My mother-in-law has decided to move into my flat and give her own place to my daughter.
My husband, William, grew up in a large family. His mother kept having children until, at last, she had a daughter. Its a peculiar way to go about things, but its not for me to judge.
When I married, I believed myself fortunate. William seemed dependable, brave, and strong. He seemed to understand the meaning of family, yet he couldnt detach himself from his mother and younger sister. My mother-in-law wasnt especially affectionate towards her sons, yet her daughters comfort would always take precedence.
Sophie, Williams sister, was ten when we met. To start with, she didnt bother me, but after five years, I began to struggle. She refused to focus on her studies, got involved with unsavoury boys, and William was expected to resolve everything. Sophie had no qualms ringing him up for help at the most ungodly hours.
I clung to the hope that Sophie would grow up, find a husband, and wed be free of all this. But no such luck! When she finally did decide to marry, my mother-in-law insisted her sons foot the bill for the wedding since she herself had nothing. Sophies husband had little money, and so the newlyweds moved in with my mother-in-law.
The children came quickly, and soon enough, it became clear that living together wouldnt do for much longer. Thats when my mother-in-law found the ideal solution shed move in with us and hand her flat over to Sophie. But is that really fair? I bought our flat with my own money William didnt contribute a penny! Oddly enough, he seems perfectly content with this arrangement and tells me, Mum will help you.
We only have a two-bedroom flat. I have no desire whatsoever to give up my comfort and share my space. My mother-in-law firmly believes that, as Williams the eldest son, we owe it to her to see to her well-being.
I do love my husband divorce isnt on the cards. But how am I to make him understand? How do I explain to him that living with his mother would be intolerable? Perhaps someone out there can offer a bit of advice?
