Elderly Woman Shares Heartbreak as She Reveals the Last Time She Saw Her Son Was Over Six Years Ago – “When Did Your Son Stop Speaking to You?” I Asked My Neighbour… and in That Moment, My Heart Broke: After His Wife Turned Me Away From Their Home, He Took My Money for a Flat and Never Called Again – Now, After Raising Him Alone, I Face Old Age Without My Only Child

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The pensioner said the last time she saw her son was more than six years ago.

How long has it been since your son last spoke to you? I gently asked my neighbour. At that moment, I felt my heart shatter into pieces.

Its been six years since I last saw him, she spoke softly, her hands trembling slightly. When he first left with his wife, he would ring now and then, even just to say hello. But not long after, he stopped calling at all. I remember buying him a cake for his birthday one yearI went round to see him and Her voice broke. She lowered her eyes, wiping away a tear.

What happened then? I asked quietly.

My daughter-in-law opened the door and told me I wasnt welcome, she whispered, pain etched into her face. My son said nothing, just looked at me as though Id done something wrong, then turned away. That was the last I ever saw of him.

He never called after that? I struggled to believe what I was hearing.

I phoned him once when I decided to sell the three-bedroom flat and move somewhere smaller. Naturally, I gave him some money from the sale. He came round, signed the papers, took the money, and Ive not heard a word since.

Do you feel very lonely, or have you come to terms with it? I asked, my voice barely louder than a whisper.

I can manage, she replied, managing a faint smile. When I was young, I was left alone with my son after my husband left me for another woman. I brought my boy up single-handedly, filled his life with love and care. Later, he told me he wanted to rent his own place. At first I was gladthought perhaps he was growing up, starting to think about his own future.

But it turned out there was another reasonhis girlfriend. She was adamant they needed a place of their own so that no one would meddle in their lives. Not long after, she found out she was pregnant.

You tell me all this so calmly, I said, surprised at her stoicism. Dont you feel resentful that your sons abandoned you in your old age?

Im used to it now, she answered with a resigned sigh. I actually enjoy living in a new flat. I have enough money for everything I need. Every morning I wake up, put the kettle on, and sit on the balcony with a cup of tea. I like watching the city wake up. When I was younger, all I dreamed of was a good nights sleep, because I had to work back-to-back shifts. I imagined Id grow old surrounded by loved ones, but it seems I was meant to be on my own.

Why not get a pet? They say its nicer with two in the house, I suggested gently.

You know, love, even cats will leave their people one day. And I couldnt take on a dogI might not wake up tomorrow, and I couldnt bear the thought of leaving anyone behind I couldnt care for. Ive made enough mistakes already…

She tried to hold herself together, but in the end, she couldnt hold back the tears any longer.

