Even 30 Years of Marriage Is No Reason to Put Up With Infidelity Elena turned a small velvet box over in her hands—the fabric worn, the gold letters faded. Inside, three tiny sapphires glittered. Beautiful stones, she had to admit. “Five hundred,” said Oliver, scrolling through his tablet. “Bought it at Goldsmiths with my loyalty card.” “Thank you, darling.” Something clenched in her chest, and not at the price. What were finances at their age? It was the tone—so casual, as if he were reporting on buying milk. Thirty years married. Their Pearl Anniversary—rare these days. Elena had risen early, laid out the lace-trimmed tablecloth—her mother-in-law’s wedding gift—and started baking a “Bird’s Milk” cake, the one Oliver used to call “a slice of heaven.” Now he sat glued to his screen, barely grunting at her questions. “Oliver, do you remember how you promised to take me to Italy for our thirtieth?” “Hmm,” not looking up. “I thought, perhaps, at least we could visit Cornwall together? It’s been a while since we had a getaway.” “Elena, I’ve got a project. Not now.” Always a project. Especially in the last year and a half, when Oliver suddenly became obsessed with youth—joined a gym, bought pricey trainers, changed his wardrobe. Even got a fashionable haircut—fringe to the side, shaved temples. “Midlife crisis,” her friend Sarah had said. “All men go through it. It’ll pass.” It hadn’t. It only got worse. Elena slipped the ring on—perfect fit. After all these years he at least knew her size. The stones sparkled with a cold kind of shine. “Lovely,” she repeated, inspecting it. “Yes. Trendy setting. Youthful style.” Over dinner, they sat in near silence. The cake was as usual—soft, light. Oliver nibbled a slice, complimented it automatically. Elena watched him and wondered: when had her husband become a stranger? “And who’s this woman?” she asked suddenly. “What woman?” Oliver finally looked up. “The one who picked this ‘youthful’ ring.” “What’s she got to do with it?” “Oliver,” she said evenly, “I’m not stupid. A woman chose it. No man says ‘youthful style.’” The pause was long. Awkward. “Elena, don’t be ridiculous.” “Is her name Alice?” Oliver paled. Didn’t even ask how she knew, which meant she was right. “I saw your messages, by accident. Last month, when you asked me to find the insurance number in your phone. ‘Sunshine, see you soon’—ring a bell?” He was silent. “Twenty-eight. Works at your office. Yesterday, she posted a photo from that restaurant—your favourite table by the window. I recognise the tablecloth.” “How did you know about the restaurant?” “Sarah saw you. By chance. People talk in this town.” Oliver sighed heavily. “Fine. Yes, there is Alice. But it’s not what you think.” “And what is it?” “She gets me. She’s easy to be with. We talk about books, movies.” “And you can’t talk with me?” “Elena, look at yourself! You complain about the kids, your health, prices in the shops. With Alice I feel alive.” “Alive,” Elena repeated. “I see.” “I never meant to hurt you.” Oliver hung his head. “Does she know you’re married?” “She does.” “Doesn’t mind dating a married man?” “Elena, she’s a modern woman. She doesn’t have any illusions.” “Modern,” Elena scoffed. “Thirty years with you—is that an illusion?” She stood, began clearing up. Hands shaking, though she tried not to show it. “Elena, let’s talk sensibly.” “There’s nothing to talk about. You’ve made your choice.” “I haven’t chosen anyone!” “You have. Every day you choose: coming home late, pretending to be away on business, buying her gifts with our money.” “Our money!” “Mine too—I work as well, in case you forgot.” Elena washed up, loaded the rack. Folded away the lace tablecloth. Everything as usual. Only her hands kept trembling. “Elena, what do you want?” Oliver asked from the kitchen doorway. “I want to be alone. Tonight. To think.” “And tomorrow?” “I don’t know.” She didn’t speak for two days. Oliver tried to talk, but got only polite one-word replies. On day three, he cracked. “How long will this go on?” “What’s wrong with it?” Elena asked while ironing his shirt. “I do everything—cooking, cleaning, laundry. Just as always.” “But you’re not talking!” “You’ve got Alice for that.” “Elena!” “What? You said yourself—I’m boring, we’ve nothing to talk about. Why force it?” He left that evening, said he was off to see friends. Elena knew better—he was going to her. She browsed Alice’s profile online: pretty, young, photos from fancy resorts, trendy clothes, champagne in hand. A recent post: “Life is beautiful when you’re with someone who truly appreciates you.” Tags: love, happiness, mature man. Mature man. Elena smirked—as if he was just a product feature. Comments from friends underneath: “Alice, when’s the wedding?”, “Lucky you!”, “What will his wife say?” Alice replied: “Their marriage is just formal. They’re like neighbours.” Thirty years—like neighbours. Next morning Elena booked a solicitor. A young man with glasses listened kindly as she told her story. “Right. Shared assets are split equally—flat, cottage, car. If we prove infidelity, you could claim a larger share.” “I don’t need more,” Elena said. “Just what’s fair.” She came home and made her list: Flat—sell and split. Cottage—for him. I won’t go back there. Car—for me. He can get a new one. Bank accounts—shared. Oliver came in late, saw the list. “What’s this?” “Divorce.” “Are you mad?” “No. I’ve finally come to my senses.” “Elena! I told you—it’s just a phase. It’ll pass!” “And if it doesn’t? Am I to wait another thirty years for you to get it out of your system?” Oliver collapsed onto the sofa, palms over his face. “I never meant to hurt you.” “But you did.” “What am I supposed to do now?” “Choose,” Elena said. “Either your family, or Alice. There’s no third option.” For three months they lived truly as neighbours. Oliver took the spare room. Only spoke when necessary. Elena signed up for English classes, swimming, started reading the books she’d always saved for “later.” Alice called now and then, sobbed into the phone. Oliver went onto the balcony, whispering for ages. One night he came home early, sat opposite Elena. “I’ve broken up with her.” “Why do I need to know?” “Elena, I’ve realised. I was an idiot. I made a terrible mistake.” “Agreed.” “Can we try again? I’ve changed.” Elena put down her book. “Oliver, you left Alice not because you value me, but because you got tired of her. The next ‘Alice’ will appear in a year or two.” “It won’t! I promise!” “Oh, it will. Because you’re not losing me—you’re losing youth. And I can’t help that.” “Elena—” “Divorce papers are ready. Sign them.” He did so. No shouting, no arguments about dividing assets. Elena took only what she’d outlined. Six months later, she met Roman—a widower her own age, an English teacher. They met at evening classes. He invited her to the theatre. “You know, Elena,” he said over coffee after the show, “I love talking to you. You’re an outstanding conversationalist.” “Really? My ex-husband always said I was boring.” “Then he clearly wasn’t listening.” Roman listened. He valued her thoughts, laughed at her jokes, and spoke openly, never pretending to be younger than he was. “And what do you look for in a woman?” Elena asked him once. “Intelligence. Kindness. Honesty. What about you in a man?” “Integrity. And someone who’s comfortable with his age.” They laughed. Sometimes Oliver called, sent holiday greetings, asked after her health—like an old acquaintance. “And are you happy?” he asked once. “Yes,” Elena answered without hesitation. “And you?” “I’m not sure. Probably not.” “Well, we all make choices.” She still keeps the ring he bought for five hundred. She doesn’t wear it—it sits in her jewellery box as a reminder of how easily thirty years can be made worthless. Roman gave her an antique brooch for her birthday—a market find, inexpensive, but chosen with love. “Beauty isn’t about money,” he’d said, “It’s about what it means when you give it.” And Elena realised life doesn’t end after fifty. It can begin anew. What do you think? Can you start fresh in your fifties? Share your thoughts in the comments.

