Great Job! Husband Spends Nights with His Current Wife, Days with His Ex – A 38-Year-Old Woman’s Dilemma Over Her Husband’s Never-Ending Loyalty to His Unemployed Ex-Wife and Kids

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Good job! At night, my husband is with his current wife, and during the day, he’s with his ex.

Im 38 years old, and for the past two years, Ive been living with a man whos five years older than me. James was married before; he has two kids and an unemployed ex-wife, who phones every evening asking him for money or help with something or other.

Ive never been married before and dont have any children. People might say I dont understand what it means to have children or a family. But I do understand; and I also get that its not normal to live with one woman as a husband and yet keep running off to see another.

Jamess ex-wife seems determined to win him back. She calls every single day with some new problem. James goes round there straight after work and doesnt get home until late at night. We cant even spend holidays together, just the two of us. Shes always ringing, always needing something. And still, James goes.

Hes got a big family, friends, all living nearby. I mean, its obviousshe wants my husband back. Ive had enough. But what am I supposed to doget a divorce? Talking to him gets me nowhere.

Please… don’t leave me on my own again. Not tonight. Those were the final words whispered by 68-year-old retired officer Arthur Collins before collapsing onto his living room floor in a quiet English village. The only living soul to hear him was the same companion who’d heard every word over the last nine years—his faithful, aging K9 partner, Bramble. Arthur was never one to wear his heart on his sleeve—retirement and widowhood hadn’t changed that. Neighbours knew him as the silent widower, shuffling through evening lanes with his old German Shepherd, both matching each other’s measured pace, two war-weary souls burdened by time. To everyone else, they seemed to need nothing, nor anyone. Everything changed that chilly evening. Bramble, dozing by the radiator, snapped to attention at the thud of Arthur hitting the floor. He sensed the fear, the laboured breathing, and with aching joints made his way to his partner’s side. Arthur’s breathing was shallow, his hands grasping for something unseen. Bramble didn’t understand the words, but the meaning rang clear—fear, pain, goodbye. With a desperate bark, Bramble clawed at the door, his cries ringing out until Molly—Arthur’s young neighbour who often brought him warm scones—came running. She sensed the alarm in Bramble’s bark—a frantic, pleading call for help. Seeing Arthur through the window, Molly scrambled for the spare key hidden under the plant pot, her hands shaking. She found Arthur motionless, and Bramble whimpering at his side as she dialled 999 in terror. Paramedics soon filled the small cottage with urgent energy. Bramble, ever the guardian, refused to be parted from Arthur, growling softly until one paramedic—Tom—recognised the service dog’s badge and spoke gently. “We’re here to help your mate, pal. Let us through.” With narrowed eyes and a heavy heart, Bramble allowed them close, keeping his head against Arthur’s foot as they worked. As Arthur was lifted onto the stretcher, his hand fell limp, and Bramble let out a heartbroken howl that silenced the room. When the ambulance doors opened, Bramble tried to follow, collapsing on the gravel in despair. “We can’t bring the dog,” the driver insisted. But as Arthur whispered, barely conscious, “Bramble…,” Tom broke the rules. “Let him in. He’s part of this team.” Bramble was lifted into the ambulance, pressing close to Arthur as the machines steadied their beeps. Four hours later, in a softly lit NHS hospital room, Arthur awoke to the gentle sound of Bramble’s breathing. The nurse pulled back the curtain to reveal Bramble resting on a blanket—the hospital had made an exception. Every time Bramble was taken away, Arthur’s vitals had faltered. Even the doctor agreed—they belonged together. Tears filled Arthur’s eyes as Bramble limped to his side, resting his head by Arthur’s hand. “I thought I was leaving you behind,” Arthur whispered. Bramble gently licked the tears away. From the doorway, the nurse smiled through her own tears. “He didn’t just save your life, Mr Collins. I think you saved his, too.” That night, Arthur faced the darkness hand in paw with Bramble, his loyal friend—two old partners, together against the world, silently promising never to leave each other alone again. Let this story touch the hearts that need it most. 💖

