Emily Taylor

Raising a Softy, Are You? — Why Did You Sign Him Up for Piano Lessons? Lydia Peterson breezed past her daughter-in-law, peeling off her gloves. — Hello, Lydia. Please come in. Always a pleasure to see you. Her sarcasm landed poorly. Lydia tossed her gloves on the side table and turned to Mary. — Kostya called me. He’s positively beaming — “I’m going to learn piano!” What is this nonsense? Is he a girl now? Mary closed the door gently, carefully, fighting the urge to scream. — It means your grandson will be learning music because he loves it. — Loves it, does he? — Lydia snorted as if Mary was completely out of her mind. — He’s six, he hasn’t a clue what he likes! It’s your job to guide him. He’s a boy, an heir, my grandson — and just who are you raising him to be? The mother-in-law strode into the kitchen, flicked the kettle on with the authority of a queen. Mary followed, jaw clenched so tight it hurt. — I’m raising a happy child. — You’re raising a weakling — a wet blanket! — Lydia squared herself. — Football, wrestling — that’s what he needs! Make him a man, not some… pianist! Mary leaned against the doorframe and counted to five. It didn’t help. — Kostya asked himself. He loves music. — Loves it, ha! — Lydia waved her hand. — Sergey was playing hockey at his age! And your boy? He’ll be playing scales? Shameful! Something snapped inside Mary. She stepped forward. — Are you finished? — Not by a long shot! I’ve wanted to say— — Well, I’ve wanted to say this: Kostya is my son. Mine. I’ll decide how to raise him. And I won’t let you interfere. Lydia flushed crimson. — The way you speak to me— — Please leave. — What?! Mary grabbed the coat from the rack and shoved it into Lydia’s arms. — Leave my house. — You’re throwing me out? Me? Mary flung open the door. Took her mother-in-law by the elbow and marched her outside. Lydia resisted, but Mary was determined. Out went Lydia, out the door. — I’ll have my way! — Lydia shrieked, angry as ever. — I will not let you ruin my only grandson! — Goodbye, Lydia. — Sergey will hear about this! I’ll tell him everything! Mary slammed the door, pressed her back to it, and exhaled every last ounce of tension. Muffled shouting faded; footsteps echoed down the stairs. Silence descended. Her mother-in-law had finally crossed the line — endless criticism, advice, lectures on how to parent, what to feed, how to dress. And Sergey never saw the problem: “She means well,” “She’s experienced,” “What’s the harm in listening?” He idolised his mother. Every word sacred. Mary endured, day after day, visit after visit. Not today. Sergey returned from work just before eight. The click of the lock, the keys thrown absently on the table — yes, clearly Lydia had already called him. He trudged into the kitchen, never glancing at Kostya who was watching cartoons. — Kostya, sweetheart, stay here — Mary knelt, slid headphones over her son’s ears, queued up his favourite robot show. Kostya nodded, buried in the screen. Mary closed the nursery door and headed for the kitchen. Sergey stood at the window, arms crossed, not turning as she entered. — You threw my mother out. No question. A statement. — I asked her to leave. — You shoved her out the door! She cried on the phone for two hours! Two hours, Mary! Mary sat at the table, exhausted. — Doesn’t it bother you that she insulted me? Sergey hesitated, then waved it away. — She’s just worried for her grandson. What’s so wrong with that? — She called our son a weakling and a coward, Sergey. Our six-year-old. — Well, she got carried away, it happens. But Mum’s right in some ways, Mary. Boys need sports. Team spirit, resilience— Mary met his eyes. Stared until he looked away. — I was forced to do gymnastics when I was a kid. My mum decided — that was it. Five years, Sergey. Five years crying before every practice. Stretched to the point of pain, lost weight, begged to quit. Sergey was silent. — I still can’t stand gyms. And I won’t do that to my son. If Kostya ever wants football — fine. But only if he chooses. Never by force. — Mum just wants what’s best for him— — Then let her have another child and parent how she wants. But she won’t interfere with Kostya anymore. Nor will you, if you’re on her side. Sergey half moved to respond, but Mary left the kitchen. The rest of the evening passed in silence. Mary put Kostya to bed, then sat in the dark of the nursery listening to her son’s gentle breathing. Two tense, silent days followed. At dinner, Sergey cracked a joke, Mary smiled; the ice started to thaw. By Friday they were speaking — though Lydia was never mentioned. Saturday morning, Mary woke to the sound of the lock turning in the front door. She shot up, heart pounding. Robbers? In broad daylight? Phone in hand, she tiptoed into the hall. Lydia stood on the doorstep, triumphant, keys in hand. — Good morning, Mary dear. Mary, in baggy pyjamas and a stretched-out t-shirt, stood barefoot as Lydia looked down her nose, as if entitled to break in at 8am on a Saturday. — Where did you get those keys? Lydia jingled them under her nose. — Sergey gave them to me. He dropped by two days ago. Said — “Mum, forgive her, she didn’t mean to upset you.” Practically begging my forgiveness for your little tantrum. Mary blinked. Once. Twice. — Why are you here? — I’ve come for my grandson — get Kostya ready. Grandma’s signed him up for football, first training today! Fury slammed into her — hot, suffocating, blinding. Mary turned and bolted for the bedroom. Sergey lay with his back to the wall, shoulders tense. — Get up! — Mary, let’s talk later— She yanked off the duvet, grabbed his arm, dragged him to the living room. Lydia was already perched on the sofa, leafing through a magazine. — You gave her the keys — to my flat. Sergey squirmed. — It’s my flat, Sergey. Mine. I bought it, before we were married, with my own money. What made you think you could give your mother my keys? — Oh, how petty! — Lydia tossed the magazine aside. — Yours, mine… all you think about is yourself! Sergey did it for his son, that’s what matters. Since you won’t let me in, I need a way to see my grandson. — Shut your mouth! Lydia gasped, but Mary’s gaze was for Sergey only. — Kostya isn’t going to football, not unless he wants to. — That’s not your decision! — Lydia leapt up. — You’re nothing! Just a temporary blip in my son’s life! Think you’re special? Think you’re irreplaceable? Sergey only puts up with you for the child! Silence. Mary turned to her husband. Head down, no words. — Sergey? Nothing. Not a word in defence. Nothing. — Fine, — Mary nodded. Cold, clear calm settled over her. — Temporary, is it? Well, your time is up. Take your son, Lydia. He’s no longer my husband. — You wouldn’t dare! — Lydia went pale. — You’ve no right to abandon him! — Sergey, — Mary spoke quietly, looking directly at him. — You have half an hour. Pack your things and go. Or I’ll throw you out in your pyjamas — I don’t care. — Mary, wait, let’s talk— — We’re done talking. She turned to Lydia, smiled crookedly. — Keep the keys. I’m changing the locks today. …Divorce took four months. Sergey tried to come back, called, texted, arrived with flowers. Lydia threatened court, guardianship, connections. Mary hired a good lawyer and stopped picking up the phone. Two years slipped by… …The arts school hall buzzed with voices. Mary sat in the third row, clutching her program: “Konstantin Warren, Age 8. Beethoven, Ode to Joy.” Kostya walked onstage — serious, focused, white shirt, black trousers. Sat down at the grand piano, placed his hands on the keys. The first notes filled the hall, and Mary stopped breathing. Her boy was playing Beethoven. Her eight-year-old who asked for lessons, who spent hours at the piano, who chose this piece for his recital. When the last chord faded, the applause exploded. Kostya stood, bowed, found his mother’s face in the crowd and grinned — wide, proud, happy. Mary clapped with everyone, tears streaming down her cheeks. She’d done the right thing. She’d put her son above all — above opinions, above marriage, above the fear of being alone. Which is exactly what a mother should do…

