Everything goes to the child who took care of us in hard times. That’s fair.

I decided for myself that my eldest daughter fully deserved that my husband and I get the apartment and the summer house for her. My son had been a slob all his life, never respected his parents or appreciated all the good things we did for him. To the point that now his father-in-law and mother-in-law are more important and closer to him. He called a stranger “mom” affectionately, but he couldn’t even call me on my birthday because he forgot.

He has his own life arranged somehow. They live somehow with his wife, they don’t have children, but they work, and thank goodness for that. At least he doesn’t beg us for money after marriage, and he doesn’t need us anymore. They, most likely, will inherit all the real estate and other things from my wife’s parents, and my Yana is single, so besides us no one will help her.

She lives alone in an apartment, as she doesn’t want to embarrass me and my father, and because she likes a bit of independence, but I can’t wait to give her the apartment, so she can feel like a mistress. She’s a very nice girl, she works as a child psychologist, she’s always taking care of us, her parents. We celebrate all the holidays together, she comes over on weekends, and sometimes I visit her. And she was the only one, despite her modest life, came running and offered all her savings when her husband fell down the stairs and twisted his hip. It’s easy to see who the kids are that appreciates us. So I think it’s fairer to bequeath everything to my daughter than to my son, who doesn’t even think of us.

What would you do if you were me? Would you divide equally, or would you give preference to the more needy child?

 

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Everything goes to the child who took care of us in hard times. That’s fair.