I have always been a woman who loves to give my man something. I gave everything I had to my college-age boyfriend, a broke man I met while in college.
He actually learned how to share from my willingness to give. I explained to him how if you are in a loving relationship, you want them to succeed and that you want to help them. Sharing your resources is a key way to do this.
Before I left, he had already started earning money. He felt astounded. He stated that I had stood by him, helped him when he was poor, and that he couldn’t understand why I would leave him now that he has started to make more money. His infidelity was the reason I left him. Condensed and simple
Despite my natural tendency to give, I hate when people take advantage of me. I am a loner. If someone tries to exploit my willingness to share, they are cut off and kept at a distance. There have been too many instances where people were exploited, even family members.
Later, I met my husband and we got married. He is a truly remarkable man.
My husband makes more than me. He was actually the source of all N20 million in funding at that time for my company.
He provides for me and manages the family’s finances. However, I am listed as joint owner of all the properties he purchased with his own money during our marriage.
It is actually something he dislikes when I draw a distinction between my money and his. He often corrects me by saying “our currency.”
As I manage my business, he continues to send money automatically to my account every month so that I can maintain my house. He suggested that I accept a salary from his company. He is open to suggestions. He finances me and does not have any control over my affairs.
My Mimsters: Since we only have one handbag I don’t hesitate to pay school fees and other payments without consulting my husband.
God’s blessings will not require you to make any concessions or change your character to receive them. There are many lessons to be learn from my story. I hope you have learned at least some lessons from my story.