Mum, Give Us a Smile Arina never liked it when the neighbours would pop round and ask her mum to sing them a song. “Anna, give us a tune – your voice is so lovely! And you’re a great dancer too!” her mum would start singing, the neighbours would join in, and sometimes the whole group would be dancing in the garden. Back then, Arina lived with her parents and her little brother, Tony, in their house in a small country village. Her mum was always cheerful and welcoming, sending the neighbours off with, “Come round again – that was lovely, such a good time,” and the neighbours would promise to return. But for some reason, Arina always hated her mum singing and dancing. She felt embarrassed, though she could never quite explain why. She was in Year 5 at the time and once said to her mum: “Mum, please don’t sing and dance…I feel so awkward.” Even now, as an adult and a mum herself, Arina still doesn’t know why she felt that way, but her mum, Anna, replied: “Don’t be ashamed when I sing, Arisha – be glad! I won’t be able to sing and dance forever, only while I’m still young…” Arina, of course, didn’t understand then – life isn’t always so full of joy. When Arina was in Year 6 and her brother was in Year 2, their dad left them for good. He packed his things and walked out. Arina never knew what happened between her parents. When she was old enough, she finally asked: “Mum, why did Dad leave us?” “You’ll understand when you’re older,” her mum replied. Anna couldn’t tell her daughter yet that she’d caught her husband at home with another woman – Vera, who lived just a few doors down. Arina and Tony were both at school, and Anna had only come home after work because she’d forgotten her purse. The front door was unlocked, even though her husband should have still been at work – it was only about eleven in the morning. She walked in and found them both in the bedroom, not the least bit ashamed. There was a row that night, after her husband came back from work, but the children didn’t hear it – they were playing outside. “Pack your things, I’ve put them in a bag in the bedroom,” Anna told her husband. “I’ll never forgive your betrayal.” Ivan knew she meant it, though he tried to explain: “Anna, it was just a mistake, can’t we forget it and move on? We’ve got the kids…” “I said leave,” were her final words before she stepped out into the garden. Ivan took his things and left. Anna, hidden around the side of the house, watched, but she never wanted to see him again – the betrayal had cut too deep. “We’ll manage, somehow, with the kids,” she thought, and cried. She never forgave him. So Anna was left alone with two children. She knew it would be hard, but not how hard – she only realised that later. She had to work two jobs. During the day she cleaned floors; at night she worked in a bakery. She was always exhausted – the smile disappeared from her face forever. Although her dad had left, Arina and Tony still saw him; he and Vera only lived four houses away. Vera had a son the same age as Tony – they were in the same class. Anna never stopped the children seeing their father, and they visited him often, playing at his house or in his garden, but always came home to eat. Vera never fed them or made them welcome – playtime was fine, though. Sometimes, Vera’s son would come over to Arina and Tony’s house, and the neighbours would look surprised. Anna would feed all the children – she never minded her former husband’s stepson being there. But Arina never saw her mum smile again. She was kind and caring, but grew quiet and withdrawn. Sometimes Arina, coming home from school, would be desperate for her mum to talk to her, so she’d tell her stories about what happened at school. “Mum, guess what – Genka brought a kitten to class and it kept meowing during lessons! The teacher couldn’t work out where the noise was coming from, and told Genka off, thinking it was him. Then we said, ‘It’s in his bag,’ and she sent Genka – and the kitten – out, and called his mum in!” “Hmm. I see…” was all her mum would say. Arina saw that nothing made her mum happy any more. She even heard her crying at night, staring for ages out of the window, lost in her thoughts. Only when Arina got older did she understand. “Mum must have been completely exhausted, working two jobs and barely sleeping. And she probably didn’t have enough vitamins either. She did everything for me and Tony. We were always dressed well, our clothes were clean and ironed,” Arina often remembered. Back then, she’d plead, “Mum, please smile… I haven’t seen your smile for such a long time.” Anna loved her children, very much, but in her own way. She didn’t hug them often, but sometimes praised them for doing well at school and not causing her trouble. She was a good cook, there was always delicious food on the table, and the house was spotless. Arina felt her mum’s love most when she braided her hair – her mum would gently stroke her head, but always with a sadness, as though the burden had bent her shoulders. Anna’s teeth started to fall out early, and she never replaced them. After finishing school, Arina didn’t even consider going off to study – she didn’t want to leave her mum alone, and besides, studying elsewhere would cost money. She got a job as a shop assistant near home, to help her mum out. Tony was growing fast, always in need of new clothes and shoes. One day, a man named Michael came into the shop. He wasn’t local – he was from a village eight miles away. He liked Arina at once, even though he was nine years older. “What’s your name, gorgeous?” he said with a grin. “You’re new here, aren’t you? I’ve not seen you before when I’ve stopped by.” “Arina. I haven’t seen you before either.” “I’m from a village eight miles from yours. Michael’s my name.” That’s how they met. Michael started coming to see Arina regularly in his car, picking her up after work. They went for walks, sat chatting in his car, and he even took her to meet his mother, who was unwell. Michael had split up with his wife – she’d moved to the county town with their daughter, unwilling to look after her mother-in-law. Michael had a good-sized house and a big smallholding. When Arina visited, he was generous: the table was loaded with sour cream, meat, and sweets. She liked it there. “Arina, will you marry me?” Michael asked one day. “I really like you. I’ve got to be honest though: Mum will need looking after, but I’ll help.” Arina was quietly delighted, though she didn’t show it. After all she’d been through, looking after an ailing mother was no hardship. Michael waited anxiously. “Why not – at least I’ll eat my fill of meat and sour cream,” she thought. “Alright, I’ll marry you,” she said out loud. Michael was over the moon. “Arisha, I’m so happy – I love you… I doubted you’d agree, you being so young and me an older, divorced man. But I promise: I’ll never hurt you, and we’ll have a happy life together.” Michael worked hard and helped with everything at home. After the wedding, Arina moved to his village. Truthfully, she was ready for a change. By now, Tony had grown up, studying car mechanics at college in the county town, only coming home on weekends and holidays. Time passed. Arina was truly happy with her husband. She gave birth to two sons, one after the other. She didn’t work – there were enough chores at home, what with the children and the smallholding (Michael’s mum died two years into their marriage). Michael was still a generous husband, doing most of the heavy work. “Don’t