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My Ex-Sister-in-Law Turned Up at Christmas Dinner—and Left the Whole Family Speechless

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My former sister-in-law showed up at Christmas dinner and left us all speechless.

When the doorbell rang at 8:47pm on 31st December, everyone in the family glanced at each other as if we’d just heard a fire alarm. My mum dropped the ladle straight into the pot of stew. Dad paused the Christmas song right in the middle of the chorus. And me I nearly choked on a mince pie.

Who else are we expecting? Mum asked, mentally counting the guests.

My brother, James, looked up from the sofa where he was building a tower of blocks with his four-year-old daughter, Lily. His face went pale by several shades.

No way he muttered.

But there she was. Because when we opened the front door, standing there was Emilymy former sister-in-law of six months, holding a bowl of trifle in one hand and a bottle of wine in the other.

Family! she exclaimed with a beaming grin. Happy New Year!

A silence so thick descended upon us, you couldve sliced it with the carving knife.

Emily I started, searching for the right words. Didnt you?

Break up with James? she finished for me, strolling in as if nothing had happened. Yes. Thats right. But I broke up with HIM, not with you lot. And are we celebrating with James tonight? No, are we? We’re celebrating with FAMILY.

Mumbless her, always the peacemakerwas the first to break.

Well she does have a point.

Mum! James protested.

Auntie Em! shrieked Lily, dashing over to throw her arms round Emily.

Thats when we all realised we were done for.

What followed was perhaps the strangest yet most harmonious family dinner of my life. Emily sat in her usual spot, helped serve the turkey, and even passed the salt to James with such casual grace that we were left gaping.

More mash? she offered my brother.

Yes, thanks, he replied, utterly confused.

Still snoring like a chainsaw?

Emily, please

Well, your next girlfriend ought to know. Its important.

I do NOT have a new girlfriend!

Oh, good. Then theres no rush.

Dad kicked me under the table, struggling to keep from laughing. Mum pretended to be deeply interested in her glass of wine.

Things only became more surreal when it was time for presents. Emily had brought something for EVERYONEeven James, who received a book on mindfulness and controlling your temper.

You do get rather tense when it comes to sorting the recycling, she said gently, as he unwrapped the gift with clenched jaw.

But what truly melted any lingering resistance was when Lily fell asleep on the sofawith her head in her mums lap and feet across her dad’s knees. Emily and James exchanged a lookthe kind only two people who have shared something special can give.

Youre still family, Mum whispered, placing her hand over Emilys. Split or not.

As we washed up after dinner, I couldnt help but smile and think that my family was utterly dysfunctional, and perfectly ours.

James wandered through the kitchen, carrying a sleeping Lily to his car.

Ill give you a lift home, he sighed to Emily, with a resigned shrug.

What a gentleman! See why I married you? she grinned.

Do you see why we got divorced?

Yet both were smiling. Who knows what the new year would bring for this mad, wonderful family?

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