My marriage always seemed ordinary. Not the kind you see on Instagramflawless and stagedbut solid, dependable. There were no explosive arguments, no fits of jealousy, no warning signs that might hint at anything worse. He never hid his phone, never came home late, never shifted his routine. Suspicion never even entered my mind.
The woman he left me for worked with him. She was younger than me, unmarried, no children. Id met her a handful of times. Shed even been in my home once, when his company had their little gathering here. She greeted me cordially, spoke politely. Nothing about her presence felt off. No alarm bells rang.
It was a Friday night when it all unravelled. He came in from work, tossed his keys onto the table, and told me we needed to talk. He sat across from me, looked me straight in the eye, and started without preamble: he didnt love me anymore; he was confused; hed met someone else, and he was leaving me for her. He told me it wasnt my faultthat I was a good womanbut that she made him feel alive.
I asked him since when. He saidfor months now. I asked why Id never noticed. He replied it was precisely because hed been careful. That very evening, he packed a bag with a few clothes and left. There was no epic confrontation. No last-ditch attempt to rescue things.
The months that followed were the darkest I have ever known. I didnt have a steady job. The bills arrived, stacking up one after another. Rent, utilities, groceries. I started selling off bits and pieces from our home. There were days I managed on a single meal. Sometimes, I turned off the heating to save money. I cried, and yet every morning, somehow, I had to pull myself out of bed and figure out how I was going to keep going.
I hunted for work, but everywhere wanted recent references or qualifications that I didnt have. Out of desperation, one day I baked a batch of scones and sold them to a neighbour. Then I made more. I began offering them on WhatsApp, trudged around the neighbourhood delivering and selling them. Some days, I came home having sold hardly any. Other days, they all disappeared.
Bit by bit, people sought me out. I baked into the night and delivered at dawn. That covered the groceries first. Then the bills. Then the rent. It didnt happen quickly, and it was never easy. It was months of exhaustion, little sleep, living always on the edge.
Thats still my life. I havent become wealthy. But I manage. I dont rely on anyone else. The house isnt quite what it was, but its mine. Hes still with the woman who took him away. Ive never spoken to him again.
If Ive learned anything, its how to get by when you dont have a choice. Not because I wanted to be strongjust because there was no one else to do it for me.