carry those heavy buckets – that’s my job,” he’d say to his wife. “You milk the cow, feed the chickens and ducks, I’ll take care of feeding the pigs.” Arina knew Michael loved her and adored their children. She never had a big home or lots of stock with her mum, but she knew how to manage, and Michael appreciated everything she did. “Arina, let’s take your mum some meat and sour cream and milk. She has to buy everything, and we have our own, all home-grown.” Anna always accepted the gifts gratefully, but she never smiled, not even with her grandsons. They visited often, but Arina always felt sorry for her, not knowing how to bring her mum back to life. “Arisha, maybe you should speak to the vicar for advice – he might know what to do,” Michael suggested, and Arina jumped at the idea. The vicar promised to pray for Anna, and said, “Ask God to send your mum a good person to meet,” so Arina prayed as hard as she could. One day Anna asked her daughter, “Love, could you lend me some money? I want to get my teeth sorted.” “Oh Mum, I’d pay for everything for you!” Arina replied, delighted. But she knew her mum would insist on paying her back, which she did. Not long after, Arina hadn’t managed to visit her mum because Michael was busy helping his Uncle Nick, who was moving from the county town to their village after splitting with his wife, and needed help with paperwork for his new house. Sometimes Arina went with Michael to visit Nick, but one day Michael came home and said, “You know, I think Uncle Nick wants to get married – I heard him talking on the phone…” “And why not?” Arina agreed. “He’s still young – with a nice house, what good is it staying alone?” Soon Nick himself invited them for a visit. “I want you round. I’ve met my first love – we were at school together. She’s coming here tomorrow – pop down for tea the day after.” Two days later, with gifts in hand, Arina and Michael went to see Nick. But as Arina walked in, she froze in disbelief – her own mother was standing there, smiling shyly. Anna looked so much brighter and happier than before. “Mum! I’m so happy for you… but why didn’t you say anything?” “I didn’t want to jinx it, in case nothing worked out.” “Uncle Nick, why did you keep it quiet?” “I was afraid Anna might change her mind… But now we’re happy.” Arina and Michael were overjoyed – Anna glowed with happiness and couldn’t stop smiling. 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Accommodating Grannies Eleanor Smith woke up to laughter. Not a quiet giggle or a polite chuckle, but a booming, irreverent guffaw, the kind that seemed wildly out of place in a hospital ward— the kind she’d never tolerated her whole life. The culprit was her bedmate, clutching a phone to her ear, gesticulating as if the person on the other end could actually see her. “Len, you’re unbelievable! Seriously? He said that in front of everyone?” Eleanor glanced at the clock: quarter to seven. Fifteen minutes until the official wake-up call— precious minutes that could have been spent in silence, composing herself before surgery. The night before, when Eleanor was wheeled into the ward, her roommate was already tapping away briskly on her phone. A brief exchange of “Good evening” and “Hello,” and then each woman retreated into her own thoughts. Eleanor had appreciated the silence. Now— this was a circus. “Excuse me,” she said, quietly but distinctly. “Could you keep it down?” The other woman turned. A round face, short-cropped greying hair, not even an attempt at dye, and a bold red polka-dot pyjama— in hospital, no less! “Oh, sorry, Len— I’ll call you back, someone’s giving me a telling-off,” she said into the phone. Turning to Eleanor with a smile, she added, “Sorry! I’m Cathy Johnson. Did you sleep all right? I never sleep before surgeries, so I’ll just ring everyone I know.” “Eleanor Smith. Just because you’re awake doesn’t mean the rest of us don’t need some rest.” “But you’re up now!” Cathy winked. “Promise, I’ll whisper. Cross my heart.” She did not whisper. By breakfast, she’d already managed two more calls— somehow even louder than before. Eleanor ostentatiously turned toward the wall and pulled the duvet over her head, but it was useless. “My daughter rang,” Cathy explained over the breakfast they both ignored—surgery day. “She’s worried, poor thing. I do my best to reassure her.” Eleanor said nothing. Her own son hadn’t called— though she couldn’t expect it, he’d warned her about a crucial morning meeting. That’s how she’d raised him: work comes first, it’s a responsibility. They took Cathy off to surgery first. She sashayed down the corridor, waving and shouting something to a laughing nurse. Eleanor found herself hoping they’d relocate her to another room after her own operation. An hour later, it was her own turn. She’d always struggled with anaesthesia, and woke up groggy, sick and sore. The nurse told her everything had gone well, she’d just have to be patient. She was patient— always had been. By evening, they brought her back. Cathy was already in her bed— ash-grey, eyes closed, drip in hand. Silent for the first time. “How are you?” Eleanor ventured, surprising herself. Cathy’s eyes flickered open. She smiled faintly. “Still here. You?” “Me too.” They sat in silence as dusk fell. Drips tinkled gently into silence. “Sorry about this morning,” Cathy said suddenly. “When I’m nervous, I just can’t stop talking. I know it’s irritating, but I can’t help it.” Eleanor meant to say something cutting, but found herself too tired. “It’s fine.” Neither woman slept that night. Both ached. Cathy didn’t call anyone, simply lay quietly, but Eleanor heard her shifting, sighing—maybe even crying, softly into her pillow. Next morning, the doctor did her rounds: checked stitches, took their temperatures, and congratulated both—“Well done, you’re recovering nicely.” Cathy immediately grabbed for her phone. “Len! Hi! I’m alive, don’t worry. How’s everyone? What, really, Kir’s got a temperature? Are you… what? Sorted now? See, I told you it wasn’t serious!” Eleanor couldn’t help listening. “Everyone” meant grandchildren, she realised. The daughter was reporting in. Her own mobile was silent. Just two texts from her son: “Mum, how’s it going?” and “Text when you’re able.” Both sent the previous evening, while she was out cold. She replied: “All fine.” Added a smiley. He liked smileys, said otherwise her messages sounded curt. Three hours later, his reply: “Great! Love you.” “Do yours visit?” Cathy asked that afternoon. “My son works. He lives far. There’s no need— I’m not a child.” “Right,” Cathy agreed. “My daughter always says the same— Mum, you’ll cope. No point visiting if you’re all right, right?” There was something in her voice that made Eleanor look more closely. Cathy was smiling, but her eyes weren’t cheerful. “How many grandchildren do you have?” “Three. Kieran’s the eldest, he’s eight. Then Maya and Leo, three and four— just a year apart.” Cathy pulled her phone from the drawer. “Wanna see photos?” They spent twenty minutes poring over photos— kids at the seaside, at the allotment, with birthday cakes. Cathy was in every snap, pulling faces, hugging, kissing. The daughter behind the camera—never in the shots. “My daughter doesn’t like being photographed.” “And are the grandkids with you a lot?” “I live with them, practically. My daughter works, her husband too— so I help. School run, check homework, cook tea.” Eleanor nodded. Much the same. She’d done it every day for the