Work? The Extra Shifts?” — “We’ll Manage. Or Live More Simply. The Most Important Thing Is Not To Miss Her Growing Up.” Anna Hugged Him. — “Better Late Than Never.” — “I’d Never Forgive Myself If Something Happened—And I Didn’t Even Know Her Favourite Toys…” Max Whispered, Watching Galina Sleep. “Or That She Could Already Say ‘Daddy’.” A Week Later, When Galina Was Well Again, The Three Of Them Went For A Walk In The Park. Galina Rode Her Father’s Shoulders, Laughing and Grabbing Autumn Leaves. — “Look, Galina! Isn’t That Beautiful?” Max Showed Her The Golden Maples. “And There’s a Squirrel!” Anna Walked Beside Them, Wondering How Sometimes It Takes Nearly Losing What You Love To Realise How Much It Means. Mrs. Osborne Met Them at Home, Still Grumbling. — “Max, Val’s Grandson’s Already Playing Football. And Yours—Just Plays with Dolls.” — “My Daughter’s the Best in the World,” Max Replied, Calmly Sitting Galina Down and Handing Her the Rubber Hedgehog. “And Dolls Are Marvellous.” — “But The Family Line Will End…” — “No, It Won’t. It’ll Continue. 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