Author Walton MerrittReading 9 minViews 1

Even thirty years of marriage isnt a reason to tolerate betrayal

Helen twirled a tiny box between her fingers the velvet worn thin, the golden letters faded almost to nothing. Inside, three delicate stones caught the light. Beautiful, she had to admit.

Five hundred pounds, said Oliver, scrolling through the news on his tablet. Got it at Goldsmiths, with a loyalty card.

Thank you, love.

Helen felt something tighten in her chest. Not because of the money what did that matter at their age? It was the way he said it. Almost indifferent. As if he was reporting buying a pint of milk.

Thirty years together. Their pearl anniversary rare these days. Shed risen early and dug out the fancy lace-trimmed tablecloth from the wardrobe a wedding gift from her mother-in-law. She started making Angels Breath, a cake Oliver used to call a piece of heaven.

Now he sat buried in his screen, barely grunting answers to her questions.

Oliver, do you remember promising to take me to Italy for our thirtieth?

Hm, he murmured, eyes still on the tablet.

I thought, maybe, at least a weekend in Cornwall? We havent had a proper holiday together in ages.

Hel, Ive a burning project at work. No time right now.

Always a project. These days, even more so especially since Oliver had suddenly caught the bug for youth about a year and a half ago. Signed up at the gym, bought expensive trainers, switched up his wardrobe. Even his haircut was trendy now a fringe swept to the side, shaved temples.

Midlife crisis, said her friend Suzanne. All men go through it. Itll pass.

It didnt. In fact, it got worse.