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Dad’s Always Better – Max, we need to talk. Olga fussed nervously with the tablecloth, smoothing out imaginary creases with trembling fingers betraying the worry hidden behind her steady tone. Max sat opposite, nose buried in his phone, thumbs darting across the screen in exaggerated focus. Deliberate ignoring – his favourite weapon. – Son… I need to explain something important. No response. Just clicks from the touchscreen. Olga took a deep breath, summoning courage for words she’d put off for a week. – When your dad and I divorced… it was six months before I introduced you to Steve. I didn’t rush, you see? I wanted to be sure it was serious. Max’s fingers froze above the phone. The teenager looked up slowly, outrage burning so fiercely in his eyes that Olga recoiled. – Serious? – he spat through clenched teeth. – You think it’s really serious with him, with some random guy? He’s not even worth Dad’s little finger! Dad’s still the best! Memories of that first meeting flashed sharply before Max’s eyes. The tall stranger on their doorstep, Mum’s nervous smile, the scent of foreign cologne in the hallway. An invader brazenly occupying Dad’s sacred place. – He’s not a stranger, – Olga protested gently. – He’s my husband. – YOUR husband! – Max slammed his phone down. – He’s not MY anything! My dad is Dad. This one… He left the rest unsaid, but the contempt in his voice said everything. Steve really tried. Oh God, did he try. Every evening, he disappeared into the garage, bending over Max’s battered bike. Blackened hands, a sweat-streaked brow, and that stubborn smile of a man determined to win at any cost. – Fixed the frame, – he’d say, wiping his hands. – You can ride it tomorrow? Silence in reply. Cold, ringing silence. At night, Steve sat with Max at the desk, explaining equations in simple terms. – Here, if you move the x over here… – I get it, – Max cut him off, though he clearly didn’t. Just wanted him gone. Each morning, the kitchen filled with the smell of fresh pancakes and honey – the boy’s favourite treat. Steve stacked them neatly and set them before his stepson. – Dad made them thinner, – Max said after barely touching them. – And he bought real honey. Not this cheap stuff. Every caring gesture crashed against a wall of icy indifference. Max seemed to collect reasons for sarcasm, turning every detail into grounds for comparison. – Dad never shouted. – Dad always knew what I liked. – Dad did everything right. Olga and Steve’s wedding shattered the fragile truce. Max took the marriage certificate as betrayal – final and absolute. Home became a minefield: tense silence every morning, doors slammed every night. Max morphed into a secret agent, tracking every stepdad’s misstep like a detective. A harsh word at dinner – noted. An impatient sigh over homework – remembered. A tired “not now” after work – stashed with grievances. – Dad, he screamed at me again – Max whispered into his phone, locked in his bedroom. – Really? – Andrew on the other end clucked in exaggerated sympathy. – My poor boy. Remember when we went to the park every weekend? – I remember… – That was a real family. Not like this. Andrew painted their ordinary spats as dramas, crafting an idealised past where the sun shone brighter, the grass was greener, and Dad never made mistakes. Steve felt like an unwanted guest in his own home. Every glance from Max shouted: you don’t belong. You’re taking someone else’s place. You’ll never be family. The pressure built, heavier each day, until it all snapped at dinner. – You have no right to tell me what to do! – Max exploded when Steve asked him to put his phone away. – You’re nothing to me! NOTHING! Olga froze with her fork in mid-air. Something inside her cracked. The hatred Max shot at Steve made the air thick. – Dad’s better than you at everything. And you… you just… Dad says you ruin everything! I’d be better off with him! – Enough, – Olga said quietly. – That’s enough. The next morning, she dialled her ex-husband, hands trembling but resolute. – Andrew, – her voice level, – since you say you’re the better parent, take Max. For good. I’ll pay maintenance if needed. The silence dragged on forever. – Well… see… right now… – Andrew stammered. – Work’s tough, business trips… Of course I’d love to, but… He hesitated, papers rustling on his end, coughing