For a whole week now, my husband and I have been fighting all the time. And here’s what happened. A week ago, Kevin went to work and left his phone at home. At about ten o’clock the phone started beeping and some messages started coming in. I wanted to turn the phone off so it wouldn’t wake up our baby. But then I looked at the phone and saw that there was a notification. And the chat is called “My Family.”
Of course, I opened it and started reading. I was very interested: I didn’t have such a chat room. It turns out that I’m in the family – an outsider. I was very offended.
I have been married for three years. Eight months ago I had a baby. Of course, our baby was very welcome. We all love him very much. And my mother-in-law has been acting very strange since the birth of my grandson. She is constantly giving me advice on what and how I should do.
Some of the advice, of course, is good, and I put it into practice. But I do not agree with some of my mother-in-law’s advice and that is why I do not follow it. And my mother-in-law constantly checks what I feed the baby, asks me how many times a day I walk with him. She also asks me if I bathe him every day. I am very tired of this constant control.
But I tried not to aggravate the relationship, because I didn’t want to quarrel with my mother-in-law. I was agreeing with her and doing things my way. But when I read a chat room with just my husband’s sister, my husband, his mother, and his father, I learned a lot about myself.
My mother-in-law scolded me all the time. She wrote that I was doing everything wrong. She was also supported by my husband’s sister, who had no children at all. And my husband did not say a word in my defense. I was very hurt! When my husband came home after work, I told him what I thought about it. And he gave me a terrible scandal.
– Why did you take my phone? You had no right to take it! It’s my private thing!
Now my husband won’t talk to me. He blames me for everything and doesn’t feel guilty. We’ve already agreed that we can even get a divorce. I believe that my husband betrayed me, since he discusses me behind my back.
– You can take my phone and read everything on it! I have nothing against it! I have nothing to hide from you! – I told my husband.
But he still thinks I had no right to take his phone. I just don’t know what’s going to happen next.
