I married my father’s best friend and couldn’t believe what he had prepared for our first night…
When I told my parents that I was going to marry Michael, my father’s best friend, their reaction was predictable.
— That’s quite… unexpected, — my mother said cautiously, choosing her words carefully.
My father remained silent for a moment, then sighed and looked me straight in the eyes.
— Michael is a good man. But are you sure about your decision?
Without hesitation, I nodded. I was 27, and he was 45. He had always been there for me, supporting me through difficult times and never betraying my trust. It seemed like no one in the world understood me as well as he did.
Our wedding was simple but warm, surrounded by our closest family and friends. Yet deep inside, I still felt a slight sense of uncertainty. I loved Michael, I trusted him, but what was next? What would our marriage truly be like?
When we returned home after the ceremony, the tension I had been trying to ignore started building up. Michael was calm, focused, as if he had carefully planned everything.
As we stepped into the bedroom, my eyes were immediately drawn to the table in the middle of the room.
On it lay… a document.
I stopped in my tracks.
— What is this? — I asked, trying to laugh, but my voice sounded nervous.
Michael looked at me seriously.
— This is our agreement, — he said, pointing to the chair, inviting me to sit down.
I felt my heart begin to beat faster.
— What kind of agreement?
Michael sat down across from me and folded his hands on the table.
— I have realized one thing. Marriage is built not only on love but also on mutual respect and trust. I want you to know that I will never force you to do anything you are not ready for.
I looked at him, feeling a growing sense of emotion.
— So…
— So I will never pressure you into anything you don’t want, — he answered calmly. — This isn’t a legally binding document, but a promise. I promise to always respect your feelings, your boundaries, your desires, and your fears. Our marriage will be built on mutual understanding, not pressure or expectations.
I felt myself relax.
— But… you’re a man. You have your needs…
Michael smiled warmly.
— Of course. But what matters most to me is that you feel safe.
The whole night, I had been afraid of the unknown. I had tried to guess how everything would unfold, what our life together would be like. And in the end, I received the most important thing—respect.
Without reading the document, I signed it and set it aside. Then, I simply leaned into Michael’s embrace, grateful to have someone like him by my side.
It was the best first wedding night. Maybe not full of passion, but full of understanding.