Monday, 5th June
I parked the car one street away from my mother-in-laws house, glancing at the dashboard clock. 5:45pmwell ahead of schedule. Maybe this time shell appreciate my punctuality, I thought, smoothing out the creases in my new dress. The presenta Victorian brooch that Id hunted for months at antique fairssat carefully wrapped on the back seat.
As I made my way closer, I noticed the ground floor window was ajar. Inside, my mother-in-laws voice rang out, clear as a bell:
No, Harriet, can you believe it? She didnt even bother to ask which cake I liked! Shes gone and ordered some trendy pudding Marcus has always loved a proper Victoria sponge and she a pause, just doesnt get it. Seven years of marriage!
I stopped in my tracks, suddenly rooted to the spot.
Of course Ive said it beforeshes not right for Marcus. Shes buried in that clinic job day and night, barely at home. What sort of housewife is that? I popped round yesterdaydirty dishes everywhere, dust on the sideboard And she’d dashed out, rushing off to some lengthy surgery again!
Everything inside me went quiet. Leaning heavily on the garden gate, I felt my knees wobble. Seven years Ive tried to be the perfect daughter-in-law: baking, cleaning, remembering every birthday, calling in when she was under the weather. And all for what
No, noIm only saying, but is this really the sort of woman my son ought to be with? He needs a proper familywarmth, care Shes forever at some conference or on night shifts. Never even a thought for children! Can you imagine?
My head was pounding. On autopilot, I pulled out my phone and called my husband.
Marcus? Ill be a bit late. Nothings wrongjust caught up in some traffic.
I turned and walked back to my car, sitting behind the steering wheel, staring blankly ahead. Her words whirled round my mind: Maybe a pinch more salt? In my day, women stayed at home Marcus works so hard, he needs looking after
My phone buzzedMarcus again: Mum wants to know where you are. Everyones waiting.
I took a deep breath. A strange smile spread across my lips. If they want the perfect daughter-in-law, Ill show them.
I started the engine and drove back round to her house. My plan came to me in a flash.
No more trying to please. Time to show them what a truly proper daughter-in-law could be.
Swinging open the front door with the widest smile in my repertoire, I called out, Mummy dearest! and all but drowned my mother-in-law in an overenthusiastic embrace. So sorry Im lateIve been to three separate shops to find exactly the candles you like!
She froze, taken aback by my sudden exuberance. Iwell, I she started, but I plunged on.
Oh, and youll never guessI bumped into your friend Harriet on the way! Such a wonderful woman, always says it how it is, dont you think? I gave her a knowing look, noticing her cheeks turn pale.
All through dinner, I played the role of a lifetime. I heaped the choicest cuts onto her plate, loudly admired her every remark, and endlessly asked her for housekeeping tips.
Mummy, how long do you think it takes to make a proper stew? And carpetsshould they be hoovered in the morning or the evening? Maybe I ought to give up work. Marcus deserves a real family, doesnt he?
Marcus looked at me as if Id grown a second head; the relatives exchanged bewildered glances. But I pressed on:
I was thinkingI might sign up for a household management course! Give up this ridiculous surgery business After all, a womans real place is at home, isnt it, Mummy?
My mother-in-law tapped anxiously at her plate with her fork, her confidence ebbing away with every minute.
And as for what happened next? Well, some stories are better left to play out to the very endShe put her fork down and finally met my stare. For the first time, I saw something new in her eyesnot just disapproval, but surprise, maybe even fear. Silence pressed on the table until Marcus cleared his throat.
Darling, are you feeling alright? he asked, voice uncertain.
Oh, never better! I replied, raising my glass. To familymay we always know our place.
No one laughed. My mother-in-laws lips trembled as she tried to muster her old authority. Now really, theres no need to be so dramaticyour work is important, dear, she muttered, voice thin.
I leaned forward, lowering mine just for her. Funny, Mummy. Thats not what you said a moment ago, through the window, when you thought I wasnt listening.
She stared at me, mouth open. Around the table, forks paused in midair. Even Marcus paled.
I let silence settle, then smiledgently, genuinely this time. You know, Ive spent years wanting you to like me. But I think Ill pass on the perfect housewife part. I rather like who I am. And I think Marcus does too. I reached for his hand, steady and warm.
For a long beat, no one moved. Then Marcus squeezed my fingers, and, to my astonishment, grinned. Couldnt have put it better myself, he said.
Later, as I left, I slid the antique brooch beside her teacup. She stared at it, speechless. Its for you, I told her quietly, just as I am.
I stepped out into the dusk, the sound of my laughter trailing down the garden path. For once, it wasnt forcedit rang clear and true, finally, entirely my own.