Raising a Softy “Why on earth have you signed him up for music lessons?” Margaret Harris

La vida

02

Raising a Softy, Are You? — Why Did You Sign Him Up for Piano Lessons? Lydia Peterson breezed past her daughter-in-law, peeling off her gloves. — Hello, Lydia. Please come in. Always a pleasure to see you. Her sarcasm landed poorly. Lydia tossed her gloves on the side table and turned to Mary. — Kostya called me. He’s positively beaming — “I’m going to learn piano!” What is this nonsense? Is he a girl now? Mary closed the door gently, carefully, fighting the urge to scream. — It means your grandson will be learning music because he loves it. — Loves it, does he? — Lydia snorted as if Mary was completely out of her mind. — He’s six, he hasn’t a clue what he likes! It’s your job to guide him. He’s a boy, an heir, my grandson — and just who are you raising him to be? The mother-in-law strode into the kitchen, flicked the kettle on with the authority of a queen. Mary followed, jaw clenched so tight it hurt. — I’m raising a happy child. — You’re raising a weakling — a wet blanket! — Lydia squared herself. — Football, wrestling — that’s what he needs! Make him a man, not some… pianist! Mary leaned against the doorframe and counted to five. It didn’t help. — Kostya asked himself. He loves music. — Loves it, ha! — Lydia waved her hand. — Sergey was playing hockey at his age! And your boy? He’ll be playing scales? Shameful! Something snapped inside Mary. She stepped forward. — Are you finished? — Not by a long shot! I’ve wanted to say— — Well, I’ve wanted to say this: Kostya is my son. Mine. I’ll decide how to raise him. And I won’t let you interfere. Lydia flushed crimson. — The way you speak to me— — Please leave. — What?! Mary grabbed the coat from the rack and shoved it into Lydia’s arms. — Leave my house. — You’re throwing me out? Me? Mary flung open the door. Took her mother-in-law by the elbow and marched her outside. Lydia resisted, but Mary was determined. Out went Lydia, out the door. — I’ll have my way! — Lydia shrieked, angry as ever. — I will not let you ruin my only grandson! — Goodbye, Lydia. — Sergey will hear about this! I’ll tell him everything! Mary slammed the door, pressed her back to it, and exhaled every last ounce of tension. Muffled shouting faded; footsteps echoed down the stairs. Silence descended. Her mother-in-law had finally crossed the line — endless criticism, advice, lectures on how to parent, what to feed, how to dress. And Sergey never saw the problem: “She means well,” “She’s experienced,” “What’s the harm in listening?” He idolised his mother. Every word sacred. Mary endured, day after day, visit after visit. Not today. Sergey returned from work just before eight. The click of the lock, the keys thrown absently on the table — yes, clearly Lydia had already called him. He trudged into the kitchen, never glancing at Kostya who was watching cartoons. — Kostya, sweetheart, stay here — Mary knelt, slid headphones over her son’s ears, queued up his favourite robot show. Kostya nodded, buried in the screen. Mary closed the nursery door and headed for the kitchen. Sergey stood at the window, arms crossed, not turning as she entered. — You threw my mother out. No question. A statement. — I asked her to leave. — You shoved her out the door! She cried on the phone for two hours! Two hours, Mary! Mary sat at the table, exhausted. — Doesn’t it bother you that she insulted me? Sergey hesitated, then waved it away. — She’s just worried for her grandson. What’s so wrong with that? — She called our son a weakling and a coward, Sergey. Our six-year-old. — Well, she got carried away, it happens. But Mum’s right in some ways, Mary. Boys need sports. Team spirit, resilience— Mary met his eyes. Stared until he looked away. — I was forced to do gymnastics when I was a kid. My mum decided — that was it. Five years, Sergey. Five years crying before every practice. Stretched to the point of pain, lost weight, begged to quit. Sergey was silent. — I still can’t stand gyms. And I won’t do that to my son. If Kostya ever wants football — fine. But only if he chooses. Never by force. — Mum just wants what’s best for him— — Then let her have another child and parent how she wants. But she won’t interfere with Kostya anymore. Nor will you, if you’re on her side. Sergey half moved to respond, but Mary left the kitchen. The rest of the evening passed in silence. Mary put Kostya to bed, then sat in the dark of the nursery listening to her son’s gentle breathing. Two tense, silent days followed. At dinner, Sergey cracked a joke, Mary smiled; the ice started to thaw. By Friday they were speaking — though Lydia was never mentioned. Saturday morning, Mary woke to the sound of the lock turning in the front door. She shot up, heart pounding. Robbers? In broad daylight? Phone in hand, she tiptoed into the hall. Lydia stood on the doorstep, triumphant, keys in hand. — Good morning, Mary dear. Mary, in baggy pyjamas and a stretched-out t-shirt, stood barefoot as Lydia looked down her nose, as if entitled to break in at 8am on a Saturday. — Where did you get those keys? Lydia jingled them under her nose. — Sergey gave them to me. He dropped by two days ago. Said — “Mum, forgive her, she didn’t mean to upset you.” Practically begging my forgiveness for your little tantrum. Mary blinked. Once. Twice. — Why are you here? — I’ve come for my grandson — get Kostya ready. Grandma’s signed him up for football, first training today! Fury slammed into her — hot, suffocating, blinding. Mary turned and bolted for the bedroom. Sergey lay with his back to the wall, shoulders tense. — Get up! — Mary, let’s talk later— She yanked off the duvet, grabbed his arm, dragged him to the living room. Lydia was already perched on the sofa, leafing through a magazine. — You gave her the keys — to my flat. Sergey squirmed. — It’s my flat, Sergey. Mine. I bought it, before we were married, with my own money. What made you think you could give your mother my keys? — Oh, how petty! — Lydia tossed the magazine aside. — Yours, mine… all you think about is yourself! Sergey did it for his son, that’s what matters. Since you won’t let me in, I need a way to see my grandson. — Shut your mouth! Lydia gasped, but Mary’s gaze was for Sergey only. — Kostya isn’t going to football, not unless he wants to. — That’s not your decision! — Lydia leapt up. — You’re nothing! Just a temporary blip in my son’s life! Think you’re special? Think you’re irreplaceable? Sergey only puts up with you for the child! Silence. Mary turned to her husband. Head down, no words. — Sergey? Nothing. Not a word in defence. Nothing. — Fine, — Mary nodded. Cold, clear calm settled over her. — Temporary, is it? Well, your time is up. Take your son, Lydia. He’s no longer my husband. — You wouldn’t dare! — Lydia went pale. — You’ve no right to abandon him! — Sergey, — Mary spoke quietly, looking directly at him. — You have half an hour. Pack your things and go. Or I’ll throw you out in your pyjamas — I don’t care. — Mary, wait, let’s talk— — We’re done talking. She turned to Lydia, smiled crookedly. — Keep the keys. I’m changing the locks today. …Divorce took four months. Sergey tried to come back, called, texted, arrived with flowers. Lydia threatened court, guardianship, connections. Mary hired a good lawyer and stopped picking up the phone. Two years slipped by… …The arts school hall buzzed with voices. Mary sat in the third row, clutching her program: “Konstantin Warren, Age 8. Beethoven, Ode to Joy.” Kostya walked onstage — serious, focused, white shirt, black trousers. Sat down at the grand piano, placed his hands on the keys. The first notes filled the hall, and Mary stopped breathing. Her boy was playing Beethoven. Her eight-year-old who asked for lessons, who spent hours at the piano, who chose this piece for his recital. When the last chord faded, the applause exploded. Kostya stood, bowed, found his mother’s face in the crowd and grinned — wide, proud, happy. Mary clapped with everyone, tears streaming down her cheeks. She’d done the right thing. She’d put her son above all — above opinions, above marriage, above the fear of being alone. Which is exactly what a mother should do…