Helen slipped the ring onto her finger it fit perfectly. At least after thirty years, he remembered her size. The stones shimmered with a cold sort of shine.

Its pretty, she repeated, studying the gift.

Yeah. Modern setting. Young folks style.

That evening, they sat mostly in silence at their anniversary table. The cake came out as it always did soft and light as air. Oliver ate a slice, praised it out of habit. Helen watched him and wondered: when had her husband become a stranger?

Who is she? she suddenly asked.

Who? Oliver looked up from his plate.

The girl who helped choose this ring.

Whats she got to do with anything?

Oliver, her voice was calm, Im not a fool. A woman picked this ring. No man says young folks style.

A long, awkward pause.

Hel, come on, dont be ridiculous.

Her names Alicia, isnt it?

Oliver paled. He didnt even ask how she knew. So shed struck gold.

I saw your messages by accident, last month, when you asked me to find your insurance number on your phone. Sweetheart, see you soon ring a bell?

He was silent.

Twenty-eight. Works at your office. She posted a picture from a restaurant yesterday the table by the window, you know the one. I recognised the tablecloth.

How do you know about the restaurant?

Suzanne saw you. By chance. You think in this town no one will notice?

Oliver sighed heavily.

Fine. Yes, theres Alicia. But its not what you think.

Then what is it?

She understands me. With her, its easy, and interesting. We talk about books and films.

And with me, theres nothing to talk about?

Hel, look at yourself! You just talk about the kids, your health, how prices have gone up in Tesco. With Alicia, I feel alive.

Alive, Helen echoed. I see.

I never meant to hurt you.

Oliver hung his head.

Does she know youre married?

She does.

And that doesnt bother her? Happy to see a married man?

Shes modern. No illusions.

So, modern. Helen gave a bitter laugh. And thirty years with you, is that just an illusion?

She got up and cleared the table, hiding her shaking hands.

Hel, cant we just talk reasonably?

Theres nothing left to say. Youve made your choice.

I havent chosen anyone!

You have. Every day. When you come home late. When you make up trips away. When you buy her gifts with my money.

With our money!

Its mine too. I work, remember?

Helen washed up, stacked the dishes neatly to dry, carefully folded away the tablecloth. Everything as usual, except her hands still trembled.

Hel, what do you want? Oliver asked, leaning in the kitchen doorway.

I want to be alone. Tonight. To think.

And tomorrow?

I dont know.

She didnt speak for two days. Oliver tried to start a conversation, but got only polite, curt replies. On the third day, he snapped:

How long is this going to go on?

What exactly bothers you? Helen asked, ironing his shirt. Im still doing everything. Cooking, cleaning, laundry. Just like always.

But you wont talk to me!

Why? Youve got Alicia for talking.

Helen!

What, Helen? You said it yourself Im boring, nothing to say. Why force it?

That evening, he left. Said he was off to see friends. She knew perfectly well where hed gone.

Helen sat at the computer, pulled up Alicias social media. Pretty, young, holiday snaps from fancy hotels, the latest fashions, a glass of champagne in hand.

One post, just yesterday: Life is wonderful when youre with someone who valu es you. The hashtags: love, happiness, maturegentleman.

Mature gentleman. Helen almost laughed. Like a brand label.

Her friends messaged beneath: Ali, whens the wedding?, Lucky you such a great man!, What about his wife?

Alicia replied: Theyre just married on paper. Like neighbours now.

Thirty years like neighbours.

The next morning, Helen booked a meeting with a solicitor. The young man in glasses listened thoughtfully as she talked.

Right. Joint assets split fifty-fifty: house, cottage, car. If we can prove adultery, you could claim a larger share.

I dont want more than my fair part, Helen replied. Fair will do.

At home, she made a list:

House sell and split the money.

Cottage his. Im done with it.

Car mine. He can find himself a new one.

Bank accounts divide.

Oliver came home late, spotted the list on the kitchen table.

Whats this?

Divorce.

Have you lost your mind?

No. Ive come to my senses.

Hel, I explained! Its just a fling. Itll pass!

And if it doesnt? Am I supposed to wait another thirty years while you get over yourself?

He sank onto the sofa, face in his hands.

I never meant to hurt you.

But you did.

What do I do now?

Choose, Helen said. Family or Alicia. Theres no third way.

For three months, they lived as literal neighbours. Oliver moved into the guest room. They spoke only when necessary. Helen took up English classes, started swimming, and finally found time for all the books shed put off.

Alicia called now and then, crying to Oliver on the phone. Hed go out to the balcony, whispering to her for ages.

One evening, he came home early, sat opposite Helen.

Ive broken up with her.

Why do I need to know this?

Hel, Ive realised I was an idiot. I made a terrible mistake.

