The words and thoughts of mothers-in-law depress the natural way of life…
You know, for some reason, very often all women, when they get married, face this problem. And that problem, mother-in-law. No I do not argue, there are special cases, but mostly they always do not like something. They like to teach life, especially after the birth of children in the family.
Some pry with their advice, others with reproaches. They say they didn’t have any help before. They raised children, gave birth to four, ploughed the garden, had time to run a farm. And we’re all so lazy and lazy. If anything, we asked for help.
All the time I remember the old times. How mother-in-law loves all the time to think about him. For example, what it was like in Soviet times.
The same goes for other women. For example, someone can go back to work, give the baby to the nursery or hire a babysitter. So immediately there will be disapproving looks thrown. Like cuckoo, why did you give birth, the child needs a mother, not a grandmother. And so all the time. Or, for example, the annoying question “Why do not you breastfeed,” although now a lot of good baby formula.
It seems to me that most women are doing so out of jealousy. Maybe they didn’t have the money to pay for a nanny at the time, or they can’t afford one. Many raise children without a father. I understand and sympathize with them. But you can’t be that envious with black envy.
If a woman decides to wait until she’s 3, she won’t have any money. She’ll have to take money from her husband for pads… many people will say:
– Why does she need a pedicure, manicure and pads? She stays at home anyway. It’s easy to raise a child…
Mothers-in-law forgot all about everything. They were children too, they were sent to the village to their grandmothers for three whole months. At that time there were a lot of free activities, they did not pay for school and kindergartens, they were taken to kindergarten on time. But times are changing, and sometimes not for the better.
Motherhood is not just about carrying and giving birth. It is hard work. After three years of maternity leave, it is difficult to return to a prestigious position. The baby will be sick, the bosses will resent the sick leave. And if you get a low-paying job, you will be persecuted. Make you clean the house and shame you for not getting enough money.
Women aren’t respected at all lately. And raising a child is a difficult and responsible step that many people take. In my opinion, they should erect a monument to heroic mothers, rather than reproach them. They also need rest and simple happiness. A woman with a child never rests, as many people think. It is the same work, though there is a difference. It is not paid and is gratuitous. Everything is done for the sake of the future baby.
