After ten years of marriage, I found out that my husband had been having a text conversation with a woman. My husband understood what I meant when he repeatedly threatened to divorce me if he found out that he was cheating.
This male and the female were engaging in racy conversations about sex, and they arranged to meet at a hotel. I was able to hear their conversation. He claims they met through a dating site that his friends recommended. Hmmmn! Friends!
I presented him with all the evidence I had found and told him I would now let him meet anyone he wanted for wild sex. I softly said, “Ten Years of marriage with beautiful children is over because you want to have wild sexual sex.” He said that we had ended our relationship. After organizing myself for a few more days, I told him that I would be leaving and that I meant everything.
My spouse kneeled down and begged. He knows me better than to deny it. I was silent, despite his repeated pleas and attempts to justify myself. My brain was just calculating when and how I would move. That was all I did.
My spouse was always with me wherever I went, and that included not sleeping. I asked him for some space. He replied that there wasn’t any because we were married. He went on explaining the events and why. I was silent towards him. He was still there when I woke up the next morning.
To have a conversation, he asked me to not take him to work. He was willing to give me the login information for the website where they met. In fact, he was so desperate to prevent me leaving that he divulged personal information and took responsibility. I pardoned them because they had not yet had a sexual encounter. If he had, I doubt if I would have stayed.
My spouse regrets what he did five years ago. He claimed that God told him to find out so that he and his marriage could be saved.
It was a blessing to see everything work out in the end. My husband treated me with respect and kindness. I wouldn’t have been able to leave if he hadn’t.
We know that honesty and accountability are essential for a successful marriage. My husband and I decided to remove all restrictions on our social media accounts and phones. Even though we use each other’s accounts,