Raising a Softy “Why on earth have you signed him up for music lessons?” Margaret Harris

La vida

04

Raising a Softy, Are You? — Why Did You Sign Him Up for Piano Lessons? Lydia Peterson breezed past her daughter-in-law, peeling off her gloves. — Hello, Lydia. Please come in. Always a pleasure to see you. Her sarcasm landed poorly. Lydia tossed her gloves on the side table and turned to Mary. — Kostya called me. He’s positively beaming — “I’m going to learn piano!” What is this nonsense? Is he a girl now? Mary closed the door gently, carefully, fighting the urge to scream. — It means your grandson will be learning music because he loves it. — Loves it, does he? — Lydia snorted as if Mary was completely out of her mind. — He’s six, he hasn’t a clue what he likes! It’s your job to guide him. He’s a boy, an heir, my grandson — and just who are you raising him to be? The mother-in-law strode into the kitchen, flicked the kettle on with the authority of a queen. Mary followed, jaw clenched so tight it hurt. — I’m raising a happy child. — You’re raising a weakling — a wet blanket! — Lydia squared herself. — Football, wrestling — that’s what he needs! Make him a man, not some… pianist! Mary leaned against the doorframe and counted to five. It didn’t help. — Kostya asked himself. He loves music. — Loves it, ha! — Lydia waved her hand. — Sergey was playing hockey at his age! And your boy? He’ll be playing scales? Shameful! Something snapped inside Mary. She stepped forward. — Are you finished? — Not by a long shot! I’ve wanted to say— — Well, I’ve wanted to say this: Kostya is my son. Mine. I’ll decide how to raise him. And I won’t let you interfere. Lydia flushed crimson. — The way you speak to me— — Please leave. — What?! Mary grabbed the coat from the rack and shoved it into Lydia’s arms. — Leave my house. — You’re throwing me out? Me? Mary flung open the door. Took her mother-in-law by the elbow and marched her outside. Lydia resisted, but Mary was determined. Out went Lydia, out the door. — I’ll have my way! — Lydia shrieked, angry as ever. — I will not let you ruin my only grandson! — Goodbye, Lydia. — Sergey will hear about this! I’ll tell him everything! Mary slammed the door, pressed her back to it, and exhaled every last ounce of tension. Muffled shouting faded; footsteps echoed down the stairs. Silence descended. Her mother-in-law had finally crossed the line — endless criticism, advice, lectures on how to parent, what to feed, how to dress. And Sergey never saw the problem: “She means well,” “She’s experienced,” “What’s the harm in listening?” He idolised his mother. Every word sacred. Mary endured, day after day, visit after visit. Not today. Sergey returned from work just before eight. The click of the lock, the keys thrown absently on the table — yes, clearly Lydia had already called him. He trudged into the kitchen, never glancing at Kostya who was watching cartoons. — Kostya, sweetheart, stay here — Mary knelt, slid headphones over her son’s ears, queued up his favourite robot show. Kostya nodded, buried in the screen. Mary closed the nursery door and headed for the kitchen. Sergey stood at the window, arms crossed, not turning as she entered. — You threw my mother out. No question. A statement. — I asked her to leave. — You shoved her out the door! She cried on the phone for two hours! Two hours, Mary! Mary sat at the table, exhausted. — Doesn’t it bother you that she insulted me? Sergey hesitated, then waved it away. — She’s just worried for her grandson. What’s so wrong with that? — She called our son a weakling and a coward, Sergey. Our six-year-old. — Well, she got carried away, it happens. But Mum’s right in some ways, Mary. Boys need sports. Team spirit, resilience— Mary met his eyes. Stared until he looked away. — I was forced to do gymnastics when I was a kid. My mum decided — that was it. Five years, Sergey. Five years crying before every practice. Stretched to the point of pain, lost weight, begged to quit. Sergey was silent. — I still can’t stand gyms. And I won’t do that to my son. If Kostya ever wants football — fine. But only if he chooses. Never by force. — Mum just wants what’s best for him— — Then let her have another child and parent how she wants. But she won’t interfere with Kostya anymore. Nor will you, if you’re on her side. Sergey half moved to respond, but Mary left the kitchen. The rest of the evening passed in silence. Mary put Kostya to bed, then sat in the dark of the nursery listening to her son’s gentle breathing. Two tense, silent days followed. At dinner, Sergey cracked a joke, Mary smiled; the ice started to thaw. By Friday they were speaking — though Lydia was never mentioned. Saturday morning, Mary woke to the sound of the lock turning in the front door. She shot up, heart pounding. Robbers? In broad daylight? Phone in hand, she tiptoed into the hall. Lydia stood on the doorstep, triumphant, keys in hand. — Good morning, Mary dear. Mary, in baggy pyjamas and a stretched-out t-shirt, stood barefoot as Lydia looked down her nose, as if entitled to break in at 8am on a Saturday. — Where did you get those keys? Lydia jingled them under her nose. — Sergey gave them to me. He dropped by two days ago. Said — “Mum, forgive her, she didn’t mean to upset you.” Practically begging my forgiveness for your little tantrum. Mary blinked. Once. Twice. — Why are you here? — I’ve come for my grandson — get Kostya ready. Grandma’s signed him up for football, first training today! Fury slammed into her — hot, suffocating, blinding. Mary turned and bolted for the bedroom. Sergey lay with his back to the wall, shoulders tense. — Get up! — Mary, let’s talk later— She yanked off the duvet, grabbed his arm, dragged him to the living room. Lydia was already perched on the sofa, leafing through a magazine. — You gave her the keys — to my flat. Sergey squirmed. — It’s my flat, Sergey. Mine. I bought it, before we were married, with my own money. What made you think you could give your mother my keys? — Oh, how petty! — Lydia tossed the magazine aside. — Yours, mine… all you think about is yourself! Sergey did it for his son, that’s what matters. Since you won’t let me in, I need a way to see my grandson. — Shut your mouth! Lydia gasped, but Mary’s gaze was for Sergey only. — Kostya isn’t going to football, not unless he wants to. — That’s not your decision! — Lydia leapt up. — You’re nothing! Just a temporary blip in my son’s life! Think you’re special? Think you’re irreplaceable? Sergey only puts up with you for the child! Silence. Mary turned to her husband. Head down, no words. — Sergey? Nothing. Not a word in defence. Nothing. — Fine, — Mary nodded. Cold, clear calm settled over her. — Temporary, is it? Well, your time is up. Take your son, Lydia. He’s no longer my husband. — You wouldn’t dare! — Lydia went pale. — You’ve no right to abandon him! — Sergey, — Mary spoke quietly, looking directly at him. — You have half an hour. Pack your things and go. Or I’ll throw you out in your pyjamas — I don’t care. — Mary, wait, let’s talk— — We’re done talking. She turned to Lydia, smiled crookedly. — Keep the keys. I’m changing the locks today. …Divorce took four months. Sergey tried to come back, called, texted, arrived with flowers. Lydia threatened court, guardianship, connections. Mary hired a good lawyer and stopped picking up the phone. Two years slipped by… …The arts school hall buzzed with voices. Mary sat in the third row, clutching her program: “Konstantin Warren, Age 8. Beethoven, Ode to Joy.” Kostya walked onstage — serious, focused, white shirt, black trousers. Sat down at the grand piano, placed his hands on the keys. The first notes filled the hall, and Mary stopped breathing. Her boy was playing Beethoven. Her eight-year-old who asked for lessons, who spent hours at the piano, who chose this piece for his recital. When the last chord faded, the applause exploded. Kostya stood, bowed, found his mother’s face in the crowd and grinned — wide, proud, happy. Mary clapped with everyone, tears streaming down her cheeks. She’d done the right thing. She’d put her son above all — above opinions, above marriage, above the fear of being alone. Which is exactly what a mother should do…