I agree.

Can we try again? Ive changed.

Helen put her book down.

Oliver, you split up with her not because you appreciate me. Just because she got boring. Another Alicia will show up in a year or two.

She wont!

Oh, she will. Because its not me youre losing its your youth. And I cant help you with that.

Hel.

The papers are ready. Sign them.

He signed. No fights, no drama over the house. Helen took only what was on her list.

Six months later, she met Richard her age, a widower, an English tutor. Theyd met at her classes. He invited her to a play at the theatre.

You know, Helen, he said over coffee after the show, I enjoy talking with you. Youre interesting.

Really? My ex-husband found me boring.

Then he never learned to listen.

Richard listened well. He valued her opinions, laughed at her jokes, shared his stories never pretending to be younger than he was.

What do you like in women? Helen asked one day.

Brains. Kindness. Being genuine. And you?

Honesty. And the courage to be himself, age and all.

They both laughed.

Oliver called sometimes. Sent greetings on holidays, asked after her health. Like two old acquaintances.

Are you happy? he asked once.

Yes, Helen answered without thinking. And you?

Dont know. Probably not.

Well, everyone makes their choices.

She kept the five hundred pound ring. Never wore it it lay in her jewellery box, a reminder of how easily thirty years can be devalued.

For her birthday, Richard gave her an antique brooch from a flea market simple, nothing expensive, chosen with real thought.

Beauty isnt in the price, he said. Its in the feeling with which its given.

And Helen realised after fifty, life doesnt end. It begins again, with a new chapter.

What do you think? Is it possible to start afresh later in life?

Valerie Was Doing the Washing Up in the Kitchen When John Walked In—But Only After Switching Off the Light. “It’s Still Bright Enough, No Need to Waste Electricity,” He Grumbled. “I Was Going to Use the Washing Machine,” Said Valerie. “Do It Tonight, When the Electricity’s Cheaper,” John Replied Sharply. “And Don’t Run the Tap So Hard. You Waste Far Too Much Water—Far Too Much. Surely You Understand You’re Just Flushing Our Money Down the Drain?” He Turned Down the Tap. Valerie Looked at Her Husband with Sadness, Dried Her Hands, and Sat at the Table. “John, Have You Ever Looked at Yourself From the Outside?” She Asked. “Every Day,” He Snapped Back. “And What Do You See?” She Continued. “As a Man?” He Clarified. “As a Husband and a Father.” “Average, I Guess,” He Responded. “Neither Better nor Worse Than the Rest. Why Are You Nagging?” “Do You Really Think All Husbands and Fathers Are Like You?” Valerie Asked. “Are You Picking a Fight?” John Shot Back. Valerie Knew There Was No Turning Back—This Conversation Needed to Happen Until He Finally Understood Living With Him Was Pure Misery. “Do You Know Why You’ve Never Left Me, John?” She Asked. “Why Should I Leave You?” He Retorted. “Because You Don’t Love Me. Or Our Children.” John Tried to Shoot Back, But She Continued. “And Don’t Say Otherwise. You Don’t Love Anyone. And I Won’t Argue—No Point Wasting Time. I Want to Talk About Why You Haven’t Left Me and the Kids.” “Well? Why Not?” “Because of Your Stinginess—Because You’re So Incredibly Tight-Fisted That You See Leaving Us As a Financial Disaster. How Many Years Together? Fifteen? What Have We Achieved? Apart From the Obvious—Getting Married and Having Kids. What Achievements in Fifteen Years?” “We’ve Still Got Our Whole Lives Ahead,” John Said. “No, John. Not Our Whole Lives—Just What’s Left. In All Our Time Together, We’ve Never Once Had a Holiday by the Sea, Not Even in Britain. Always in the City. Not Even a Day Out for Foraging. Why? Because It’s ‘Too Expensive.’” “Because We’re Saving for Our Future!” John Insisted. “We? Or You? Every Month You Take All the Money and Squirrel It Away ‘for the Family.’ Really? Our Account? Let’s Check—Give Me Some Money for Clothes for Me and the Kids. It’s Been Fifteen Years Since I Bought Anything New—Still Wearing My Old Wedding Outfit and Hand-Me-Downs From Your Brother’s Wife. So Do the Kids. And I Want to Rent a Flat—Tired of Living in Your Mum’s Place.” “Mum’s Given Us Two Rooms, You Shouldn’t Complain. And As for Clothes, Why Waste Money? The Kids Can Wear What Their Cousins Outgrew.” “What About Me? Whose Cast-Offs Should I Wear—Your Brother’s Wife’s?” “Who Are You Dressing Up For?” John Sneered. “You’re a Mum of Two, You’re 35! You Shouldn’t Worry About Outfits.” “And What Should I Worry About?” “The Meaning of Life. Your Spiritual Growth is More Important Than Clothes, Flats, or All That ‘Women’s Rubbish.’” “So That’s Why You Keep All the Money to Yourself—for Our ‘Bright Future,’ So We Can Grow Spiritually?” “Because I Can’t Trust You—You’d Spend It All! How Would We Survive if Anything Happened?” “And When Exactly Will We Start ‘Living,’ John? Haven’t You Noticed We Already Live As If the Worst Has Happened—Scrimping on Everything, Even Soap and Toilet Paper, Stealing Hand Cream From Work—‘Every Penny Counts.’ Tell Me, How Much Longer Must We Endure? Ten Years More? Twenty? How Old Do I Have to Be Before We Can Finally Afford Decent Toilet Paper?” John Stayed Silent. Valerie Guessed, “Forty? No, Too Soon! Fifty? Still Too Soon? Sixty, Maybe? Or Will We Just Never Start Living At All?” Still Silence. “You Know What, John? What If We Don’t Make It to Sixty? We Eat So Much Cheap Rubbish Because You’re So Tight, and We’re Always Miserable—Don’t You Know That Miserable People Don’t Live Long? But Even If We Moved Out and Ate Properly, You Couldn’t Save Your Precious Money.” “Exactly,” Said Valerie. “That’s Why I’m Leaving—I’m Done With Constant Saving. I Don’t Want This Any More. You Can Keep Saving—I Won’t.” “How Will You Live?” John Was Horrified. “I’ll Manage—Rent My Own Place, Buy Clothes and Food, and Most of All, I Won’t Have to Endure Your Lectures on Penny-Pinching. I’ll Use the Washing Machine in the Day, Buy Nice Toilet Paper and Napkins, Shop Without Waiting for Sales, and Yes, I’ll Spend Every Penny—Even Your Maintenance Payments. I’ll Drop the Kids at Yours on Weekends and Go to Theatres, Restaurants, and By the Summer, I’ll Have a Seaside Holiday—Haven’t Decided Where Yet, But I Will.” John Felt Terrified—Not for Her or the Kids, But for Himself. What Would Be Left After Child Support? Especially If She Started Travelling and Spending ‘His’ Money? “One More Thing,” Valerie Said. “The Joint Account You Guard So Jealously—We’ll Split It. Half Each. And I’ll Spend My Share, Too. Every Penny. When My Time Comes, I Want My Account at Zero—That’s How I’ll Know I Truly Lived for Myself.” Two Months Later, John and Valerie Were Divorced.

