I live with my mother, I work in two places. I buy groceries and pay the utilities because all my mother’s pension goes to my brother. I am saving money for my own apartment, it is difficult for me to pay all the bills and save money. I save a lot to achieve what I want. Recently my brother called me. He wants to take a debt from me for a down payment. I calmly refused him, because he will not return the debt. And I want to buy my own apartment. My brother was offended and told my mother everything. My mother started me …
I have a three-year difference with my brother, he is older than me. A few years ago he got married and moved to a rented apartment with his wife. They live well, although they never have money. My brother works as a taxi driver, after my father’s death he inherited a shabby “Volga”, so he earns money on it. The main job of the brother is that he takes orders for the repair of residential buildings. He has no fixed salary: if there is an order, there is money – and vice versa. Therefore, he and his wife have a hard time. Sometimes they themselves are guilty that they have no money. Firstly, they spend it on any nonsense. They can easily order pizza, rolls, spend on expensive clothes and gadgets.
My brother also plays with bets. In total, they can spend one week’s salary. Secondly, not having their own housing, they are already waiting for the third child. They reproduce recklessly, as they say. I live with my mother, I work in two places. I buy food and pay for utilities, because all my mother’s pension goes to my brother. My mother thinks that I do not need help. I am an independent girl, but it is difficult for my brother, he has a family. I do not agree with this. For example, I save money for my own apartment, it is difficult for me to pay all the bills and save money. I save a lot to achieve what I want. I can safely pass with an old phone, but my brother’s wife will crash against the wall, but she will take the latest model of a cool phone on credit. Recently, my brother called me. He wants to take a debt from me for a down payment. I calmly refused him, because he will not return the debt.
And I want to buy my own apartment. My brother was offended and told my mother everything. My mother began to persuade me to give him the money. I explained to her that I hardly managed to save up, I do not intend to give such a large sum for free. – You are a family. You have to help him, even if he doesn’t return the money. Why don’t you give him the money, and I’ll sign this apartment over to you. When I’m gone, you’ll be in charge of this place, – my mother suggested. I refused such a generous offer, because it was somehow wrong to wait for my mother to give up skates. My mother took my decision in the bayonet. Now I am evicted from the house, because my brother and his family are moving to my mother. Do you see that it would be easier for them to save money. And nobody cares that I have nowhere to go. My mother said that I have money, so I will not be lost, and my brother does not talk to me at all. To be honest, I do not feel guilty. I did what I thought was right.