Raising a Softy “Why on earth have you signed him up for music lessons?” Margaret Harris

La vida

07

Raising a Softy, Are You? — Why Did You Sign Him Up for Piano Lessons? Lydia Peterson breezed past her daughter-in-law, peeling off her gloves. — Hello, Lydia. Please come in. Always a pleasure to see you. Her sarcasm landed poorly. Lydia tossed her gloves on the side table and turned to Mary. — Kostya called me. He’s positively beaming — “I’m going to learn piano!” What is this nonsense? Is he a girl now? Mary closed the door gently, carefully, fighting the urge to scream. — It means your grandson will be learning music because he loves it. — Loves it, does he? — Lydia snorted as if Mary was completely out of her mind. — He’s six, he hasn’t a clue what he likes! It’s your job to guide him. He’s a boy, an heir, my grandson — and just who are you raising him to be? The mother-in-law strode into the kitchen, flicked the kettle on with the authority of a queen. Mary followed, jaw clenched so tight it hurt. — I’m raising a happy child. — You’re raising a weakling — a wet blanket! — Lydia squared herself. — Football, wrestling — that’s what he needs! Make him a man, not some… pianist! Mary leaned against the doorframe and counted to five. It didn’t help. — Kostya asked himself. He loves music. — Loves it, ha! — Lydia waved her hand. — Sergey was playing hockey at his age! And your boy? He’ll be playing scales? Shameful! Something snapped inside Mary. She stepped forward. — Are you finished? — Not by a long shot! I’ve wanted to say— — Well, I’ve wanted to say this: Kostya is my son. Mine. I’ll decide how to raise him. And I won’t let you interfere. Lydia flushed crimson. — The way you speak to me— — Please leave. — What?! Mary grabbed the coat from the rack and shoved it into Lydia’s arms. — Leave my house. — You’re throwing me out? Me? Mary flung open the door. Took her mother-in-law by the elbow and marched her outside. Lydia resisted, but Mary was determined. Out went Lydia, out the door. — I’ll have my way! — Lydia shrieked, angry as ever. — I will not let you ruin my only grandson! — Goodbye, Lydia. — Sergey will hear about this! I’ll tell him everything! Mary slammed the door, pressed her back to it, and exhaled every last ounce of tension. Muffled shouting faded; footsteps echoed down the stairs. Silence descended. Her mother-in-law had finally crossed the line — endless criticism, advice, lectures on how to parent, what to feed, how to dress. And Sergey never saw the problem: “She means well,” “She’s experienced,” “What’s the harm in listening?” He idolised his mother. Every word sacred. Mary endured, day after day, visit after visit. Not today. Sergey returned from work just before eight. The click of the lock, the keys thrown absently on the table — yes, clearly Lydia had already called him. He trudged into the kitchen, never glancing at Kostya who was watching cartoons. — Kostya, sweetheart, stay here — Mary knelt, slid headphones over her son’s ears, queued up his favourite robot show. Kostya nodded, buried in the screen. Mary closed the nursery door and headed for the kitchen. Sergey stood at the window, arms crossed, not turning as she entered. — You threw my mother out. No question. A statement. — I asked her to leave. — You shoved her out the door! She cried on the phone for two hours! Two hours, Mary! Mary sat at the table, exhausted. — Doesn’t it bother you that she insulted me? Sergey hesitated, then waved it away. — She’s just worried for her grandson. What’s so wrong with that? — She called our son a weakling and a coward, Sergey. Our six-year-old. — Well, she got carried away, it happens. But Mum’s right in some ways, Mary. Boys need sports. Team spirit, resilience— Mary met his eyes. Stared until he looked away. — I was forced to do gymnastics when I was a kid. My mum decided — that was it. Five years, Sergey. Five years crying before every practice. Stretched to the point of pain, lost weight, begged to quit. Sergey was silent. — I still can’t stand gyms. And I won’t do that to my son. If Kostya ever wants football — fine. But only if he chooses. Never by force. — Mum just wants what’s best for him— — Then let her have another child and parent how she wants. But she won’t interfere with Kostya anymore. Nor will you, if you’re on her side. Sergey half moved to respond, but Mary left the kitchen. The rest of the evening passed in silence. Mary put Kostya to bed, then sat in the dark of the nursery listening to her son’s gentle breathing. Two tense, silent days followed. At dinner, Sergey cracked a joke, Mary smiled; the ice started to thaw. By Friday they were speaking — though Lydia was never mentioned. Saturday morning, Mary woke to the sound of the lock turning in the front door. She shot up, heart pounding. Robbers? In broad daylight? Phone in hand, she tiptoed into the hall. Lydia stood on the doorstep, triumphant, keys in hand. — Good morning, Mary dear. Mary, in baggy pyjamas and a stretched-out t-shirt, stood barefoot as Lydia looked down her nose, as if entitled to break in at 8am on a Saturday. — Where did you get those keys? Lydia jingled them under her nose. — Sergey gave them to me. He dropped by two days ago. Said — “Mum, forgive her, she didn’t mean to upset you.” Practically begging my forgiveness for your little tantrum. Mary blinked. Once. Twice. — Why are you here? — I’ve come for my grandson — get Kostya ready. Grandma’s signed him up for football, first training today! Fury slammed into her — hot, suffocating, blinding. Mary turned and bolted for the bedroom. Sergey lay with his back to the wall, shoulders tense. — Get up! — Mary, let’s talk later— She yanked off the duvet, grabbed his arm, dragged him to the living room. Lydia was already perched on the sofa, leafing through a magazine. — You gave her the keys — to my flat. Sergey squirmed. — It’s my flat, Sergey. Mine. I bought it, before we were married, with my own money. What made you think you could give your mother my keys? — Oh, how petty! — Lydia tossed the magazine aside. — Yours, mine… all you think about is yourself! Sergey did it for his son, that’s what matters. Since you won’t let me in, I need a way to see my grandson. — Shut your mouth! Lydia gasped, but Mary’s gaze was for Sergey only. — Kostya isn’t going to football, not unless he wants to. — That’s not your decision! — Lydia leapt up. — You’re nothing! Just a temporary blip in my son’s life! Think you’re special? Think you’re irreplaceable? Sergey only puts up with you for the child! Silence. Mary turned to her husband. Head down, no words. — Sergey? Nothing. Not a word in defence. Nothing. — Fine, — Mary nodded. Cold, clear calm settled over her. — Temporary, is it? Well, your time is up. Take your son, Lydia. He’s no longer my husband. — You wouldn’t dare! — Lydia went pale. — You’ve no right to abandon him! — Sergey, — Mary spoke quietly, looking directly at him. — You have half an hour. Pack your things and go. Or I’ll throw you out in your pyjamas — I don’t care. — Mary, wait, let’s talk— — We’re done talking. She turned to Lydia, smiled crookedly. — Keep the keys. I’m changing the locks today. …Divorce took four months. Sergey tried to come back, called, texted, arrived with flowers. Lydia threatened court, guardianship, connections. Mary hired a good lawyer and stopped picking up the phone. Two years slipped by… …The arts school hall buzzed with voices. Mary sat in the third row, clutching her program: “Konstantin Warren, Age 8. Beethoven, Ode to Joy.” Kostya walked onstage — serious, focused, white shirt, black trousers. Sat down at the grand piano, placed his hands on the keys. The first notes filled the hall, and Mary stopped breathing. Her boy was playing Beethoven. Her eight-year-old who asked for lessons, who spent hours at the piano, who chose this piece for his recital. When the last chord faded, the applause exploded. Kostya stood, bowed, found his mother’s face in the crowd and grinned — wide, proud, happy. Mary clapped with everyone, tears streaming down her cheeks. She’d done the right thing. She’d put her son above all — above opinions, above marriage, above the fear of being alone. Which is exactly what a mother should do…