THE MYSTERIOUS NEW NEIGHBOURS A new couple moved into Flat 222 at Number 8, Byron Street. Middle-aged, maybe in their early fifties, both quite short and slender. He sports a beard and a grey coat; she often wears a long skirt and a colourful beret. They’re polite—always smiling in the lift and holding the door open, especially if someone’s carrying heavy shopping. And, which matters with these modern flats: they’re quiet. At least, that’s how it seemed at first. But after about two weeks, the Smiths from 221 and the Harrisons from 223 started to hear their new neighbours rather distinctly. It soon became the main topic of conversation at family dinner. Here’s what the Smiths—both in their forties and married half their lives—had to say: “Have you seen our new neighbours?” “Yes, we rode together in the lift yesterday.” “What do you think?” “They seem normal enough. Why?” “They’re… very affectionate.” “In what way?” “Well, during the day when everyone’s out, it gets quiet, and you can hear everything. They’ve been playing… erm, adult games. For three days in a row now. Very inventive, too. Like something out of a film.” “Seriously?” “Yes, and with a real sense of drama. It’s amusing until it gets distracting. Honestly, it makes working from home tricky.” “Oh, don’t be a prude; good on them—living it up at their age.” ‘Not like us,’ he thought but dared not say. At the weekend, even Mr Smith found himself an unwilling audience to a “classic” gardener-and-lady-of-the-house scene. Both blushed furiously. ***** As for the Harrisons, the youngest couple on the floor—nearly thirty, five years married, expecting their first child: “Did you see the new couple?” “Yeah, bumped into them in the corridor. Why?” “They’re interesting. She cooks him restaurant-worthy meals, and he showers her with gifts—never a day goes by without one.” “How do you know?” “I go for walks daily, and their kitchen smells divine. I even bumped into him with flowers and a gift bag once, dashing home like it was a date.” “Hmm.” “Maybe they’re not married at all—just lovers?” “No idea, but they definitely live together.” “And they’re always chatting in the kitchen, giggling and laughing if you listen quietly. Just like newlyweds.” “I get it. News is on—I’ll be in the lounge.” That Friday, Mr Harrison ran into the neighbour by the lift—clutching roses, a bottle of red, and looking hopeful for the evening. ***** A month passed. The mysterious neighbours of 222 were firmly established. The Smiths had grown used to the sounds from next door. The couple next door still hadn’t tired of one another; every day something new, or at least sweet sighs and creaking beds. As if they were in a hurry to savour every moment together. One night, Mrs Smith, eyes averted, confessed: “I stopped by the lingerie shop at the centre today—look at what I bought.” She flung open her robe. Mr Smith’s eyes sparkled. “Well,” he said, “I popped into an adult shop the other day—got this. Don’t know if you’ll like it.” “You never know until you try,” she blushed. ***** “Process is underway,” whispered the man in 222, eavesdropping on the Smiths through the wall. ***** Mr Harrison decided to visit the jeweller at lunch—he hadn’t treated his wife in ages. Once, he always had a treat for her tucked in his bag, even if only her favourite chocolate. He spotted his wife in her familiar coat. “Rachel! What are you doing here? This is miles from home.” “Just fancied a walk,” she faltered. “You?” “Got you these earrings. Here—couldn’t resist.” Rachel beamed, kissing him. “Thank you, love! I’m making carbonara with prawns tonight. Remember when I used to make that? They have the best prawns here.” “Mmm, my mouth’s watering just thinking about it.” “Don’t be late; I’ll have it ready by seven.” “Of course,” thought Mr Harrison, ‘better stop for flowers.’ ***** “What’s the update?” asked the man from 222. “She’s cooking something special and they’re off and running,” smiled his wife. ***** A month later, the Smiths were unrecognisable—ten years younger, always catching each other’s eye, just waiting for a moment alone together. Sometimes they’d even sneak away from the kids for a hotel night, relishing every second. Shared interests sprouted, and everything seemed easier. ***** Meanwhile, with the Harrisons about to welcome their first child, they’d rediscovered date nights: cinema, restaurants, art galleries. Rachel had dug out her old recipe book, and every week, Mr Harrison spoiled her with gifts or slipped a favourite chocolate into her bag. He couldn’t remember the last time he watched the news. ***** “So, how are they?” asked the woman from 222. “They’re good—quiet creaks now, must be the kids at home. But everything’s far livelier—I listen in all the time, just to make sure.” “And the other couple?” “They’re happily nest-building, laughing in the kitchen, delicious smells drifting down the hall.” “Brilliant! All done in three months. We’ll stay a few more weeks to seal the results.” “Alright. Who’s next?” “Simmons, Flat 65, Number 4. Next door in 66, a couple overrun by routine—forgotten each other’s names. And the lot in 64—bedroom blues, as usual.” “Understood. I’ll leave your tapes for now, keep things lively. No need to cancel the restaurant deliveries either. There’s still plenty of scented oil left. Oh, and those roses you swapped water for all week—completely wilted. You’ll have to buy a new bouquet.” “Will do. Rub my back, would you? Then let’s get some sleep…”