first years after her grandson was born. Then less often, as he grew. Now about once a month—if the diary aligned. “What about you?” “One grandson. Nine. Good at school, plays sports.” “Do you see him much?” “Sundays sometimes. They’re busy. I get it.” “Yeah,” Cathy turned to the window. “Busy.” Silence fell. Rain sprayed the glass. That evening Cathy said, “I don’t want to go home.” Eleanor looked up. Cathy was sitting with her knees to her chest, staring at the floor. “I really don’t. Been thinking about it all day, and I just don’t.” “Why?” “What for? I’ll go home, and Kieran’ll be behind on homework, Maya’ll have a cold, Leo will have ripped his jeans again. My daughter will work late, her husband’s always away. I’ll be washing, cooking, tidying, helping—and they won’t even…” she trailed off. “They don’t even say thank you. Because I’m just Gran— it’s what I’m meant to do.” Eleanor was silent. There was a lump rising in her throat. “Sorry,” Cathy wiped her eyes. “I’m falling apart.” “Don’t be sorry,” Eleanor said quietly. “I… I retired five years ago. Thought I’d finally do something for myself—go to the theatre, exhibitions. I even signed up for French classes. Lasted two weeks.” “What happened?” “My daughter-in-law went on maternity leave. Asked if I’d help. I mean, I’m Gran, not working any more—why not? I couldn’t say no.” “And?” “Three years, every day. Then nursery, so every other day. Now, with school, just once a week. Now… now they don’t really need me. They have a nanny. I just sit at home, waiting. If they remember.” Cathy nodded. “My daughter was meant to visit in November. To me—my house. I cleaned everywhere, baked pies. Then she rang—‘Mum, sorry, Kieran’s got football, can’t make it.’” “She didn’t come?” “No. I took the pies to my neighbour.” They sat quietly. Rain pattered the glass. “You know what’s the worst?” Cathy spoke after a long pause. “Not that they don’t visit. That I still wait. I clutch my phone, thinking maybe they’ll call, say they miss me. Just for me, not because they need something.” Eleanor’s nose prickled. “I wait, too. Every time the phone rings, I think my son just wants to chat. But he always wants something.” “But we always help,” Cathy smiled sadly. “Because we’re mums.” “Yeah.” The next day came dressings—painful for both. Afterwards, they lay silently, until Cathy said, “I always believed my family was happy. My daughter’s lovely, her husband nice, grandkids adored. That I was needed. That they couldn’t cope without me.” “And?” “And it’s only here I realised—they actually manage fine. My daughter hasn’t once mentioned struggling these four days. If anything, she sounds more energetic. She can manage. It’s just convenient—having Gran the free nanny.” Eleanor propped herself on her elbow. “I realised I’m to blame. I taught my son Mum will always help, always drop everything, will always wait. My plans weren’t important. His plans mattered most.” “I was the same. Drop everything, rush when my daughter calls.” “We taught them we don’t count,” Eleanor said slowly. “That we have no life of our own.” Cathy nodded, thoughtful. “So now what?” “I don’t know.” By day five, Eleanor got out of bed without help. By day six, she walked the ward’s length and back. Cathy trailed a day behind, but was determined. They walked together, leaning on the wall for support. “After my husband died, I was lost,” Cathy confided. “I thought life was over. My daughter said, ‘Mum, your new purpose is the grandkids. Live for them.’ So I did. But this purpose… it’s a one-way thing. I give, they take. They only notice if I’m useful.” Eleanor spoke about her divorce thirty years before. How she’d raised her son alone, went to night school, worked two jobs. “I thought if I was the perfect mother, he’d be the perfect son. That if I gave everything, he’d be grateful.” “But he grew up, lives his own life,” Cathy finished gently. “Yes. And maybe that’s normal. I just didn’t expect to feel so alone.” “I didn’t, either.” On day seven, Eleanor’s son showed up—unannounced. She was reading when he walked in, tall, in a posh coat, fruit in a carrier bag. “Mum! How are you? On the mend?” “Getting there.” “Great! Doctor says you’ll be discharged in three days. I thought—you could come to ours? Olesya says the guest room’s free.” “Thanks, but I’ll be better at home.” “If you’re sure. But call—if you need anything. We’ll be there.” He stayed twenty minutes. Talked about work, the grandson, his new car. Asked if she needed money. Promised to visit next week. Left quickly, with a sense of relief. Cathy lay pretending to sleep. Once the door shut, she opened her eyes. “That was your son?” “Yes.” “He’s handsome.” “Yes.” “And cold as ice.” Eleanor didn’t reply. Her throat tightened so much she could hardly breathe. “You know,” Cathy said softly, “I’ve been thinking… Maybe we just need to stop expecting their love. Just… let go. They’ve grown up, they have their own lives. We need to find ours.” “Easier said than done.” “Harder to do. But what other choice do we have? Or we’ll sit here forever, waiting for them to remember us.” “What did you say to them?” Eleanor asked suddenly, shocking herself by using “you” instead of “Mrs.” “To my daughter? Said after discharge, I need a couple of weeks to rest. Doctor’s orders. Can’t help with the grandkids.” “And she?” “At first, she was furious. I just said, ‘Len, you’re a grown-up—sort it yourself. I can’t for now.’” “She’s annoyed?” “And how!” Cathy grinned. “But you know, it’s a relief. Like I shrugged off something heavy.” Eleanor closed her eyes. “I’m scared. If I say no, if I refuse, they’ll be hurt. They might stop calling altogether.” “Do they call much now?” Silence. “Well, then. Can it get any worse? Maybe it’ll get better.” Day eight—discharged together. They packed in silence, as if parting forever. “Let’s swap numbers,” Cathy suggested. Eleanor nodded. They entered numbers into their mobiles. Stood facing each other. “Thank you,” Eleanor said. “For being here.” “No, thank you. I haven’t had a conversation like this in thirty years.” “Me neither.” They hugged, careful of their stitches. The nurse brought the discharge forms, called the taxis. Eleanor left first. Home was quiet. She unpacked, showered, lay down on the sofa. Three texts from her son: “Mum, are you out?” “Call when you’re home,” “Don’t forget your pills.” She replied, “Home. All good.” Put the phone down. She got up, found a folder she hadn’t opened in five years. Inside: a French class brochure, and a printout of theatre showtimes. She stared at them. The phone rang—Cathy. “Hi. Sorry it’s so soon. I just… wanted to call.” “I’m glad. Truly glad.” “How about we meet up, once we’re both stronger? A little café, or a walk. If you’d like, of course.” Eleanor looked at the brochure, then at her phone. Then back to the brochure. “I’d like that. In fact, let’s not wait two weeks. Saturday, maybe? I’m tired of lying around.” “Saturday? Really? The doctors said—” “They did. But I’ve been putting everyone first for thirty years. Time to put myself first.” “Deal. Saturday.” They said goodbye. Eleanor picked up the brochure. French classes started in a month—registration still open. She opened her laptop, began filling in the form. Her hands trembled, but she completed it. All the way to the end. Rain fell outside, but through the clouds, the sun shone—pale and autumnal, but sun nonetheless. And for the first time, Eleanor thought life might just be beginning again. She sent the application.

