Two years have passed since I got married, and from the very beginning, my mother-in-law never accepted me. She believes her son deserves someone better and does everything to break us apart.
At first, I tried ignoring her remarks, but over time, her criticism grew more frequent and hurtful. No matter what I did, it was never good enough for her.
My husband knew what was happening but kept saying it would passthat his mother would eventually accept me and that deep down, she was a good person.
One morning, she walked into my room and dumped a bucket of cold water on me, shouting, *”Get up, lazybones!”* I woke up in shock, drenched and bewildered.
When I asked why she did it, she snapped, *”No one sleeps till noon in my house! Everyone wakes up early!”*
I checked the clock6:30 AM, *Sunday.* Shaking with anger, I replied, *”I deserve rest! It’s my only day off.”*
She wasnt even trying to understand. With a cold stare, she said, *”What rights? Under my roof, you follow my rules!”*
That was the last straw. She crossed every line, and I knew it was time to act…
Im sharing this story and want your thoughts. Did she have the right to treat me this way?
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When I told my husband everything, I was at my breaking point but determined. I explained how humiliating his mothers behavior was and how it made me feel.
I said I couldnt endure it anymore, especially from someone who shouldve been maternal, not tyrannical.
I wasnt asking him to choose between usjust to take a stand. I needed his support and boundaries with his mother.
He stayed silent for a while, then finally met my eyes and said, *”Youre right. We come first. We should leave and live our own life.”*
We decided to move out together, away from his mothers toxicity.