Became a Housemaid
When Margaret announced she was planning to marry, her son and daughter-in-law were stunned by the news and uncertain how to respond.
Are you sure youre ready to turn your life upside down at your age? asked Emma, glancing at her husband.
Mum, why the sudden decision? Daniel was anxious. I get that youve been on your own for years and devoted most of your life to raising me, but getting married now seems daft.
You only think that because youre young, Margaret replied calmly. Im sixty-three, and none of us knows how long we have left. I have every right to spend my remaining years beside someone I love.
Well, dont rush into anything, Daniel tried to reason. Youve only known Edward for a few months. Isnt it too soon to change everything?
At our age, you shouldnt waste time, Margaret reasoned. Besides, what more do I need to know? Hes two years older, lives with his daughter and her family in a three-bedroom flat, gets a good pension, and has a cottage in the country.
And where will you live? Daniel asked, confused. We all live together, but theres just not enough room for another person.
Dont fret so much, Edward isnt after our living space. I’m moving in with him, Margaret explained. The flats spacious, I get on well with his daughter, everyones grown up, so theres no reason for conflict.
Daniel worried, and Emma tried to persuade him to understand his mothers choice.
Are we just being selfish? she pondered. Its been comfortable with your mum helping, especially looking after Sophie. But she deserves her own happiness. This chance has come, and we shouldnt stand in her way.
Its one thing to live together, but why get married? Do we really need a bride in white and a wedding reception? Daniel grumbled.
Theyre old school; maybe its more comforting and secure for them, Emma reasoned.
Eventually, Margaret married Edward. Theyd met by chance in town, and soon she moved into his flat. For a while everything seemed all righthis family accepted her, her husband was kind, and Margaret believed that, at last, shed earned her chance to be happy in her twilight years. She embraced each new day gratefully, until some of the realities of sharing a home unfolded.
Would you be able to make us a roast for dinner? asked Rachel, Edwards daughter. Id do it myself, but works been manic, and youve got the time.
Margaret caught the hint and took over cooking. With that came shopping for groceries, cleaning the flat, doing laundry, and even running errands to the cottage.
Now that were married, the cottage is our joint responsibility, Edward said. Rachel and her husband are too busy, and the granddaughter is little. Well manage it together.
Margaret wasnt one to quarrel. She enjoyed being part of a big, supportive family built on lending a hand. Her first marriage had never brought this joythe man was idle and sly, and eventually disappeared when Daniel turned ten. Twenty years had passed since then, and shed never learned his fate. Now everything felt right, and Margaret found her duties, though tiring, were bearable.
Mum, youre no gardener, Daniel would say. You come back worn out every time; do you really need it?
Of course I do! Besides, I like being outside, Margaret replied. Edward and I will grow a bumper crop at the cottage, enough to share with everyone.
Still, Daniel had doubts. Despite several months passing, they were never invited over to Edwards for even a cup of tea. Daniel and Emma had invited Edward round, but he always had something come up. Eventually, they stopped trying, accepting that the new relatives weren’t keen to build ties. All they wanted was the reassurance that Margaret was happy.
At first, Margaret was genuinely contentthe chores were just part of daily life. Yet, the list kept growing and started to wear on her. Whenever they visited the cottage, Edward would complain about his back or his heart, leaving Margaret to lug branches, rake leaves, and haul rubbish alone.
Bangers and mash again? moaned Anthony, Edwards son-in-law. We had this yesterday. I expected something different tonight.
I didnt have time to make anything else and couldnt get to the shops today, Margaret apologised. I spent hours washing all the curtains and rehanging them. I got so tired I needed to lie down.
Well, thats all very well, but I dont care much for this dish, Anthony grumbled.
Dont worry, Margie will spoil us with a proper feast tomorrow, Edward chimed in.
The next day, Margaret spent hours in the kitchen, only for the meal to be eaten in a flash. She cleaned up afterwards, a never-ending cycle. Rachel and her husband complained about everything now, and Edward started siding with them, acting like Margaret was always to blame.
I’m not young anymore, I get tired too, and I don’t see why I should do it all! Margaret protested after yet another round of criticism.
Youre my wife, so its your job to keep this place in order, Edward reminded her.
As your wife, I should have rights, not just endless duties! Margaret cried.
Eventually she calmed down and continued trying to please everyone, but one day she finally snapped. That day, Rachel and Anthony were heading out to visit friends and assumed Margaret would look after their daughter.
Let the little one stay with her granddad or come along with you, because today Im visiting my own granddaughter, Margaret declared.
Why should all our plans revolve around you? Rachel flared up.
They shouldnt, but Im not obliged to drop everything for you either, Margaret replied. My granddaughters birthdays todayI told you on Tuesday. Not only has everyone ignored that, now you expect me to stay home and miss it.
Well, thats not on! Edward said, his cheeks reddening. Rachels plans are ruined, and your granddaughter is so smallshe wont mind if you congratulate her tomorrow.
It wont matter if we all go visit my family now, or you stay home with your granddaughter until I return, Margaret said, standing her ground.
Knew it! Nothing good ever comes from your marriage, sneered Rachel. She cooks badly, the place is rarely tidy, and she only thinks of herself.
After all Ive done here these past months, you really think that? Margaret looked at Edward. Tell me honestly, were you seeking a wifeor a housemaid for all your whims?
Thats unfair! Youre making out Im the villain, Edward protested, blinking quickly. Dont start quarrelling for no reason.
Im asking a simple question and deserve an honest answer, Margaret pressed.
If youre so set on this, do what you wantbut in my house, duties come first, Edward said proudly.
In that case, I resign, Margaret stated, and went off to pack her things.
Will you take back your hopeless granny? she joked as she arrived at her sons, carrying a bag and the birthday present. Been married, come home again, dont ask questionsjust say yes or no.
Of course! Daniel and Emma rushed to her side. Your rooms waiting and were glad you’re back.
Are you glad just for the sake of it? she asked, wanting to hear the words she longed for.
Why else would you be happy to see family? Emma replied, confused.
Only then did Margaret realise she was not a servant. She helped out and cared for her granddaughter, but Daniel and Emma never took advantage or made unreasonable demands. She was truly mum, granny, and mother-in-lawa valued member, not hired help. Margaret returned home for good, filed for divorce herself, and did her best not to dwell on her unhappy experience.
And so Margaret learned that family is where youre appreciated, not exploited. True happiness isnt found in the roles youre given, but in the respect youre shown and the love you share.












