It is possible to live in accordance with the rules set by GOD for marriage. This will bring many blessings.
This blessing cannot be taken away if you, as a man, subject your wife family mockery/oppression. It cannot be unlocked if you violate your husband’s duty. It cannot be unlocked if you keep it to yourself (me-me even though it is meant to be “ours”)
Although I can’t write very well, I will try. Although I worked hard before meeting my wife, I wasn’t promoted for more than four years. Instead, promotions were awarded to newly hired employees. I was a hardworking and dedicated employee but I didn’t get promoted.
In 2018, I was married to my wife. At that time, I was earning over 100,000 Naira. This was a small amount considering where we live. Even though my husband was working on her NYSC, she received a small paycheck. I made sure that my wife got a share. She encouraged me to give a portion to my mother, who was still working.
My wife prayed every day for me until I was saved by GOD’s grace. Over the past two years, I have received numerous promotions. As I write this, I earn more than 500,000 Nigerian naira per month.
Even though my wife isn’t employed, I still honor, love, cherish, and respect her. She knows every dollar in my wallet and we jointly decide how to spend it.
My happiness is the greatest thing. My wife is able to see the pin on every ATM card. I don’t make any decisions without her approval, no matter how big or small. Because my money is hers, we divide our paychecks and agree to share them.
In addition to the monthly maintenance payment for the house, I give her a $30k per month salary, which she can use as she pleases.
You can work on yourself to be a better partner than a nice one. If you aren’t honest, don’t ask God for a marriage. My wife is very generous. My admiration for her genuine demeanor is immediately evident. My paycheck will be deposited to my wife’s bank account. However, I can assure her that she won’t waste it.
Dear wifey, we appreciate your willingness to give up your job so that our home could run smoothly. Thank you for allowing me to have mental peace during this trip. Thank you for showing me how to care for my mother in a new environment (this is another story). This has also brought me many blessings. I want to thank you for all of the other things that you have done for me.
You are the true VIP. God’s grace, I promise to continue this path with you in greater happiness and openness, devotion, and so forth.
The Holy Bible is our guideline. I have never cheated with God’s assistance, and I will never again. You can ignore the fact that men are polygamous in nature. There are godly men. I am one of them by God’s grace and am surrounded by them. My observations show that if men love their spouses like Christ loved the church, they can gain respect, humility and trust from them.
