I never imagined something like this could happen to me. Yesterday, my husband had a terrible outburst of anger.
He’s always been such a reasonable man, so his rage completely blindsided me. Hes never sworn at me before, yet this time was different…
I always thought I was lucky to have such a calm husband. Weve only been married for two months. Before that, we dated for three years, and it was wonderful. He was always thoughtful, never said a hurtful word, never once raised his voice. We hardly ever argued.
That all changed yesterday.
Hes always said he loves my long hair, that its thrilling. But yesterday, when he noticed strands of my long hair on the sofa, he went off the rails. I was absolutely stunned.
He started yelling at me, called me dirty, complained that I couldnt even clean up after myself! Everyone knows women lose their hair, its normal.
He accused me of doing nothing all day, moaned that I cant manage to tidy up my own mess, while hes out working.
If I see this happen again, Im filing for divorce! he shouted, still furious.
I was speechless. I want children with him, Ive already pictured us growing old together, and here he is, threatening divorce over a bit of hair. I broke down in tears, realising it was the first time Id cried because of him. Just two months married… Whats going to happen now? I cant just walk away…
He refuses to talk to me now. Im terrifiedif I try to speak to him, I worry hell hit me, hes that angry. Is it normal to be afraid of your own husband?
Im scared to dry my hair. I head home with dread, half expecting to find a suitcase with my belongings waiting by the door.
What should I do?