awkwardly. – And, well, Natasha… my girlfriend… she’s not ready for a kid in the flat. We just moved in together, you know… The pitiful excuses spilled from the same man who stoked their son’s discontent by phone each night, poisoning every spark of unrest. Now it was a one-bedroom flat. Renovations. Natasha’s not ready. – I understand, Andrew, – Olga said, calm. – Thanks for being honest. She hung up before he could respond. That evening Olga called Max into the lounge. He slumped into the armchair, face set in defiance, but something in his mum’s expression made him fall silent. – I spoke to your father today. Max leaned forward, tense. – And what did he say? Olga sat down opposite. – He’s not willing to take you. Not now, not ever. He’s got a new life, a new woman, and you’re not part of it. – You’re lying! You always lie! – Max flared. – Dad loves me! He said so… – Saying it’s easy. – Olga’s voice was quiet but firm. – But when I asked him to take you, he remembered his renovation and one-bedroom flat. Max opened his mouth but had nothing to say. – Listen carefully, – Olga said, leaning in. – No more comparisons. No more spy-games and reporting to Dad, no more rudeness to Steve. Either we’re a family – all three of us – or you go to Dad, who doesn’t want you. I’ll make him take you in, and you’ll see for yourself what he’s really like. Max sat frozen, wide-eyed. – Mum… – I’m not joking. – Olga stared at her son, not smiling. – I love you more than life, but I won’t let you destroy my marriage. You’re being awful. I’ve put up with it long enough. That’s it. Your choice. Max was stunned. The world – Dad the hero vs. stepdad the villain – splintered and shattered. Dad doesn’t want him. Dad chose Natasha and a renovation. Dad just… used him to hurt Mum? Understanding came slowly. All those evening calls, clucking sympathy, “what did he do now?” – not caring, but a weapon. Andrew stockpiled ammo for his petty revenge, and Max dutifully supplied it. The boy swallowed hard. And Steve? The same Steve he tormented for months? Who patiently fixed his bike while Max ignored the garage? Who woke early every morning for pancakes? Who didn’t leave, didn’t give up, didn’t stop trying – no matter what… …Change was hard. For weeks, Max hid in his room, avoided Steve’s eyes. He was too ashamed to admit how childish he’d been. Every time he saw his stepdad, he remembered “you’re nothing to me” and wished the floor would swallow him whole. Everyone walked on eggshells, spoke gently, in vague phrases. The house felt like intensive care, teetering between survival and disaster. The breakthrough came with a physics assignment. Max chewed his pencil for two hours, then finally admitted defeat. – Steve… – the name was hard to say, catching in his throat. – Can you help? Bit of a nightmare with these vectors. Steve looked up calmly, no surprise, no triumph – just acceptance. – Let’s take a look. A month later, they went fishing together. They sat on the bank, watching the bobbers, and Max started talking – about school, his mates, the girl in another year he liked. No bitterness, no comparisons. Just a chat. Steve listened, nodded, chimed in here and there. Max realised: this is a real family. Not grand declarations, or sugar-coated memories. It’s found in quiet breakfasts, patience, the determination to stay beside you even when the world’s against you. The boy had made his choice. The right choice…

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📌 Useful Social Services & Contacts in the U.S.

Stay informed and get help when you need it. Below are key national services with direct contacts that may support you or your loved ones:
🏥 Health & Mental Support

SAMHSA – Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration

What they do: Free and confidential help with substance use and mental health disorders.

Hotline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357) – 24/7, anonymous support

Website: samhsa.gov

🧒 Support for Children & Families

WIC – Women, Infants, and Children Program

What they do: Nutritional and healthcare support for pregnant women, new mothers, and young children.

Federal Info Line: 1-800-522-5006

Find local WIC office: fns.usda.gov/wic

Great Job! Husband Spends Nights with His Current Wife, Days with His Ex – A 38-Year-Old Woman’s Dilemma Over Her Husband’s Never-Ending Loyalty to His Unemployed Ex-Wife and Kids