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Raising a Softy, Are You? — Why Did You Sign Him Up for Piano Lessons? Lydia Peterson breezed past her daughter-in-law, peeling off her gloves. — Hello, Lydia. Please come in. Always a pleasure to see you. Her sarcasm landed poorly. Lydia tossed her gloves on the side table and turned to Mary. — Kostya called me. He’s positively beaming — “I’m going to learn piano!” What is this nonsense? Is he a girl now? Mary closed the door gently, carefully, fighting the urge to scream. — It means your grandson will be learning music because he loves it. — Loves it, does he? — Lydia snorted as if Mary was completely out of her mind. — He’s six, he hasn’t a clue what he likes! It’s your job to guide him. He’s a boy, an heir, my grandson — and just who are you raising him to be? The mother-in-law strode into the kitchen, flicked the kettle on with the authority of a queen. Mary followed, jaw clenched so tight it hurt. — I’m raising a happy child. — You’re raising a weakling — a wet blanket! — Lydia squared herself. — Football, wrestling — that’s what he needs! Make him a man, not some… pianist! Mary leaned against the doorframe and counted to five. It didn’t help. — Kostya asked himself. He loves music. — Loves it, ha! — Lydia waved her hand. — Sergey was playing hockey at his age! And your boy? He’ll be playing scales? Shameful! Something snapped inside Mary. She stepped forward. — Are you finished? — Not by a long shot! I’ve wanted to say— — Well, I’ve wanted to say this: Kostya is my son. Mine. I’ll decide how to raise him. And I won’t let you interfere. Lydia flushed crimson. — The way you speak to me— — Please leave. — What?! Mary grabbed the coat from the rack and shoved it into Lydia’s arms. — Leave my house. — You’re throwing me out? Me? Mary flung open the door. Took her mother-in-law by the elbow and marched her outside. Lydia resisted, but Mary was determined. Out went Lydia, out the door. — I’ll have my way! — Lydia shrieked, angry as ever. — I will not let you ruin my only grandson! — Goodbye, Lydia. — Sergey will hear about this! I’ll tell him everything! Mary slammed the door, pressed her back to it, and exhaled every last ounce of tension. Muffled shouting faded; footsteps echoed down the stairs. Silence descended. Her mother-in-law had finally crossed the line — endless criticism, advice, lectures on how to parent, what to feed, how to dress. And Sergey never saw the problem: “She means well,” “She’s experienced,” “What’s the harm in listening?” He idolised his mother. Every word sacred. Mary endured, day after day, visit after visit. Not today. Sergey returned from work just before eight. The click of the lock, the keys thrown absently on the table — yes, clearly Lydia had already called him. He trudged into the kitchen, never glancing at Kostya who was watching cartoons. — Kostya, sweetheart, stay here — Mary knelt, slid headphones over her son’s ears, queued up his favourite robot show. Kostya nodded, buried in the screen. Mary closed the nursery door and headed for the kitchen. Sergey stood at the window, arms crossed, not turning as she entered. — You threw my mother out. No question. A statement. — I asked her to leave. — You shoved her out the door! She cried on the phone for two hours! Two hours, Mary! Mary sat at the table, exhausted. — Doesn’t it bother you that she insulted me? Sergey hesitated, then waved it away. — She’s just worried for her grandson. What’s so wrong with that? — She called our son a weakling and a coward, Sergey. Our six-year-old. — Well, she got carried away, it happens. But Mum’s right in some ways, Mary. Boys need sports. Team spirit, resilience— Mary met his eyes. Stared until he looked away. — I was forced to do gymnastics when I was a kid. My mum decided — that was it. Five years, Sergey. Five years crying before every practice. Stretched to the point of pain, lost weight, begged to quit. Sergey was silent. — I still can’t stand gyms. And I won’t do that to my son. If Kostya ever wants football — fine. But only if he chooses. Never by force. — Mum just wants what’s best for him— — Then let her have another child and parent how she wants. But she won’t interfere with Kostya anymore. Nor will you, if you’re on her side. Sergey half moved to respond, but Mary left the kitchen. The rest of the evening passed in silence. Mary put Kostya to bed, then sat in the dark of the nursery listening to her son’s gentle breathing. Two tense, silent days followed. At dinner, Sergey cracked a joke, Mary smiled; the ice started to thaw. By Friday they were speaking — though Lydia was never mentioned. Saturday morning, Mary woke to the sound of the lock turning in the front door. She shot up, heart pounding. Robbers? In broad daylight? Phone in hand, she tiptoed into the hall. Lydia stood on the doorstep, triumphant, keys in hand. — Good morning, Mary dear. Mary, in baggy pyjamas and a stretched-out t-shirt, stood barefoot as Lydia looked down her nose, as if entitled to break in at 8am on a Saturday. — Where did you get those keys? Lydia jingled them under her nose. — Sergey gave them to me. He dropped by two days ago. Said — “Mum, forgive her, she didn’t mean to upset you.” Practically begging my forgiveness for your little tantrum. Mary blinked. Once. Twice. — Why are you here? — I’ve come for my grandson — get Kostya ready. Grandma’s signed him up for football, first training today! Fury slammed into her — hot, suffocating, blinding. Mary turned and bolted for the bedroom. Sergey lay with his back to the wall, shoulders tense. — Get up! — Mary, let’s talk later— She yanked off the duvet, grabbed his arm, dragged him to the living room. Lydia was already perched on the sofa, leafing through a magazine. — You gave her the keys — to my flat. Sergey squirmed. — It’s my flat, Sergey. Mine. I bought it, before we were married, with my own money. What made you think you could give your mother my keys? — Oh, how petty! — Lydia tossed the magazine aside. — Yours, mine… all you think about is yourself! Sergey did it for his son, that’s what matters. Since you won’t let me in, I need a way to see my grandson. — Shut your mouth! Lydia gasped, but Mary’s gaze was for Sergey only. — Kostya isn’t going to football, not unless he wants to. — That’s not your decision! — Lydia leapt up. — You’re nothing! Just a temporary blip in my son’s life! Think you’re special? Think you’re irreplaceable? Sergey only puts up with you for the child! Silence. Mary turned to her husband. Head down, no words. — Sergey? Nothing. Not a word in defence. Nothing. — Fine, — Mary nodded. Cold, clear calm settled over her. — Temporary, is it? Well, your time is up. Take your son, Lydia. He’s no longer my husband. — You wouldn’t dare! — Lydia went pale. — You’ve no right to abandon him! — Sergey, — Mary spoke quietly, looking directly at him. — You have half an hour. Pack your things and go. Or I’ll throw you out in your pyjamas — I don’t care. — Mary, wait, let’s talk— — We’re done talking. She turned to Lydia, smiled crookedly. — Keep the keys. I’m changing the locks today. …Divorce took four months. Sergey tried to come back, called, texted, arrived with flowers. Lydia threatened court, guardianship, connections. Mary hired a good lawyer and stopped picking up the phone. Two years slipped by… …The arts school hall buzzed with voices. Mary sat in the third row, clutching her program: “Konstantin Warren, Age 8. Beethoven, Ode to Joy.” Kostya walked onstage — serious, focused, white shirt, black trousers. Sat down at the grand piano, placed his hands on the keys. The first notes filled the hall, and Mary stopped breathing. Her boy was playing Beethoven. Her eight-year-old who asked for lessons, who spent hours at the piano, who chose this piece for his recital. When the last chord faded, the applause exploded. Kostya stood, bowed, found his mother’s face in the crowd and grinned — wide, proud, happy. Mary clapped with everyone, tears streaming down her cheeks. She’d done the right thing. She’d put her son above all — above opinions, above marriage, above the fear of being alone. Which is exactly what a mother should do…

