I never imagined something like this would ever happen to me. Just yesterday, my husband completely lost his temper and it terrified me.
Hes always been so level-headed, which is why his outburst took me by surprise. Hes never sworn in front of me before, but this time
I always considered myself lucky to have such a calm husband. Wed only been married for two months. Before that, we had dated for three years and everything seemed perfect. He was attentive, never spoke harshly, never raised his voice. Arguments were rare between us.
That all changed yesterday.
He’s always admired my long hair, says it makes me irresistible. But yesterday, when he spotted some of my hair on the sofa, he exploded. I was genuinely stunned.
He began shouting at me, calling me filthy, telling me I couldn’t even tidy up after myself! Everyone knows that its normal for women to shed some hair.
The next thing I knew, he accused me of doing nothing all day, unable even to clean up after myself, while he slogged at work from morning till night!
If I see this again, Ill file for divorce immediately! he yelled, furious.
I stood there, speechless. I wanted children with him, Id already pictured growing old together. Now he threatens to divorce me over a bloody hair strand. I burst into tears it was the first time Id ever cried because of him. Just two months into our marriage… What happens now? I cant just pack up and leave.
Now he refuses to speak to me. Im petrified that if I try to talk to him, hell lash out hes that angry! Is it normal to be afraid of your own husband?
Im scared to even dry my hair. I walk through the door each night, half-expecting to find my suitcase sitting by the entrance.
What should I do?