My Husband Was Supporting His Ex with Our Money – So I Gave Him an Ultimatum From the very beginning, I knew about his ex. He was always honest that he’d been married before, that he had a daughter, and that he paid child support. I even thought it was the right thing—admirable, really. I respected him for that responsibility. But eventually, I started to see something far more troubling: what I thought was responsibility was actually a painful, never-ending sense of guilt. Chronic, exhausting, obsessive. A guilt that hung over him like an invisible cloud… and someone skillfully took advantage of it. Child support arrived religiously, the amounts were reasonable. But besides that, there was a whole world of “additional expenses.” She needed a new laptop for school—the old one was slow, and all the kids had something better. My husband sighed… and bought it. She needed to go to a language camp. Without it, she’d fall behind. Again, my husband agreed, even though the cost was the same as our whole summer holiday. Gifts for Christmas, for her birthday, for Mother’s Day, for “just because”… everything had to be the best, the most expensive, the flashiest. Because “Dad has to be the good guy.” His ex-wife knew exactly what to say. She’d call with that slightly suffering tone: “She’ll be upset… you understand? I can’t handle this on my own.” And he always understood. He understood so strongly, he stopped seeing reality—the reality where he lived with me. Where we had plans, dreams, and a future. But the money for our future kept dripping away, drop by drop, poured into a past that clung on and wouldn’t let go. I tried talking to him. “Don’t you think it’s gone too far? She has everything. We haven’t been able to buy a new washing machine for two months. Wake up…” He looked guilt-ridden and said, “She’s a child… I can’t say no. They tell me it’s a tough age. I have to support her.” “And what about my self-worth? Our life?” I asked, more sharply. He looked confused. “Are you jealous? Of a child?” It wasn’t jealousy. It was fairness. We lived in disaster mode—always funding someone else’s “urgent need” that never ended. Our washing machine was on its last legs—rumbling, bouncing, stopping mid-cycle. I dreamed of a normal, quiet machine. I’d saved up from my wages and found one on sale. The day was set. That morning, my husband was strangely silent. Wandering the flat, looking for something on the floor. Just as I grabbed my purse, he said, “I… took the money… for the washing machine.” My fingers went cold. “Took? Where?” “For my daughter. It’s urgent… dental treatment. My ex called last night, in a panic… said the child was in agony, needed a private dentist immediately, and it was expensive… I couldn’t say no…” I leaned against the doorway. “And… did she get treated?” “Yes! Yes!” he brightened, as if the worst was past. “Everything went perfectly. They said it was excellent.” I looked at him for a few seconds… and quietly said, “Call her right now.” “What? Why?” “Call. And ask how your daughter is… and which tooth hurt.” He frowned but dialed. Spoke briefly. And as he listened, I saw his face change—from confidence to discomfort. Hung up. “Well… she’s fine now. Pain’s gone.” “Which tooth?” I repeated. “It doesn’t matter…” “WHICH TOOTH?” My voice came out harsh, almost unrecognizable. He sighed. “They said… it wasn’t pain. It was planned. Whitening. She’s old enough. She’d been waiting a year…” At that moment, I just turned and sat down on the kitchen chair. The money for our normal life… had gone for teeth whitening because someone decided it was necessary. And the worst part? He hadn’t even questioned it. He didn’t check. He just took our money and handed it over. Because guilt is a terrible adviser… but a wonderful tool for emotional blackmail. After that, there was an icy silence at home. I barely spoke to him. He tried to “make up” with small gestures, but it was like dressing a deep wound with an ordinary plaster. I realised—I wasn’t fighting his ex-wife. I was fighting a ghost he carried inside. The ghost of a failed marriage. The troubled feeling that he “didn’t do enough.” That he “had to make up for it.” And this ghost was hungry. Constantly wanting new sacrifices—money, time, nerves, humiliation. The final straw was his daughter’s birthday. I pushed myself and bought a beautiful, quality, but modest book—the same one she’d mentioned in passing. The big presents were from “Mum and Dad”: a new phone, like the richest kids in the class had. His ex was dressed for a magazine shoot. Hosted like a queen. Smiled sweetly… but was dangerous. When it was time for presents, and his daughter picked up my book, she said loudly, smiling to the room: “See, darling… those who really love you give you what you dream of.” And pointed to the flashy gift. “And this…”—nodding dismissively at my book—“is just from ‘some lady.’ Just ticking a box.” The room froze. Everyone looked at me. Then at my husband. And he… said nothing. Didn’t defend me. Didn’t correct her. Didn’t do a thing. Looking at the floor. At his plate. Deep inside himself. Shrunk, stooped, almost hoping to disappear. His silence was louder than a slap. It was agreement. I survived the party with a stone face. Smiled, nodded… but inside, it was all over. Not a crisis. Not “the end.” Just the end. When we got home, I didn’t make a scene. Scenes are for people still fighting. I went to the bedroom, pulled out the old dusty suitcase—the one my husband brought when he moved in. And I began packing his things. Slowly. Methodically. No trembling. Shirts. Trousers. Socks. Neatly folded. He heard the noise, came in, and when he saw the suitcase… he froze. “What are you doing?” “Helping you pack,” I said calmly. “What? Where to? What’s all this? Because of today? She’s always like that…” “It’s not because of her,” I interrupted. “It’s because of you.” I put in the last shirt. “You live in the past. Every pound you earn, every thought, every silence—it’s all for back then. But I live in the present. The present where there’s no money for a washing machine because it went on tooth whitening for someone else’s whim. The present where I’m publicly insulted, and my husband stares at the floor.” I zipped up the suitcase. Stood it up. And looked him in the eyes. “Go. Go to her. Help her with everything. With teeth, tutors, her endless dramas and manipulations. Make up for your guilt, if you must. But do it there, not here. Set this place free.” “What place?” “The place for a husband in my life. It’s already taken. Taken by the ghost of another woman. And I’m tired of sharing my bed, my money, and my future with him.” I carried the suitcase to the front door and left it there. He took it… and left. I didn’t look back at the door. For the first time in ages, I felt the air was mine. My home was mine. My soul, at last, had space for itself. Two months later, our marriage was officially over.