Raising a Softy “Why on earth have you signed him up for music lessons?” Margaret Harris

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Even Now, Some Nights I Wake Up Wondering How My Dad Managed to Take Everything From Us. I Was 15 When It Happened—We Lived in a Small, Well-Kept House with the Fridge Stocked on Shopping Days and the Bills Usually Paid on Time. I Was in Year 10 and My Biggest Worry Was Passing Maths and Saving Up for Trainers I Really Wanted. Everything Changed When My Dad Started Coming Home Later, Ignoring Us and Spending All His Time on His Phone. One Friday, He Packed His Suitcase and Left for Another Woman. He Emptied Our Savings and Left Debt Behind. That Week, My Mum’s Card Was Blocked, Internet Was Cut Off, and We Struggled Even for Essentials. Mum Cleaned Houses for Work, I Sold Sweets at School, Embarrassed but Determined to Help. Sometimes, All We Had Was Rice for Dinner. Much Later, I Saw Dad’s Photo Online Raising a Toast with His New Partner. My Last Message: “Dad, I Need Money for School Supplies.” His Reply: “I Can’t Support Two Families.” That Was the Last Time He Spoke to Me. Now, I Work, Pay My Own Way, and Help Mum, But the Hurt Remains—not Just About Money but About Being Abandoned and Left to Survive Alone as a Child. And Still, Many Nights I Wake Up Asking: How Do You Go On When Your Own Father Takes Everything and Leaves You to Learn How to Survive?

Even now, I sometimes wake in the middle of the night and wonder when my father managed to take everything from us.

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Even Now, Some Nights I Wake Up Wondering How My Dad Managed to Take Everything From Us. I Was 15 When It Happened—We Lived in a Small, Well-Kept House with the Fridge Stocked on Shopping Days and the Bills Usually Paid on Time. I Was in Year 10 and My Biggest Worry Was Passing Maths and Saving Up for Trainers I Really Wanted. Everything Changed When My Dad Started Coming Home Later, Ignoring Us and Spending All His Time on His Phone. One Friday, He Packed His Suitcase and Left for Another Woman. He Emptied Our Savings and Left Debt Behind. That Week, My Mum’s Card Was Blocked, Internet Was Cut Off, and We Struggled Even for Essentials. Mum Cleaned Houses for Work, I Sold Sweets at School, Embarrassed but Determined to Help. Sometimes, All We Had Was Rice for Dinner. Much Later, I Saw Dad’s Photo Online Raising a Toast with His New Partner. My Last Message: “Dad, I Need Money for School Supplies.” His Reply: “I Can’t Support Two Families.” That Was the Last Time He Spoke to Me. Now, I Work, Pay My Own Way, and Help Mum, But the Hurt Remains—not Just About Money but About Being Abandoned and Left to Survive Alone as a Child. And Still, Many Nights I Wake Up Asking: How Do You Go On When Your Own Father Takes Everything and Leaves You to Learn How to Survive?

Even now, I sometimes wake in the middle of the night and wonder when my father managed to take everything from us.

