I have a lady who works in the office with me. She looks about fifty years old, but in reality she’s sixty-two. She’s about to retire, but she keeps working and getting creative, and she has no plans to retire yet. She is very much appreciated by the executives, because she has been with the company for a long time, knows everything well, and never makes any mistakes. She is much more valued than our younger employees, and her salary is higher. As she says herself, she doesn’t have much to spend – she lives mostly on her husband’s pension, and she saves her own money and spends it on her grandson.
Max is twenty-one, but he lives on his grandmother’s and his parents’ money. He is a grown-up guy who is graduating from university and is not going to work. But Grandma likes it that way. It makes him easier to control.
Her grandson had a girl she didn’t like in appearance, and she was able to get Max to dump her. There was another girl who “let herself go too much”-a defiant response, as I understand it. Max liked her a lot, and wanted to live together in the apartment my grandmother was renting for her grandson. And she gave him an ultimatum.
– Since you’re such an adult, I can’t tell you to dump someone. But since you’re able to make your own adult decisions and build relationships with girls, it’s time for you to take care of the rent yourself…
She told him so, and the grandson immediately broke up with the girl – too reluctant to lose a comfortable place to live. And the grandmother continues to twist him around as she pleases, threatening to move out.
Is that any way to treat your own grandson or child? And then brag about her “heavy artillery” at every corporate party, telling young girls to do the same to their child. The child will never grow up this way and will be hanging on your neck. And why force a bad and calculating relationship with girls on him in this way?