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Raising a Softy, Are You? — Why Did You Sign Him Up for Piano Lessons? Lydia Peterson breezed past her daughter-in-law, peeling off her gloves. — Hello, Lydia. Please come in. Always a pleasure to see you. Her sarcasm landed poorly. Lydia tossed her gloves on the side table and turned to Mary. — Kostya called me. He’s positively beaming — “I’m going to learn piano!” What is this nonsense? Is he a girl now? Mary closed the door gently, carefully, fighting the urge to scream. — It means your grandson will be learning music because he loves it. — Loves it, does he? — Lydia snorted as if Mary was completely out of her mind. — He’s six, he hasn’t a clue what he likes! It’s your job to guide him. He’s a boy, an heir, my grandson — and just who are you raising him to be? The mother-in-law strode into the kitchen, flicked the kettle on with the authority of a queen. Mary followed, jaw clenched so tight it hurt. — I’m raising a happy child. — You’re raising a weakling — a wet blanket! — Lydia squared herself. — Football, wrestling — that’s what he needs! Make him a man, not some… pianist! Mary leaned against the doorframe and counted to five. It didn’t help. — Kostya asked himself. He loves music. — Loves it, ha! — Lydia waved her hand. — Sergey was playing hockey at his age! And your boy? He’ll be playing scales? Shameful! Something snapped inside Mary. She stepped forward. — Are you finished? — Not by a long shot! I’ve wanted to say— — Well, I’ve wanted to say this: Kostya is my son. Mine. I’ll decide how to raise him. And I won’t let you interfere. Lydia flushed crimson. — The way you speak to me— — Please leave. — What?! Mary grabbed the coat from the rack and shoved it into Lydia’s arms. — Leave my house. — You’re throwing me out? Me? Mary flung open the door. Took her mother-in-law by the elbow and marched her outside. Lydia resisted, but Mary was determined. Out went Lydia, out the door. — I’ll have my way! — Lydia shrieked, angry as ever. — I will not let you ruin my only grandson! — Goodbye, Lydia. — Sergey will hear about this! I’ll tell him everything! Mary slammed the door, pressed her back to it, and exhaled every last ounce of tension. Muffled shouting faded; footsteps echoed down the stairs. Silence descended. Her mother-in-law had finally crossed the line — endless criticism, advice, lectures on how to parent, what to feed, how to dress. And Sergey never saw the problem: “She means well,” “She’s experienced,” “What’s the harm in listening?” He idolised his mother. Every word sacred. Mary endured, day after day, visit after visit. Not today. Sergey returned from work just before eight. The click of the lock, the keys thrown absently on the table — yes, clearly Lydia had already called him. He trudged into the kitchen, never glancing at Kostya who was watching cartoons. — Kostya, sweetheart, stay here — Mary knelt, slid headphones over her son’s ears, queued up his favourite robot show. Kostya nodded, buried in the screen. Mary closed the nursery door and headed for the kitchen. Sergey stood at the window, arms crossed, not turning as she entered. — You threw my mother out. No question. A statement. — I asked her to leave. — You shoved her out the door! She cried on the phone for two hours! Two hours, Mary! Mary sat at the table, exhausted. — Doesn’t it bother you that she insulted me? Sergey hesitated, then waved it away. — She’s just worried for her grandson. What’s so wrong with that? — She called our son a weakling and a coward, Sergey. Our six-year-old. — Well, she got carried away, it happens. But Mum’s right in some ways, Mary. Boys need sports. Team spirit, resilience— Mary met his eyes. Stared until he looked away. — I was forced to do gymnastics when I was a kid. My mum decided — that was it. Five years, Sergey. Five years crying before every practice. Stretched to the point of pain, lost weight, begged to quit. Sergey was silent. — I still can’t stand gyms. And I won’t do that to my son. If Kostya ever wants football — fine. But only if he chooses. Never by force. — Mum just wants what’s best for him— — Then let her have another child and parent how she wants. But she won’t interfere with Kostya anymore. Nor will you, if you’re on her side. Sergey half moved to respond, but Mary left the kitchen. The rest of the evening passed in silence. Mary put Kostya to bed, then sat in the dark of the nursery listening to her son’s gentle breathing. Two tense, silent days followed. At dinner, Sergey cracked a joke, Mary smiled; the ice started to thaw. By Friday they were speaking — though Lydia was never mentioned. Saturday morning, Mary woke to the sound of the lock turning in the front door. She shot up, heart pounding. Robbers? In broad daylight? Phone in hand, she tiptoed into the hall. Lydia stood on the doorstep, triumphant, keys in hand. — Good morning, Mary dear. Mary, in baggy pyjamas and a stretched-out t-shirt, stood barefoot as Lydia looked down her nose, as if entitled to break in at 8am on a Saturday. — Where did you get those keys? Lydia jingled them under her nose. — Sergey gave them to me. He dropped by two days ago. Said — “Mum, forgive her, she didn’t mean to upset you.” Practically begging my forgiveness for your little tantrum. Mary blinked. Once. Twice. — Why are you here? — I’ve come for my grandson — get Kostya ready. Grandma’s signed him up for football, first training today! Fury slammed into her — hot, suffocating, blinding. Mary turned and bolted for the bedroom. Sergey lay with his back to the wall, shoulders tense. — Get up! — Mary, let’s talk later— She yanked off the duvet, grabbed his arm, dragged him to the living room. Lydia was already perched on the sofa, leafing through a magazine. — You gave her the keys — to my flat. Sergey squirmed. — It’s my flat, Sergey. Mine. I bought it, before we were married, with my own money. What made you think you could give your mother my keys? — Oh, how petty! — Lydia tossed the magazine aside. — Yours, mine… all you think about is yourself! Sergey did it for his son, that’s what matters. Since you won’t let me in, I need a way to see my grandson. — Shut your mouth! Lydia gasped, but Mary’s gaze was for Sergey only. — Kostya isn’t going to football, not unless he wants to. — That’s not your decision! — Lydia leapt up. — You’re nothing! Just a temporary blip in my son’s life! Think you’re special? Think you’re irreplaceable? Sergey only puts up with you for the child! Silence. Mary turned to her husband. Head down, no words. — Sergey? Nothing. Not a word in defence. Nothing. — Fine, — Mary nodded. Cold, clear calm settled over her. — Temporary, is it? Well, your time is up. Take your son, Lydia. He’s no longer my husband. — You wouldn’t dare! — Lydia went pale. — You’ve no right to abandon him! — Sergey, — Mary spoke quietly, looking directly at him. — You have half an hour. Pack your things and go. Or I’ll throw you out in your pyjamas — I don’t care. — Mary, wait, let’s talk— — We’re done talking. She turned to Lydia, smiled crookedly. — Keep the keys. I’m changing the locks today. …Divorce took four months. Sergey tried to come back, called, texted, arrived with flowers. Lydia threatened court, guardianship, connections. Mary hired a good lawyer and stopped picking up the phone. Two years slipped by… …The arts school hall buzzed with voices. Mary sat in the third row, clutching her program: “Konstantin Warren, Age 8. Beethoven, Ode to Joy.” Kostya walked onstage — serious, focused, white shirt, black trousers. Sat down at the grand piano, placed his hands on the keys. The first notes filled the hall, and Mary stopped breathing. Her boy was playing Beethoven. Her eight-year-old who asked for lessons, who spent hours at the piano, who chose this piece for his recital. When the last chord faded, the applause exploded. Kostya stood, bowed, found his mother’s face in the crowd and grinned — wide, proud, happy. Mary clapped with everyone, tears streaming down her cheeks. She’d done the right thing. She’d put her son above all — above opinions, above marriage, above the fear of being alone. Which is exactly what a mother should do…