La vida

07

Let My Good Deed Come Back to Haunt Me — Dad, what’s with the new decorations? Did you clean out the local antique shop? — Christina raised her eyebrows in confusion, eyeing the white crochet doily on her dresser. — I had no idea you fancied ancient knick-knacks. Your taste is straight out of Grandma’s era… — Oh, Christina dear! Didn’t expect you to pop in unannounced, — said Mr. Peterson, emerging from the kitchen. — I mean, we—I wasn’t expecting you… Her father tried to look cheerful, but guilt flickered in his eyes. — Well, it’s obvious you weren’t, — Christina said sourly, heading to the living room, bracing for more surprises. — Dad… Where did all this come from? What’s going on here? Christina barely recognised her own flat… When she inherited the place from her grandmother, it was a depressing sight: battered furniture, a chunky old television balancing on a peeling cabinet, rusty radiators, and wallpaper hanging on for dear life. But, it was hers. She’d saved up just enough for renovations. Christina picked Scandinavian style—light colours, minimalism—making her two-bed feel more spacious. She added her own touches, carefully chose curtains, laid down fluffy rugs with love… Now, her thick blackout curtains had been swapped for ordinary nylon netting. Her Italian sofa was buried under a synthetic leopard blanket with a grinning tiger. A pink plastic vase and equally toxic fake roses sat on her coffee table. But the worst part was the smell. From the kitchen came the stench of frying oil and fish. Cigarette smoke wafted through the air. And her dad didn’t even smoke… — Christina, you see… — Oleg finally replied. — It’s a bit complicated. I’m not alone. I meant to tell you but it never seemed the right moment. — Not alone? — Christina was lost for words. — Dad, this isn’t what we agreed! — Come on, you know my life didn’t end with your mother. I’m still young—haven’t even got my pension yet. Don’t I deserve a personal life? Christina froze. Of course, her dad deserved to date. But in HER flat? Her parents had split a year ago. Mum took it in stride, almost relieved, throwing herself into self-development and friendship. Christina’s dad, meanwhile, fell to pieces. He returned to his pre-marital flat—a disaster after being rented out for ten years. The last tenant fell asleep with a cigarette. No money for repairs, so he abandoned it. He didn’t sell it, just let it rot. It was unliveable: walls black with soot, smashed windows, mould on the sills… A horror movie set. — Christina, I’ve no idea how I’ll survive, — he sighed back then. — It’s dangerous to stay here, and I’ll never get it sorted by winter. No money, either. If I freeze, so be it… I suppose that’s my fate. Christina couldn’t accept it. She couldn’t let the man who raised her live like that. Especially when her own flat was empty—she’d recently married and moved in with her husband. Given her dad’s history with tenants, she wasn’t planning to rent it out. — Dad, stay at mine for now, — she offered. — Everything’s set up, all the comforts. Do up your place gradually, then move back. Just one condition: no guests. — Really? — he asked, amazed. — Thank you, sweetheart! You’ve saved me. Promise I’ll keep things quiet and peaceful. Peaceful? Hardly. As Christina recalled their conversation, the bathroom door burst open, steam spilling out. A woman of fifty glided out, wrapped in Christina’s favourite fluffy dressing gown, barely covering her voluptuous figure. — Oh, Oleg, do we have company? — the woman boomed in a smoky voice, flashing a condescending smile. — You might’ve warned me. I’m in my loungewear. — And you are? — Christina narrowed her eyes. — And why are you wearing my dressing gown? — I’m Jean, your dad’s beloved. And what’s got your knickers in a twist? The gown was just hanging there unused. Christina saw red. — Take it off. Now, — she snapped. — Christina! — her dad pleaded, stepping between them. — No need for drama. Jean just— — Jean’s wearing someone else’s clothes in someone else’s home! — Christina cut him off. — Dad, what’s wrong with you? You brought your girlfriend here and let her rummage through my things without permission?! Jean rolled her eyes dramatically, stomping off and plopping herself onto the tiger blanket. — What a rude little madam you are, — she announced. — If I were in Oleg’s shoes, I’d take a belt to you, no matter your age. Is THAT how you speak to your father? Who he lives with isn’t your concern, missy. Christina was gobsmacked. Some strange woman, lounging on her sofa, scolding her like a wayward child. — Not my concern, — Christina agreed, — until it happens in my home. — Your home? — Jean arched an eyebrow at Oleg. He cowered by the wall, shifting his terrified gaze from furious daughter to brazen girlfriend, clearly hoping this storm might blow over. But the forecast was grim. — Well, did Daddy not mention that bit? — Christina said icily. — Fine, I’ll spell it out. He’s a guest here. This flat is mine—every single thing in it bought by me. I let him stay, but I never signed up for him bringing his girlfriends around. Jean flushed scarlet. — Oleg?… — her voice now ice. — What is she talking about? You said this was your place. You lied to me? Her dad shrank against the wallpaper, ears burning with shame. — Well… Jean, you misunderstood. I do have my own place, just not this one. I didn’t want to bore you with details. — Didn’t want to bore me? Thanks a lot! Now I’ve got her giving me grief! Christina’s patience snapped. — Out, — she said quietly. — What? — Jean stalled. — Out. Both of you. I’m giving you an hour. If you’re still here after that, we’ll settle things properly. This is what happens when you let someone into your ‘Little Palace’… She headed for the door, but Oleg broke away from the wall and rushed after her. — You wouldn’t chuck your own father out, would you? You KNOW what my flat’s like! I’ll freeze! He grabbed her sleeve, her heart twinged with guilt—memories, duty, pity. Tears threatened. But Christina looked at Jean. Sitting there, legs crossed, wearing Christina’s dressing gown, glaring at her with pure venom. If she gave in now, tomorrow this woman would change the locks and redecorate. — Dad, you’re an adult. Find a rental, — Christina said, pulling free. — You’re to blame. We agreed you’d live alone. But you brought a random woman, let her wear my things, and trashed my home… — Oh, choke on your precious flat! — Jean snapped. — Come on, Oleg, don’t demean yourself. Raised a thankless brat… Half an hour later, it was done. Her father left without a word, hunched like an old man. Christina would never forget that look—a beaten dog in the rain. She stood her ground till the end. As soon as they left, she flung open the windows to banish the smell of fish, cigarettes, and cheap perfume. The dressing gown, blanket, everything Jean had touched—straight to the bin. Next day: cleaners and a locksmith. She couldn’t bear a trace of that woman. …Four days passed. Christina’s flat was hers again: no fake flowers, no foul odours. She lived with her husband now, but just knowing the place was peaceful made her happy. She didn’t speak to her dad—until, on the fourth day, he called. — Hello? — Christina answered after a pause. — Well, Christina… — her father slurred, drunk. — Are you happy now? Jean’s gone. She left me. — Wow, how surprising, — Christina replied. — Let me guess. She saw your real flat, realised it was a dump, and fled? He sniffled. — Yeah… I put a heater in and slept on an air mattress. She lasted three days… She put up with it, then called me a pauper and a liar and moved in with her sister. Said she’d only wasted her time. But we loved each other, Christina! — Love? Please. You were both looking for an easy ride, that’s all. You both miscalculated. Silence. But he wasn’t done. — It’s miserable here alone, sweetheart, — he said. — It’s scary… Can I come back? I promise, just me this time! I swear! Christina’s eyes fell. Her dad sat somewhere in that mess and cold, but he’d made it through his own choices: cheating on her mother, lying to Christina, spinning tall stories for Jean. She pitied him. But pity could poison them both. — No, Dad. I won’t let you back, — said Christina. — Hire workers, get the place sorted. Learn to live in the mess you made for yourself. The best I’ll do is recommend a good team. That’s all. If you need advice, ask. She hung up. Harsh? Maybe. But Christina was done letting anyone leave a stain on her dressing gown—or on her soul. Some dirt you can’t wash out. You just keep it out of your life…

Brought Trouble on Myself Dad, whats with all the knickknacks? Did you rob an antiques shop?

