I’ve Embraced Motherhood Twice: Now My Children and I Have Everything We Need for a Happy Life

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Im Sarah Thompson, and Ive actually been a surrogate twice its the only thing thats ever really turned our lives around, and now my girls and I have everything we need to live comfortably.

I popped out my first daughter, Emily, when I was just eighteen. The delivery was a breeze, and I realized birth isnt as scary as everyone makes it out to be. Surrogacy was already a wellknown option by then, so I started giving it some serious thought.

My family wasnt exactly rolling in it. My parents struggled to keep my three sisters Grace, Lucy, Hannah and me fed and clothed. Id married at seventeen, and with James and our little baby we were scraping by. We had no cash, no flat, and were living handtomouth. I began looking into surrogacy as a way out, but James wasnt keen and I couldnt convince him even though it seemed like the only way to ease our money worries.

A while later we had a second child, and things went from bad to worse. James finally packed his bags, saying he couldnt handle the pressure any longer. I was left alone with two toddlers. Thankfully Mum and my sisters stepped in, watching the girls while I worked nights. Still, the bills kept piling up, and I knew I had to act on a plan Id been mulling over for years.

I booked a train to Manchester and applied at a reputable surrogacy clinic there. We tried implanting an embryo a few times, but nothing took. The last attempt ended in a miscarriage, and I went home feeling defeated. Six months later I spotted an online ad for a clinic offering a solid package, so I gave them a call. What have I got to lose? I told myself. If it works, great; if not, thats life.

This round, everything clicked. For a year we lived in a lovely twobed flat in a brandnew block, and the intended parents the Browns from Surrey were wonderful. They spoiled us with topshelf groceries, bought our girls new toys, and footed the bill for trips to the cinema and the zoo. Nine months later I delivered a healthy, handsome baby boy, Jack.

With the surrogacy payment, we were able to buy a twobedroom house in our hometown of Bristol, and the extra cash gave us a breathing space wed never had before. Two years on, I was approached again, this time by a couple from Edinburgh looking for a surrogate. I welcomed the challenge and gave birth to their child as well.

Now we live in a spacious house, and Emily and the twins have everything they could ever want. Some folks still raise eyebrows at what Ive done, but I see nothing wrong with giving my family a good life, even if it means taking the road less travelled.

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Here you go, love, take this for you and your little brothers. Eat up, my dear. It’s no sin to share—only to turn away and pretend you don’t see. Alina was only six years old, yet life had already burdened her with more than most children could ever imagine. She lived in a tiny English village that time seemed to have forgotten, in an old cottage kept standing more by prayers than bricks. When the wind howled, the floorboards creaked like sad lullabies, and at night the cold slipped in through the cracks, uninvited. Her parents worked odd jobs—sometimes there was work, sometimes not. They often returned home exhausted, hands raw, eyes empty, and pockets as empty as hope. Left at home, Alina looked after her two younger brothers, holding them close every time hunger bit deeper than the cold. That day was December—a true English winter, with iron-grey skies and air tinged with the promise of snow. Christmas was knocking on doors, though not theirs. In the pot on their old stove simmered a plain potato stew—no meat, no spices, but made with a mother’s love. Alina stirred it gently, wishing she could make it last for everyone. Suddenly, a delicious, warm smell drifted over from next door—a scent that warmed your soul before it even reached your stomach. The neighbours were having a Christmas roast. Laughter, the clatter of plates, and the sizzle of meat on the stove floated across the fence. For Alina, it sounded like a fairy tale from faraway. She crept to the garden gate, brothers clinging to her coat. She swallowed hard—she asked for nothing, only watched, her big brown eyes shining with silent longing. She knew well not to envy what others had, for that’s what her mother taught her. But her small heart couldn’t help but dream. “Please, God,” she whispered. “Just a little bit…” And as if her prayer had been heard, a gentle voice broke through the cold air: “Alina, love!” She flinched. “Come here, sweetheart!” called out old Mrs. Vickers, standing by her stove, cheeks rosy with warmth and kind eyes bright as a fireplace. She stirred the mashed potatoes and looked at Alina with a kindness the child hadn’t felt in a long time. “Here you are, love, for you and your little brothers,” she said, her kindness simple and true. Alina stood frozen by the gate, shame tightening around her heart. Was she allowed to be happy? But Mrs. Vickers beckoned again, and with trembling hands filled a container with hot, roasted meat that smelled like a real Christmas. “Eat up, my dear. It’s no sin to share—the only sin is turning away when you see someone in need.” Alina’s tears fell freely—not for hunger, but because, for the first time, someone had truly seen her, not as “the poor girl,” but as a child. She ran home, clutching the food like a precious gift. Her brothers’ faces lit up with joy, and for a few precious moments, their little home rang with laughter, warmth, and a festive smell like never before. When her weary parents returned that evening, they found their children smiling and fed. Her mother wept in silence, her father removed his cap and gave thanks for small mercies. That night, there was no Christmas tree, no presents—just kindness. Sometimes, that’s all you need to feel you’re not alone in this world. There are children like Alina, even now, who don’t ask for anything, who just look on. They look to the glowing windows, laden tables, and someone else’s Christmas. 🤍 Sometimes, a hot meal, a small gesture, or a kind word can be the greatest gift of all. 👉 If this story touched your heart, don’t just walk by.