He said I wasnt fit to be a dad, yet Ive been raising those kids since day one.
When my sister Maya went into labor, I was miles away at a motor rally. She begged me not to cancel the trip, insisting everything would be fine and that there was still time.
Three beautiful babies were born, and she didnt make it.
I remember cradling those tiny bundles as they fought for life in the neonatal ICU. I still smelled of gasoline and leather jacket. I had no plan, no clue what to do. But when I looked at Rita, Bella and Kirill, I knew I wasnt walking away.
I swapped night rides for night feeds. The guys from the shop covered my shifts so I could pick the kids up from preschool. I learned to braid Bellas hair, soothe Ritas angry outbursts, and get Kirill to try anything beyond buttered macaroni. I stopped taking the long raids, sold two motorcycles, and handbuilt bunk beds for them.
Five years passedfive birthdays, five winters of flu and gastroenteritis. I wasnt perfect, but I stayed. Every single day.
Then he showed up.
The biological father, absent from any birth certificate, who never visited Maya during her pregnancy. According to her, he said triplets dont fit his lifestyle.
Now he wanted to take them away.
He didnt come alone. He brought a social worker named Marina. She stared at my oilstained overalls and declared I wasnt a suitable longterm upbringing environment for these children.
I couldnt believe my ears.
Marina walked through our modest, tidy home, noticing the kids drawings on the fridge, the bicycles in the yard, the little boots by the door. She smiled politely, took notes, and lingered a bit too long on the tattoo around my neck.
The worst part was the kids confusion. Rita hid behind me, Kirill started to cry, and Bella asked, Is this man going to be our new dad?
I answered, No ones taking you away. Its just a legal matter.
Now the hearing is a week away. Ive hired a lawyergood, damned expensive, but worth it. My shop is barely holding together because Im doing everything solo, yet Id sell my last key to keep my children.
I didnt know what the judge would decide.
The night before the hearing, I couldnt sleep. I sat at the kitchen table holding a drawing Rita mademe holding their hands in front of our little house, with a sun and a few clouds in the corner. Simple childs scribbles, but honestly, I felt happier looking at that picture than I ever have in my life.
In the morning I put on the buttonup shirt I havent worn since Mayas funeral. Bella walked out of the room and said, Uncle Dan, you look like a priest.
Lets hope the judge likes priests, I tried to joke.
The courtroom felt like another worldall beige and polished. Vin sat across from me in an expensive suit, playing the part of a caring father. He even brought a storebought frame with a photo of the triplets, as if that proved something.
Marina read her report. She didnt lie, but she didnt soften the tone either. She mentioned limited educational resources, concerns about emotional development, and, of course, lack of a traditional family structure.
I clenched my fists under the table.
Then it was my turn.
I told the judge everythingfrom the moment I got Mayas call, to the night Bella vomited on my back during a long drive and I didnt move. I spoke about Ritas speech delay and how I took a second job to pay for her speech therapist. I explained how Kirill learned to swim because I promised him a hamburger every Friday if he kept trying.
The judge looked at me and asked, Do you really think you can raise three kids on your own?
I swallowed. I could have lied, but I didnt.
No. Not always, I said. But I do. Every day, for five years. I didnt do it because I was forced to. I did it because theyre my family.
Vin leaned forward as if about to speak, then stayed silent.
And then something happened.
Bella raised her hand.
The judge, surprised, asked, Miss, are you sure?
She stood on the stool and declared, Uncle Dan hugs us every morning. When we have bad dreams, he sleeps on the floor beside our bed. He even sold his motorcycle to fix our heating. I dont know what a dad is supposed to be, but we already have one.
A deadquiet fell over the room.
I dont know if that was the deciding factor. Maybe the judge had already made up his mind. But when he finally said, Custody remains with Mr. Desmond Fomin, I let out a breath I didnt realize Id been holding for years.
Vin didnt even look at me as he left. Marina gave me a barely noticeable nod.
That evening I made cheese toast with tomato soupour kids favorite meal. Bella danced on the kitchen table, Kirill wielded a butter knife like a lightsaber, and Rita clung to me, whispering, I knew youd win.
In that moment, despite the greasy kitchen and my exhaustion, I felt like the richest man alive.
Family isnt about blood. Its about who stays, again and again, even when its hard.
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