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05

Let My Good Deed Come Back to Haunt Me — Dad, what’s with the new decorations? Did you clean out the local antique shop? — Christina raised her eyebrows in confusion, eyeing the white crochet doily on her dresser. — I had no idea you fancied ancient knick-knacks. Your taste is straight out of Grandma’s era… — Oh, Christina dear! Didn’t expect you to pop in unannounced, — said Mr. Peterson, emerging from the kitchen. — I mean, we—I wasn’t expecting you… Her father tried to look cheerful, but guilt flickered in his eyes. — Well, it’s obvious you weren’t, — Christina said sourly, heading to the living room, bracing for more surprises. — Dad… Where did all this come from? What’s going on here? Christina barely recognised her own flat… When she inherited the place from her grandmother, it was a depressing sight: battered furniture, a chunky old television balancing on a peeling cabinet, rusty radiators, and wallpaper hanging on for dear life. But, it was hers. She’d saved up just enough for renovations. Christina picked Scandinavian style—light colours, minimalism—making her two-bed feel more spacious. She added her own touches, carefully chose curtains, laid down fluffy rugs with love… Now, her thick blackout curtains had been swapped for ordinary nylon netting. Her Italian sofa was buried under a synthetic leopard blanket with a grinning tiger. A pink plastic vase and equally toxic fake roses sat on her coffee table. But the worst part was the smell. From the kitchen came the stench of frying oil and fish. Cigarette smoke wafted through the air. And her dad didn’t even smoke… — Christina, you see… — Oleg finally replied. — It’s a bit complicated. I’m not alone. I meant to tell you but it never seemed the right moment. — Not alone? — Christina was lost for words. — Dad, this isn’t what we agreed! — Come on, you know my life didn’t end with your mother. I’m still young—haven’t even got my pension yet. Don’t I deserve a personal life? Christina froze. Of course, her dad deserved to date. But in HER flat? Her parents had split a year ago. Mum took it in stride, almost relieved, throwing herself into self-development and friendship. Christina’s dad, meanwhile, fell to pieces. He returned to his pre-marital flat—a disaster after being rented out for ten years. The last tenant fell asleep with a cigarette. No money for repairs, so he abandoned it. He didn’t sell it, just let it rot. It was unliveable: walls black with soot, smashed windows, mould on the sills… A horror movie set. — Christina, I’ve no idea how I’ll survive, — he sighed back then. — It’s dangerous to stay here, and I’ll never get it sorted by winter. No money, either. If I freeze, so be it… I suppose that’s my fate. Christina couldn’t accept it. She couldn’t let the man who raised her live like that. Especially when her own flat was empty—she’d recently married and moved in with her husband. Given her dad’s history with tenants, she wasn’t planning to rent it out. — Dad, stay at mine for now, — she offered. — Everything’s set up, all the comforts. Do up your place gradually, then move back. Just one condition: no guests. — Really? — he asked, amazed. — Thank you, sweetheart! You’ve saved me. Promise I’ll keep things quiet and peaceful. Peaceful? Hardly. As Christina recalled their conversation, the bathroom door burst open, steam spilling out. A woman of fifty glided out, wrapped in Christina’s favourite fluffy dressing gown, barely covering her voluptuous figure. — Oh, Oleg, do we have company? — the woman boomed in a smoky voice, flashing a condescending smile. — You might’ve warned me. I’m in my loungewear. — And you are? — Christina narrowed her eyes. — And why are you wearing my dressing gown? — I’m Jean, your dad’s beloved. And what’s got your knickers in a twist? The gown was just hanging there unused. Christina saw red. — Take it off. Now, — she snapped. — Christina! — her dad pleaded, stepping between them. — No need for drama. Jean just— — Jean’s wearing someone else’s clothes in someone else’s home! — Christina cut him off. — Dad, what’s wrong with you? You brought your girlfriend here and let her rummage through my things without permission?! Jean rolled her eyes dramatically, stomping off and plopping herself onto the tiger blanket. — What a rude little madam you are, — she announced. — If I were in Oleg’s shoes, I’d take a belt to you, no matter your age. Is THAT how you speak to your father? Who he lives with isn’t your concern, missy. Christina was gobsmacked. Some strange woman, lounging on her sofa, scolding her like a wayward child. — Not my concern, — Christina agreed, — until it happens in my home. — Your home? — Jean arched an eyebrow at Oleg. He cowered by the wall, shifting his terrified gaze from furious daughter to brazen girlfriend, clearly hoping this storm might blow over. But the forecast was grim. — Well, did Daddy not mention that bit? — Christina said icily. — Fine, I’ll spell it out. He’s a guest here. This flat is mine—every single thing in it bought by me. I let him stay, but I never signed up for him bringing his girlfriends around. Jean flushed scarlet. — Oleg?… — her voice now ice. — What is she talking about? You said this was your place. You lied to me? Her dad shrank against the wallpaper, ears burning with shame. — Well… Jean, you misunderstood. I do have my own place, just not this one. I didn’t want to bore you with details. — Didn’t want to bore me? Thanks a lot! Now I’ve got her giving me grief! Christina’s patience snapped. — Out, — she said quietly. — What? — Jean stalled. — Out. Both of you. I’m giving you an hour. If you’re still here after that, we’ll settle things properly. This is what happens when you let someone into your ‘Little Palace’… She headed for the door, but Oleg broke away from the wall and rushed after her. — You wouldn’t chuck your own father out, would you? You KNOW what my flat’s like! I’ll freeze! He grabbed her sleeve, her heart twinged with guilt—memories, duty, pity. Tears threatened. But Christina looked at Jean. Sitting there, legs crossed, wearing Christina’s dressing gown, glaring at her with pure venom. If she gave in now, tomorrow this woman would change the locks and redecorate. — Dad, you’re an adult. Find a rental, — Christina said, pulling free. — You’re to blame. We agreed you’d live alone. But you brought a random woman, let her wear my things, and trashed my home… — Oh, choke on your precious flat! — Jean snapped. — Come on, Oleg, don’t demean yourself. Raised a thankless brat… Half an hour later, it was done. Her father left without a word, hunched like an old man. Christina would never forget that look—a beaten dog in the rain. She stood her ground till the end. As soon as they left, she flung open the windows to banish the smell of fish, cigarettes, and cheap perfume. The dressing gown, blanket, everything Jean had touched—straight to the bin. Next day: cleaners and a locksmith. She couldn’t bear a trace of that woman. …Four days passed. Christina’s flat was hers again: no fake flowers, no foul odours. She lived with her husband now, but just knowing the place was peaceful made her happy. She didn’t speak to her dad—until, on the fourth day, he called. — Hello? — Christina answered after a pause. — Well, Christina… — her father slurred, drunk. — Are you happy now? Jean’s gone. She left me. — Wow, how surprising, — Christina replied. — Let me guess. She saw your real flat, realised it was a dump, and fled? He sniffled. — Yeah… I put a heater in and slept on an air mattress. She lasted three days… She put up with it, then called me a pauper and a liar and moved in with her sister. Said she’d only wasted her time. But we loved each other, Christina! — Love? Please. You were both looking for an easy ride, that’s all. You both miscalculated. Silence. But he wasn’t done. — It’s miserable here alone, sweetheart, — he said. — It’s scary… Can I come back? I promise, just me this time! I swear! Christina’s eyes fell. Her dad sat somewhere in that mess and cold, but he’d made it through his own choices: cheating on her mother, lying to Christina, spinning tall stories for Jean. She pitied him. But pity could poison them both. — No, Dad. I won’t let you back, — said Christina. — Hire workers, get the place sorted. Learn to live in the mess you made for yourself. The best I’ll do is recommend a good team. That’s all. If you need advice, ask. She hung up. Harsh? Maybe. But Christina was done letting anyone leave a stain on her dressing gown—or on her soul. Some dirt you can’t wash out. You just keep it out of your life…

Brought Trouble on Myself Dad, whats with all the knickknacks? Did you rob an antiques shop?

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06

Dad’s Cottage: The Day I Discovered Our Family Retreat Had Been Sold—A Tale of Autumn Apples, Telegraph Calls, Schoolgirl Crushes, and the Bittersweet Legacy of a Father’s Life in an English Garden

Dads Allotment The news that our allotment had been sold came to me quite suddenly, almost by accident.

