I never thought that I would have to leave my homeland because of my relatives, who believe that I am obliged to help all my relatives as long as they have financial difficulties. The fact is that since school I decided for myself that I would study to become a programmer, because I like this business. So it turned out that I graduated from school, went to study in another city and constantly developed in this direction. Therefore, I found a highly paid job in my specialty very easily and quickly.
I was very happy because I was doing my favorite job and earning good money; I was not going to get married because family is not my thing. I enjoyed life while I had the opportunity. Of course, I helped my mother with finances; every year I rested at the resort, I also took my mother with me, to whom I am very grateful for everything I had and have. Once I was angry that my younger brother started asking me for money all the time because he had no job. I, of course, gave my brother money, but as soon as I noticed that he was starting to take advantage of the kinship, I told him that he could get up, go to work and earn his own money.
I didn’t feel sorry for the money, I just don’t like it when people sit and wait for it to fall from the sky: I said it for the good of my brother, I cared about his fate. After I refused to give money to my brother, my mother called and quarreled with me, saying that I was greedy, that I should not forget my relatives, my relatives also turned away from me. In order not to feel embarrassed all the time, I decided to move to another country. I do not regret that I made such a decision; now I am doing well: as before, I earn good money, but I do not communicate with my relatives anymore. I try to call my mother and help her, no matter what.
