Mum, Im getting married! called out Ben, his voice ringing with excitement.
Im glad, replied Patricia Evans, though she sounded less than thrilled.
Mum, whats wrong? Ben asked, puzzled.
Nothing Where are you planning to live? Patricia asked, her eyes narrowing ever so slightly.
Here, if thats alright? The flat is big enough, three bedrooms. Surely well have plenty of space? he replied.
Do I have a choice? his mother asked.
Well, we cant really afford to rent right now, Ben said, sighing. Rent is outrageous these days. If we did, wed barely afford our food, let alone save for our own place. Besides, this way well be able to save up for a deposit much quicker.
Patricia shrugged. I suppose she said. Alright then, you two can move in and stay as long as you need. But I have two conditions: we split the council tax and bills three ways, and Im not going to be the housekeeper.
Deal, Mum. Whatever you say! Ben agreed immediately.
They had a small, simple wedding, and soon enough, the new couple Ben and his bride Emily moved in together with Patricia Evans.
From the very first day, Patricias life seemed to gain new momentum. The newlyweds would come home after work, but the flat would be empty and Patricia nowhere to be found; saucepans empty of food and the flat just as messy as the youngsters had left it that morning.
Mum, where have you been? Ben asked one evening, surprised.
Oh, Ben! I was invited down the Community Centre to sing with the Folk Choir. You know Ive got a decent voice Patricia replied with a twinkle.
Really? Ben was genuinely surprised.
Well, yes! I told you ages ago, but you never listen to your old mum, she teased. Theres a lovely crowd of pensioners we sing, we chat, its brilliant fun! Ill be going again tomorrow!
And whats happening tomorrow? he asked.
Literary night were reading Shakespeare, Patricia declared. You know how much I love Shakespeare.
Ben could only shake his head, realising how much hed missed about his mothers interests. Emily watched quietly, saying nothing.
Since Bens wedding, Patricia turned over a new leaf: she joined pensioners clubs, reconnected with old friends, gathered new ones, and often hosted a cheerful group in the kitchen late into the night, brewing tea with biscuits brought along by her friends and playing bingo. Sometimes she went for walks, or got absorbed in her favourite TV dramas, oblivious to her son and daughter-in-law coming in and greeting her.
As for housework, Patricia stuck to her guns. It was up to Ben and Emily to tidy up and cook. At first, they didnt complain, then Emily started casting sidelong glances, then theyd share quiet grumbles, and Ben began sighing loudly. But Patricia paid these little signals no mind, focusing on her vibrant new social life.
One day, she swept in, humming Greensleeves. Entering the kitchen and seeing the young couple glumly eating their homemade soup, she beamed with delight.
Congratulations, my dears! she announced. Ive met a lovely gentleman, and tomorrow were off together for a weekend in Bath! Isnt that wonderful news?
It is, Ben and Emily agreed in harmony.
Is it serious? Ben asked, uncertain whether there might soon be another resident in the flat.
Its early days, Patricia replied. Ill know more after our trip.
She helped herself to the soup, enjoying it thoroughly even going back for seconds.
But on her return, Patricia was disappointed. She confided that Brian wasnt right for her, and theyd parted ways; however, she was optimistic, insisting life was far from over. Her schedule of clubs, walks, and gatherings resumed.
Eventually, after coming home to a messy flat and an empty fridge one too many times, Emily couldnt hold back. She slammed the fridge and complained loudly, Mrs Evans! Couldnt you help with the housework too? The place is a tip, and were out of food! Why should Ben and I do everything?
Whats all this fuss about? Patricia asked, truly surprised. If you lived on your own, who would do it?
But youre here! Emily retorted.
Im not your servant, dear. Ive spent years running a house Im done! I told Ben right from the start: I wasnt going to be the maid. If he didnt tell you, thats not my fault, Patricia said.
I honestly thought you were joking, Ben admitted, flustered.
So you want a comfortable life and expect me to take care of all the chores and whip up dinner every day? No! I said no, and I meant it. If youre not happy, youre free to find your own place.
With that, Patricia retreated to her room.
The next morning, as if nothing had happened, she hummed Early One Morning, put on a stylish blouse, brushed on her favourite red lipstick, and set off for the Community Centre. The choir was waiting for her.
Life sometimes brings unexpected changes, and it is important to find balance between helping family and maintaining your own happiness. If you want your life to be truly fulfilling, remember to set boundaries, cherish your independence, and always make time for the things you love.












