MY ENGLISH DAUGHTER-IN-LAW
Mum, Im marrying Emily. In three months, well have a baby, my son told me, leaving no room for discussion.
I cant say I was shockedafter all, my son had introduced Emily to me some time ago. But her age troubled me. She hadnt yet turned eighteen, and my boy was still due for his service in the Army. Children themselves, yet already planning a wedding and with a baby on the way.
Finding a wedding dress took ages. Emily, after all, was seven months along, and that bump made itself known.
Once the celebrations quieted, the young couple moved in with Emilys parents. My son would visit me weekly, locking himself away in his old room and asking not to be disturbed. As a mother, of course, I worried.
One day, I rang Emily.
Is everything alright with Oliver? I asked.
Of course. Why wouldnt it be? Emily was unflustered, calm as a cucumber.
Emily, do you know where your husband is at this moment? I probed.
Mrs. Williams, do mind your own business, please. Well sort ourselves out, she replied, quite sharply for the firstand not the lasttime.
Sorry to take up your time, I said quickly, and hung up.
I have always been a peaceable sortso, I let them stew in their own juices. I wasnt about to meddle further.
Soon, Emily brought a girl into the world, whom she named Harriet. I never liked the name, and in my heart I called my granddaughter Beatie.
Oliver was called up for Army service, posted far from home. Throughout those two years, I made trips to see little Beatie. Each visit, I noticed how Emily blossomedshe was a beauty, almost alarmingly so. It did cross my mind: what if this lovely student girl doesnt wait for her husband?
Id sensed Emily never truly warmed to me. Whenever I arrived, shed quickly pass over the pram, sighing as if shed seen enough of me, then send me out for a walk with Beatie. Even her looks communicated her dislikea hostility that cut deep. I began to dread that chilly house, and tried not to overstay.
After his service, Oliver returned. For a while, things seemed right between thema quiet, loving home. My heart was at ease. Beatie grew, Oliver doted on his wife, and Emily ran the house gracefully. The next fifteen years sailed by in this domestic harmony.
Then, everything changed. Emily, it seemed, became a different woman. Suitors started appearingone after anotherand my daughter-in-law didnt try to hide her affairs. People do say, you cant keep a bad loaf under a lid. Oliver endured it all for nearly three years; he loved Emily, and I saw his suffering.
Emily, on the other hand, stung him with words, mocking and belittling. I didnt dare speak to her of moralsI was almost afraid of her, truth be told. That fierce look could wilt flowers.
Son, I once asked quietly, are you and Emily not getting on? Whats happened?
Dont worry, Mum. Itll all work out, Oliver tried to assure me.
He seemed full of guilt, as if he somehow deserved this misery. Unable to bear it, I went to see Emily myself.
Emily, may I ask something? I ventured softly, careful not to rouse her temper.
Youd do better asking your son just what, or rather who, he gets up to at work! My aunts told me everythingyour darling boys the first to cheat! Emily flared.
Heavens, why did I ever interfere? I kept everything to myself. You cant please everyone, and theres no sense driving yourself mad trying.
Not long after, Oliver and Emily divorced. Beatie stayed with her mother.
Oliver threw himself into bachelorhoodhis romantic companions changed constantly: brunettes, blondes, redheads. He was never lonely.
Emily remarried at once, and Oliver was the one who broke the news to mehe even wept. Shed always been a caring wife, in a way.
Olivers next wife was Janea petite, clever, and shrewd woman. He was thirty-five, she forty. My son walked on air, doting on her every word and whim. Jane quickly took charge: she demanded marriage in church, a flat for her daughter, and that Oliver would provide for her every need.
Unlike Emily, Jane tried to befriend me; she called me by my first name and insisted on informality. I didnt care for it, but I let it be. All the gifts Jane bought with my sons money still hang unworn in my wardrobe. They mean nothing to me.
Janes smiles were forced, her words falseand as for Oliver, I dont believe she ever truly loved him. She saw him as a purse, and never hesitated to demand more.
Emily mightve been brash, but she was genuine, called me formally, and loved Oliver in her own way.
Jane never cooked, preferring ready meals from the grocers. Once, I tried suggesting she make Oliver a proper soup, instead of eating cold sandwiches.
Sally, dont try to teach your grandmother to suck eggs, Jane shot back.
Her friends always came firstjust like her: off to expensive health spas, coffee in trendy cafés, wandering high streets for the latest fads. Should anything displease her, thered be dramatears, tantrums, the lot.
Serve Jane her eggs, but only peeled, mind. How Oliver stands it, I cant comprehend. I think their pairing is a folly.
More and more, I find myself thinking back to practical Emilythe comparison is plain. Her roast dinners, her delicious pies, her cakes were divine. Why did Oliver let it all slip away? He couldnt hold on to such a woman. Its his own doing.
Im pleased Beatie still remembers me, bringing little trinkets. Emily, despite everything, is still my true daughter-in-law at heart. Only after losing someone do you see their worth. Jane will always be an outsider. My sons heart, I believe, still belongs to Emilybut theres no road back now.