“We’ll Stay Here Until Summer!”: How I Kicked Out My Husband’s Cheeky Family, Changed the Locks, and Reclaimed My Home The intercom didn’t just ring—it wailed, demanding attention. I glanced at the clock: seven a.m. Saturday. My only day to catch up on sleep after that brutal quarterly report, and the last day I wanted to play hostess. On the screen: my sister-in-law, Sarah. She looked like she was about to storm the Tower of London, and behind her loomed three varying sizes of scruffy heads. “Ian!” I yelled, not picking up. “Your family. Handle them.” My husband stumbled from the bedroom, shorts on backwards. He knew, from my tone, my patience for his clan was buried somewhere in the Thames. … My flat—my rules. I’d bought this three-bed in central London two years before we even married, paying off the mortgage with the sweat of my brow. The absolute last thing I wanted was uninvited guests. The door burst open, flooding my meticulously designed and delicately scented hallway with mayhem. Sarah, laden with bags, didn’t bother saying hello. She just shuffled me aside like I was a side table. “Oh, thank goodness, we made it!” she exhaled, dumping bags onto my Italian tile. “Ali, why are you blocking the door? Kettle on, the kids are starving after that drive.” “Sarah,” my voice was cold, and Ian’s posture said he already knew what awaited him later. “What’s going on?” … The “one week” squatted into three. My once-immaculate flat, which I’d designed with an interior architect, became a barnyard—muddy shoes everywhere, sticky countertops, general chaos. … But the last straw wasn’t that. Arriving home early, I found my nephews bouncing on my £2,000 memory foam bed and my niece drawing a mural—with my Tom Ford lipstick—on the bedroom wall. … That night, Sarah wandered off to the shower, leaving her phone on the kitchen table. A text flashed up: “Sarah, payment for next month sent. Tenants ask if they can stay until August?” followed by a bank transfer of £800. It hit me. There was no renovation—Sarah had rented her own flat out for extra cash and moved into mine on a free ride. Groceries, utilities, and a passive income—genius, if you’ve no shame. … With my husband made aware and given a choice—his freeloading family or both of them gone by noon—I set a plan in motion during a rare window when the flat was empty. Locksmith, police, bags packed, evidence ready. When Sarah returned, arms full of Selfridges bags and attitude, she found all her belongings on the landing. The police officer confirmed: no right to be here. The game was up. She collected her stuff, shrieking, and departed. … Ian crept back—alone and apologetic. I laid down the law: one more family scheme, and he’d be following his sister out the door. … Finally, I sipped a perfect, hot coffee, in silence, in my own undisturbed flat. Crowns don’t chafe—when they’re well earned. (Adapted for a British audience and culture, names and settings changed, all original plot points and detail maintained.)