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My Husband’s Ex-Wife Demanded I Babysit Their Grandchildren—So I Gave Her the Response She Deserved — “Oh, come on, it’s not that difficult, is it? It’s only three days. Katie’s in a desperate situation—a last-minute trip to Spain, she hasn’t had a real break in ages, and, well… you know, my blood pressure’s bad, and my back is totally knackered from gardening at the allotment. And David—he’s their proper grandad. It’s his duty to help.” The voice on the phone was so loud David didn’t even need to put it on speaker. Helen, who was stirring a vegetable stew at the stove, could hear every word. That voice—high-pitched with a hint of demanding petulance—she’d have recognised anywhere. Lorraine. The first and, unfortunately, unforgettable wife of her husband. David shot Helen an apologetic look, cradling the phone between his shoulder and his ear while slicing bread—crooked slices, as always, whenever he was nervous. — “Lorraine, hang on—” he tried to get a word in. “What’s this got to do with Katie’s holiday? Helen and I had plans for the weekend…” — “Oh, what plans could you possibly have?” Lorraine butted in, not bothering with formalities. “A spot of weeding? A museum? David, these are your grandchildren—Oliver and Daniel. They need a good male role model, not a load of mollycoddling. You haven’t seen them in a month. Don’t you have a conscience? Or has your precious new missus completely henpecked you?” Helen put down her spoon and turned off the gas. “New missus.” She and David had been married eight years. Eight happy, peaceful years—if you ignored the regular visits from “Hurricane Lorraine.” First there were demands to up maintenance for their fully-grown daughter, then constant requests for handouts, repairs, dental treatment, even a new car. David, always gentle and decent, paid up for years, still haunted by guilt over leaving the marriage—even though Katie had already turned twenty and the two of them had been living as flatmates for years. “Lorraine, don’t talk about Helen like that.” David’s voice was firmer now, but embarrassment lingered. “This isn’t about her. We just need a bit of notice. The boys are only six—they need watching every second, and we’re not getting any younger…” — “Exactly!” Lorraine sounded triumphant. “Old age is a booby prize, and moving around keeps you youthful. Chase after the grandkids, it’ll do you good! Anyway, Katie’ll drop them off tomorrow for ten. I can’t, you know my back—and don’t argue, David. They’re your family.” There was a click and the dial tone echoed in the room. David set the phone down and exhaled heavily, not meeting Helen’s gaze. The kitchen fell quiet; only the ticking clock filled the air. Outside, an evening shower rattled against the windowsill. Helen tidied imaginary crumbs with a napkin. — “So, tomorrow at ten, then?” she asked, her voice steady. David finally looked up. His eyes begged forgiveness. — “Helen, I’m so sorry. You heard her—like a sledgehammer. Katie’s flying out, Lorraine claims she’s crippled… What else can they do? They’re my grandkids.” — “David,” Helen sat opposite him and laced her fingers, “these are your grandkids. Not mine. I’m fond of them, but let’s be honest—they don’t even call me by name. To them, I’m ‘that lady,’ just as Granny Lorraine taught them. Every visit ends with chaos, because Katie believes in zero rules for kids.” — “I’ll handle them myself!” David assured her. “Really. You won’t have to lift a finger. I’ll take them to the park, the cinema, the amusements—just, if you could cook something simple, soup or meatballs. They do love your cooking, even if they’d never admit it.” Helen smiled sadly. She knew how it would go. David would last two hours before collapsing on the sofa. Then it would be her, left in charge of two six-year-olds bouncing off the furniture and ignoring every word (“Granny Lorraine says anything goes because Grandpa’s in charge”). — “We’ve got theatre tickets Saturday,” Helen reminded him. “And we planned to go to the allotment—to get the roses ready for winter.” — “The theatre isn’t going anywhere. The tickets can be returned… and the roses… Oh, Helen, please. Just this once. I’ll have a word with Katie, make sure it never happens again.” “Just this once.” She’d heard that phrase twenty times. Each time, she’d caved in—not wanting to add to his guilt. But this time, something snapped. Maybe it was Lorraine’s bossy tone, maybe it was being taken for granted. — “No, David,” Helen said quietly. David blinked in confusion. — “No what?” — “No, we’re not taking the kids. Not this time. I’m not cancelling my plans, not returning my tickets, not spending three days cooking for children who last time told me my soup ‘smelled funny’ and that ‘mum’s better.’” — “Helen, come on—they’re just kids. Where’s Katie going to put them? Her holiday’s already paid for.” — “That’s Katie’s problem. She’s an adult. She’s got a husband, a mother-in-law, nannies if she wants. Why should their emergencies always become my responsibility?” — “Ours—” David corrected. — “No, David. Mine. Because I clean the house when they leave mayhem, I do the laundry, I do the cooking—while you play the doting grandad, then retreat with your blood pressure pills. I respect your relationship with your grandchildren, but I didn’t sign up as a free nanny for the children of a woman who despises me.” David frowned, not used to Helen being so direct. She was usually the soul of patience. — “So what do you suggest? Call and say ‘no’ right now? Lorraine will explode, kick up a fuss, probably give me a heart attack.” — “Don’t call,” Helen said, getting up and heading to the window. “Let them bring the kids.” — “So you’re… you’re saying yes?” David brightened. — “No. Let them bring the kids. We’ll see.” Saturday morning dawned sunny and warm—unlike the mood in Helen and David’s flat. David was pacing, fussing with the sofa, checking his watch. Helen, calm as ever, enjoyed her breakfast, picked a dress, did her makeup, and packed a small bag. — “Going somewhere?” David fretted as she packed a book and umbrella. — “Don’t forget, we’re at the theatre by seven. I thought I’d have my hair done and walk by the river before then—clear my head.” — “Helen! They’ll be here in fifteen minutes! How am I supposed to cope on my own? I don’t know what they eat, where their things are—” — “You’ll work it out. You’re their grandad. A positive male role model—wasn’t that what Lorraine wanted?” Just then, the doorbell rang—loud and insistent. David dashed to open it; Helen lingered in the bedroom, slipping on her shoes. Raised voices echoed from the hallway. — “Thank God, no traffic!” It was Katie, David’s daughter. “Dad! Here you go—bag’s here, tablet’s charged, any problems just ring. Gotta dash—the cab’s waiting! Oliver, Daniel, behave for your granddad!” — “But—what about food… their routines—” David started. — “Oh, it’s the weekend—just stick some fish fingers on! Bye!” The door banged, in ran two boys, yelling, “Attack!” Helen walked into the hallway. The twins were already climbing the shoe rack, grabbing for David’s hat. David looked lost, clutching a giant holdall. But most interesting of all, there was Lorraine in the doorway. Apparently her poorly back hadn’t stopped her coming to “supervise.” She looked in rude health, hair coiffed, gold everywhere. — “Ah, there you are,” Lorraine eyed Helen up and down. “I hope you’re ready. Nothing fried for the boys—Daniel’s allergic to oranges, Oliver hates onions, soup must be fresh daily. And don’t let them have screens for more than an hour.” Her tone was pure dowager—issuing orders to the help. David shrank, prepared for a row. Helen coolly went to the mirror and adjusted her hair. — “Good morning, Lorraine. Good morning, boys.” The twins stopped briefly, but carried on jumping. — “Thank you for the helpful instructions,” Helen replied with a gentle smile. “Do pass them on to David—he’s in charge today.” — “Excuse me?” Lorraine’s eyebrows shot up. “Where do you think you’re going?” — “It’s my day off. I’ve got errands, friends to meet, theatre. I’ll be back late, maybe tomorrow.” Lorraine reddened and blocked her path. — “Are you mad? Personal errands? Two children here—your husband’s grandchildren! You’re obliged—” — “I’m only obliged to those I promised,” Helen stopped her, softly but firmly. “I’m not their mother or their grandmother. Their own parents and grannies can look after them. You, Lorraine, are retired, as far as I know.” — “My back!” Lorraine screeched. — “And I have a life. I don’t intend to spend it servicing other people, especially when asked in that tone.” — “David!” Lorraine turned. “Are you hearing this? Are you a man or a mouse? Tell her!” David’s eyes flicked between the women, torn by habit. — “Lorraine…” he began, “Helen, er, did say she was busy. I thought I could manage on my own…” — “Manage? You’ll be on the sofa in an hour! Who’ll feed them, bathe them? Look at her—done up for the theatre, and her ‘family’s in crisis!’” — “Family?” Helen’s smile vanished. “Let’s be clear, Lorraine. David and I are a family. You, Katie, and your grandchildren are David’s relatives, not mine. I’ve put up with your demands and insults long enough. But this is my home, not a creche, I’m not your unpaid servant.” — “How dare you! This is my ex-husband’s flat—he’s entitled—” — “He can invite whomever he likes. But he can’t force me to serve his guests. David—your choice. You can stay here with the grandkids and Lorraine, who clearly feels fine now she’s here. I’m off.” Helen turned for the door. — “Wait!” Lorraine grabbed her arm. “You’re not going anywhere until you cook for the kids! Katie’s at the airport! Where am I supposed to put them!” Helen calmly but firmly removed Lorraine’s hand. — “That’s not my concern, Lorraine. Call a taxi, go home, make your own soup. Or call Katie—she can come back. And don’t touch me again. Otherwise, I’ll call the police and report you for trespassing and assault. And believe me—I will.” A deathly silence fell; even the twins froze. David, amazed and a bit scared, watched Helen—she had never been like this before: not “nice Helen,” but a woman defending her boundaries. Lorraine gasped for breath. She was used to Helen taking it. Not anymore. — “You’re a monster,” Lorraine spat. “Selfish cow. I’ll make sure everyone knows what you’ve done.” — “Go ahead,” Helen shrugged. “I don’t care.” She walked out. — “David, you have keys. If you sort this, ring me. If not—I’ll see you when the boys are gone.” The lift doors closed behind her. Outside, she inhaled the fresh, rain-washed air. Her hands shook, but she felt incredibly free. She’d finally said “no.” Helen had a wonderful day—art exhibit, coffee, a stroll in the park. She turned her phone off all day, ignoring missed calls and messages. That evening, after the play, she switched it on: ten missed calls from David. One text—*“Lorraine’s taken the boys. I’m home. Sorry.”* She got home at eleven. The flat was quiet and spotless. David sat at the kitchen table, looking exhausted. — “Where are the boys?” she asked. — “Lorraine marched them off. She shrieked about cursing us, rang Katie, demanded money. In the end, Katie had to arrange a nanny in Spain and take the boys with her. Lorraine flat-out refused—her ‘back’ acted up at the mere thought of helping.” — “See? There was a solution. Katie’s their mother—let her enjoy her holiday with her kids. That’s normal.” — “Helen,” David reached for her hand, “thank you.” — “For what—leaving you to deal with it?” — “For making me feel like a man, not Lorraine’s doormat. I realised today: I don’t owe Lorraine or Katie—or anyone—but you. You’re my family. I’ve acted like a coward.” — “You’ve learned. That’s all that matters. Tea and cherry pie?” The next day, Lorraine didn’t call. Katie texted from Spain. Life felt different now—lighter, airier, no trace of old resentment. A week later: — “Lorraine called yesterday,” David said while gardening. Helen tensed. “What did she want?” — “Money for medication.” — “And did you give any?” — “No. Told her our budget’s tight—new conservatory for you, remember? She hung up. And you know what? The world didn’t end.” — “Nope,” Helen grinned. “It just got a little brighter.” The failed “babysitting drop-off” became a turning point in their marriage. Helen realised dignity meant quietly saying “no” when someone trampled her boundaries. And David learned that his wife’s respect was worth more than peace with an ex-wife who was no longer family. The grandkids still came, but only by arrangement. Lorraine never set foot in their flat again. David took the boys to the park, the zoo, then dropped them home—much easier for everyone. The children got a happy granddad, not a harried one. And Helen got what she deserved—peace, and a husband who finally, truly chose her. Sometimes, sitting on their patio at sunset, Helen thought of that day she picked up her bag and left for the theatre. It was the best performance she’d ever seen—even if she couldn’t remember the play’s name. Because the real drama had happened in her own hallway, and the ending was happily ever after. If you enjoyed this story about standing up for yourself, don’t forget to follow and leave a comment—what would you have done in Helen’s place?