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Open Up, We’re Here: When Relatives Arrive Uninvited and Boundaries Matter – Julie, it’s Aunt Natalie! – The voice on the phone rang with such forced cheer it made Julie grit her teeth. – We’ll be in town in a week, need to sort some paperwork. We’ll stay with you for a week or maybe two, okay? Julie nearly choked on her tea. So, no “hello,” no “how are you,” just straight to “we’ll stay.” Not “may we?” or “is it convenient?” Just “we’ll stay.” Period. – Aunt Natalie, – Julie tried to keep her voice gentle, – nice to hear from you. But about staying… Could I help you find a hotel instead? There are some good, affordable options. – What hotel? – Aunt Natalie scoffed as if Julie had said something utterly ludicrous. – Why waste money? You have your dad’s old three-bedroom flat! A whole flat for one person! Julie closed her eyes. Here we go. – It’s my flat, Auntie. – Yours? – Something sharp crept into Natalie’s voice. – And who was your dad? Not one of our family? Blood’s thicker than water, Julie! We’re not strangers, and you shove us off to a hotel like stray dogs! – I’m not shoving anyone. I just can’t have you stay. – Why not? “Because last time you turned my life into a living hell,” Julie thought, but she said instead: – Circumstances, Auntie Natalie. I can’t host you. – Circumstances! – Now Aunt Natalie made no attempt to hide her irritation. – Three empty rooms and you’ve got ‘circumstances’! Your dad would never have turned family away. You’re just like your mum, aren’t you… – Auntie… – What – Auntie? We’ll be there Saturday, around lunchtime. Maxim and Paul are coming too. You’ll greet us properly. – I told you – I can’t. – Julie! – Her voice went hard and commanding. – I’m not discussing this. See you Saturday. The dial tone beeped in Julie’s ear. She slowly placed the phone onto the table and stared at it for a minute. Then she exhaled and slumped back in her chair. Always the same. Two years ago Aunt Natalie had already ‘visited.’ They arrived as a foursome, promised three days – stayed for two weeks. Julie still remembered the chaos: Maxim sprawling on her sofa in outdoor shoes, flicking through her TV channels all night; Paul, the overgrown “child” at twenty-three, raiding the fridge and never washing up. Aunt Natalie reigned over the kitchen, criticised everything from curtains to the “wrong” tiles. After they finally left, Julie discovered a scorched armchair, a broken bathroom shelf, and odd stains on the living room rug. No one mentioned money – not for food, not for utilities, which shot up over those two weeks. They just packed and went, tossing out, “Thanks, Julie, you’re a real star.” Julie rubbed her temples. No more. However much Aunt Natalie shouts about Dad and family ties. If she comes Saturday, the door stays locked. She opened the browser on her phone. Time to find them a hotel. A good, decent one, with all the comforts. Send the address, explain clearly: that’s all she’s prepared to do. If they don’t get it, that’s not her problem. Two days of blissful quiet passed. Julie worked, went for walks, cooked dinner for one, and nearly convinced herself Aunt Natalie’s call was a bad dream. Maybe they’d change their minds. Maybe find other relatives to impose on. Her phone rang on Thursday near evening: “Aunt Natalie” flashed and sick dread curled in her stomach. – Julie, it’s me! – The chirpy voice shattered her peaceful flat. – We’re coming tomorrow, our train gets in at two! Meet us and have a proper meal ready – travel wears you out! Julie slowly sank onto the edge of the sofa. Her knuckles whitened on the handset. – Aunt Natalie, – she said slowly and carefully, – I’ve already said. I’m not letting you stay. Please don’t come to my flat. – Oh, don’t be silly! – Aunt Natalie chuckled like it was a joke. – You big baby. Not letting us, letting us… We’ve bought tickets! – That’s your problem. – Julie, what’s wrong with you? – Her tone flared with confusion, then returned to its usual pressure. – You’re family! You HAVE to help – it’s sacred! – I don’t owe anyone anything. – Of course you do! Your dad, rest his soul— – Auntie, enough about Dad. I said no. That’s final. A heavy sigh – dramatic, as if she were steeling herself for a wilful child. – Julie, nobody cares about your opinion, you know? We’re family. You’re just being difficult. Tomorrow at two, don’t forget! – I keep telling you— – That’s enough. See you! The line went dead. Julie stared at the blank screen for a few seconds. Something hot and furious surged in her chest. She threw the phone onto the sofa and paced the room – three steps there, three back, like a caged animal. So, her opinion doesn’t matter? Wonderful. Just great. She stopped abruptly. Think again, dear Aunt. Julie grabbed her phone and flicked to Mum’s contact. – Hello? Julie? – Her mum sounded warm and slightly puzzled. – Is something wrong? – Hi Mum. Listen, I want to come visit. Tomorrow. For a week, maybe a bit longer. Pause. – Tomorrow? Love, you were only here last month… – I know. But I need it. I work remotely, doesn’t matter where. Can I come? Her mum was silent a second longer; Julie could almost see her brow furrowing, trying to puzzle out what was up. – Of course, come. You know I’m always happy to have you. Are you sure everything’s okay? – Yes, Mum. I just miss you. Julie hung up and allowed herself a smile. Tomorrow at midday, Aunt Natalie would arrive at a locked door. She could ring, knock, shout all she wanted – the owner would be gone. Not popped out to shops or a friend, but three hundred miles away in another city. Julie booked the morning train, 6:45. Perfect. By the time Auntie hit her building, Julie would be sipping tea in her mum’s kitchen. Blood may be thicker than water – but sometimes family needs to hear “no.” On the train, Julie listened to the rhythmic clatter of the tracks and wondered what Auntie’s face would look like at the locked door. Her eyes drooped, head hummed, but peace settled inside. Mum met her at the station, gave her a tight hug, whisked her home. Pancakes with cheese, tea, and marched her off to bed. – We’ll talk later, – said Mum, taking the empty cup. – Rest first. Julie crashed into sleep as soon as her head hit the pillow. She woke to her phone’s shrill trill. Groggily, she fumbled it off the side table, blinking at the “Aunt Natalie” display. – Julie! – The woman screeched so loudly she had to hold the phone away. – We’ve been outside your door for twenty minutes! Why won’t you open?! Julie sat up, rubbed her face. Outside, sunset glowed; she’d slept half the day. – Because I’m not there, – she answered. She couldn’t help smirking. – What do you mean, not there?! Where are you?! – In another city. Silence. Then an explosion: – You’ve got a nerve! You knew we were coming, and you just vanished?! How could you?! – Easily. I warned you I wouldn’t let you in. You didn’t listen. – How dare you! – Aunt Natalie was frantic with indignation. – Someone must have your keys! The neighbour, a friend! Call them! We can manage without you, we’re not kids! Julie paused. Wow. That’s bold. – Auntie, are you serious? – Absolutely! We’re tired and you’re playing games! – I’m not living with you in my flat. And I’m not letting you in without me, either. – You’re— The bedroom door creaked: her mum, hair tousled and eyes steely, stepped in. She silently held out her hand, and Julie handed over the phone. – Natalie, – her mum’s voice was icy, – it’s Vera. Listen to me carefully, don’t interrupt. Muffled gurgle from the phone. – Yuri couldn’t stand you, – Mum continued. – His whole life, he couldn’t. And I knew it best. So why bother his daughter? What do you want from her? Julie heard Aunt Natalie stammering, flustered. – Good, – Mum clipped. – Don’t call Julie ever again. She’s got people to turn to, and you’re not one. End of conversation. She hung up and handed Julie’s phone back. Julie stared at her mum as if seeing her for the first time. – Mum… You… I’ve never seen you like this. She snorted, adjusted her dressing gown. – Your dad taught me. Said with Natalie you have to bark once, proper, and she won’t show up for years. She suddenly smiled, crow’s feet dancing. – Still works, imagine! Julie burst out laughing, heartily, all the stress draining away. Mum joined in. – Come on, – she waved towards the kitchen, – let’s get some tea. You owe me the full story.

Open the Door, We’ve Arrived Lucy, its Aunt Margaret! Her voice over the phone rang with such forced