“Your Wife Has Really Gotten Out of Line—You Need to Teach Her How to Behave,” Lectured Max’s Mum at the Housewarming Party Marina had planned a romantic weekend, but when Max’s mum, Nina, asked for help hosting her housewarming, Marina set everything aside to prepare canapés for thirty guests, a Caesar salad, a meat platter, a fruit arrangement, decorate the room, and rearrange furniture. The Friday night shopping trip replaced Marina’s dinner date with Max; early Saturday morning, she began cooking in her mother-in-law’s new flat. When guests arrived, Nina proudly claimed credit for her “well-raised, reliable daughter-in-law,” who spent the evening serving food, pouring champagne, and tidying up—without even having a chair at the table. The guests praised Marina’s skills, and Max beamed, proud to have such a “domestic” wife. The conversation turned to Max’s university conquests and former girlfriends, with Nina boasting about her son’s charm and remarking that “men must have experience.” Marina felt invisible, washing grapes in the kitchen while her own life was discussed as if she wasn’t there. Eventually, the talk shifted to babies, and Nina lamented that Marina hadn’t yet given her grandchildren—a sore subject for Marina, who had struggled for months and faced constant prying questions. As the party wore on, Nina and the guests debated the “rights” of wives: “A woman’s happiness is family and children,” “The main thing is the husband’s wellbeing,” “A good wife is quiet and accommodating.” Marina, exhausted, realized she was seen more as a servant than a partner. When Marina questioned why only men deserved to “rest,” since she, too, worked full-time but also carried the domestic load, the group fell silent, and Nina accused her of “spoiling the party.” Marina finally spoke her truth: “I’m tired of being convenient. I’m not just someone who organizes your housewarming and brings the snacks—I’m a person who deserves respect.” She left the room in tears, seeking solace on the balcony. Despite Nina’s complaints, Max quietly admitted Marina wasn’t completely wrong. When the dust settled, Marina set firm boundaries: “Either things change, or I change my life.” A week later, Max visited Marina at her parents’ home. He pleaded for her to return, promising things would be different. Marina agreed, having finally learned to claim her right to be respected—and never again cried during a family celebration.

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