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Raising a Softy, Are You? — Why Did You Sign Him Up for Piano Lessons? Lydia Peterson breezed past her daughter-in-law, peeling off her gloves. — Hello, Lydia. Please come in. Always a pleasure to see you. Her sarcasm landed poorly. Lydia tossed her gloves on the side table and turned to Mary. — Kostya called me. He’s positively beaming — “I’m going to learn piano!” What is this nonsense? Is he a girl now? Mary closed the door gently, carefully, fighting the urge to scream. — It means your grandson will be learning music because he loves it. — Loves it, does he? — Lydia snorted as if Mary was completely out of her mind. — He’s six, he hasn’t a clue what he likes! It’s your job to guide him. He’s a boy, an heir, my grandson — and just who are you raising him to be? The mother-in-law strode into the kitchen, flicked the kettle on with the authority of a queen. Mary followed, jaw clenched so tight it hurt. — I’m raising a happy child. — You’re raising a weakling — a wet blanket! — Lydia squared herself. — Football, wrestling — that’s what he needs! Make him a man, not some… pianist! Mary leaned against the doorframe and counted to five. It didn’t help. — Kostya asked himself. He loves music. — Loves it, ha! — Lydia waved her hand. — Sergey was playing hockey at his age! And your boy? He’ll be playing scales? Shameful! Something snapped inside Mary. She stepped forward. — Are you finished? — Not by a long shot! I’ve wanted to say— — Well, I’ve wanted to say this: Kostya is my son. Mine. I’ll decide how to raise him. And I won’t let you interfere. Lydia flushed crimson. — The way you speak to me— — Please leave. — What?! Mary grabbed the coat from the rack and shoved it into Lydia’s arms. — Leave my house. — You’re throwing me out? Me? Mary flung open the door. Took her mother-in-law by the elbow and marched her outside. Lydia resisted, but Mary was determined. Out went Lydia, out the door. — I’ll have my way! — Lydia shrieked, angry as ever. — I will not let you ruin my only grandson! — Goodbye, Lydia. — Sergey will hear about this! I’ll tell him everything! Mary slammed the door, pressed her back to it, and exhaled every last ounce of tension. Muffled shouting faded; footsteps echoed down the stairs. Silence descended. Her mother-in-law had finally crossed the line — endless criticism, advice, lectures on how to parent, what to feed, how to dress. And Sergey never saw the problem: “She means well,” “She’s experienced,” “What’s the harm in listening?” He idolised his mother. Every word sacred. Mary endured, day after day, visit after visit. Not today. Sergey returned from work just before eight. The click of the lock, the keys thrown absently on the table — yes, clearly Lydia had already called him. He trudged into the kitchen, never glancing at Kostya who was watching cartoons. — Kostya, sweetheart, stay here — Mary knelt, slid headphones over her son’s ears, queued up his favourite robot show. Kostya nodded, buried in the screen. Mary closed the nursery door and headed for the kitchen. Sergey stood at the window, arms crossed, not turning as she entered. — You threw my mother out. No question. A statement. — I asked her to leave. — You shoved her out the door! She cried on the phone for two hours! Two hours, Mary! Mary sat at the table, exhausted. — Doesn’t it bother you that she insulted me? Sergey hesitated, then waved it away. — She’s just worried for her grandson. What’s so wrong with that? — She called our son a weakling and a coward, Sergey. Our six-year-old. — Well, she got carried away, it happens. But Mum’s right in some ways, Mary. Boys need sports. Team spirit, resilience— Mary met his eyes. Stared until he looked away. — I was forced to do gymnastics when I was a kid. My mum decided — that was it. Five years, Sergey. Five years crying before every practice. Stretched to the point of pain, lost weight, begged to quit. Sergey was silent. — I still can’t stand gyms. And I won’t do that to my son. If Kostya ever wants football — fine. But only if he chooses. Never by force. — Mum just wants what’s best for him— — Then let her have another child and parent how she wants. But she won’t interfere with Kostya anymore. Nor will you, if you’re on her side. Sergey half moved to respond, but Mary left the kitchen. The rest of the evening passed in silence. Mary put Kostya to bed, then sat in the dark of the nursery listening to her son’s gentle breathing. Two tense, silent days followed. At dinner, Sergey cracked a joke, Mary smiled; the ice started to thaw. By Friday they were speaking — though Lydia was never mentioned. Saturday morning, Mary woke to the sound of the lock turning in the front door. She shot up, heart pounding. Robbers? In broad daylight? Phone in hand, she tiptoed into the hall. Lydia stood on the doorstep, triumphant, keys in hand. — Good morning, Mary dear. Mary, in baggy pyjamas and a stretched-out t-shirt, stood barefoot as Lydia looked down her nose, as if entitled to break in at 8am on a Saturday. — Where did you get those keys? Lydia jingled them under her nose. — Sergey gave them to me. He dropped by two days ago. Said — “Mum, forgive her, she didn’t mean to upset you.” Practically begging my forgiveness for your little tantrum. Mary blinked. Once. Twice. — Why are you here? — I’ve come for my grandson — get Kostya ready. Grandma’s signed him up for football, first training today! Fury slammed into her — hot, suffocating, blinding. Mary turned and bolted for the bedroom. Sergey lay with his back to the wall, shoulders tense. — Get up! — Mary, let’s talk later— She yanked off the duvet, grabbed his arm, dragged him to the living room. Lydia was already perched on the sofa, leafing through a magazine. — You gave her the keys — to my flat. Sergey squirmed. — It’s my flat, Sergey. Mine. I bought it, before we were married, with my own money. What made you think you could give your mother my keys? — Oh, how petty! — Lydia tossed the magazine aside. — Yours, mine… all you think about is yourself! Sergey did it for his son, that’s what matters. Since you won’t let me in, I need a way to see my grandson. — Shut your mouth! Lydia gasped, but Mary’s gaze was for Sergey only. — Kostya isn’t going to football, not unless he wants to. — That’s not your decision! — Lydia leapt up. — You’re nothing! Just a temporary blip in my son’s life! Think you’re special? Think you’re irreplaceable? Sergey only puts up with you for the child! Silence. Mary turned to her husband. Head down, no words. — Sergey? Nothing. Not a word in defence. Nothing. — Fine, — Mary nodded. Cold, clear calm settled over her. — Temporary, is it? Well, your time is up. Take your son, Lydia. He’s no longer my husband. — You wouldn’t dare! — Lydia went pale. — You’ve no right to abandon him! — Sergey, — Mary spoke quietly, looking directly at him. — You have half an hour. Pack your things and go. Or I’ll throw you out in your pyjamas — I don’t care. — Mary, wait, let’s talk— — We’re done talking. She turned to Lydia, smiled crookedly. — Keep the keys. I’m changing the locks today. …Divorce took four months. Sergey tried to come back, called, texted, arrived with flowers. Lydia threatened court, guardianship, connections. Mary hired a good lawyer and stopped picking up the phone. Two years slipped by… …The arts school hall buzzed with voices. Mary sat in the third row, clutching her program: “Konstantin Warren, Age 8. Beethoven, Ode to Joy.” Kostya walked onstage — serious, focused, white shirt, black trousers. Sat down at the grand piano, placed his hands on the keys. The first notes filled the hall, and Mary stopped breathing. Her boy was playing Beethoven. Her eight-year-old who asked for lessons, who spent hours at the piano, who chose this piece for his recital. When the last chord faded, the applause exploded. Kostya stood, bowed, found his mother’s face in the crowd and grinned — wide, proud, happy. Mary clapped with everyone, tears streaming down her cheeks. She’d done the right thing. She’d put her son above all — above opinions, above marriage, above the fear of being alone. Which is exactly what a mother should do…

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📌 Useful Social Services & Contacts in the U.S.

Stay informed and get help when you need it. Below are key national services with direct contacts that may support you or your loved ones:
🏥 Health & Mental Support

SAMHSA – Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration

What they do: Free and confidential help with substance use and mental health disorders.

Hotline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357) – 24/7, anonymous support

Website: samhsa.gov

🧒 Support for Children & Families

WIC – Women, Infants, and Children Program

What they do: Nutritional and healthcare support for pregnant women, new mothers, and young children.

Federal Info Line: 1-800-522-5006

Find local WIC office: fns.usda.gov/wic

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