I’m 66 and Since January I’ve Been Living with a 15-Year-Old Girl Who Isn’t My Daughter – She’s My Late Neighbour’s Child, Left Alone After Her Mother Passed Away Right Before New Year. From Their Tiny Flat to Our New Life Together, This Is How We’ve Managed, Sharing a Modest Home, Everyday Tasks, and the Struggles of Making Ends Meet – Would You Have Done the Same?

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I am 66 years old, and since the beginning of January I have been living with a fifteen-year-old girl who isnt my daughter. Her name is Emily, and shes the daughter of my neighbour, Mrs. Robinson, who sadly passed away just before New Years Eve. Before that, the two of them lived together in a tiny rented flat just three doors down from mine. The place was cramped: just one bed for the pair of them, a makeshift kitchen, and a little table that served for everythingmeals, homework, and her mothers work. Theyd never had any of lifes luxuries or much comfort, only the bare essentials.

Emilys mother had been ill for years, yet she still worked every day. Mrs. Robinson sold things from catalogues and went door to door to deliver orders. When that wasnt enough, shed set up a stall out front and sell homemade sausage rolls, porridge pots, and juices. Emily helped her after schoolpreparing food, serving, tidying up. I saw them many evenings, closing up late, exhausted, counting out their coins to see if theyd have enough for the following day. Mrs. Robinson was proud and hard-working, never asked for help. When I could, Id buy them some groceries or cook a meal and bring it round, always careful not to make her feel uncomfortable.

I never saw any guests in their flat, nor did any relatives ever pay a visit. Mrs. Robinson never spoke of siblings, cousins, or parents. Emily grew up just with her mother, learning from a young age to help out, to go without asking, and to get by on what she had. Looking back, I wonder if I should have insisted more on helping, but at the time I respected the boundaries her mother had set.

Her mothers sudden passing was abrupt. One day she was at work, and then, within days, she was gone. There was no chance for farewells, and no family turned up. Emily was left on her own in that little flatwith rent still due, bills piling up, and school about to start again. I remember her face during those days: she wandered home and back, not knowing quite what to do, frightened shed end up out on the streets, unsure whether anyone would come for her or if shed be sent somewhere strange.

I made a decision then to bring her home with me. There were no grand declarations or meetings. I simply told her she could stay. She packed her clothesjust a few bits, reallyinto carrier bags and came over. We locked up the flat and spoke with the landlord, who understood the situation.

Now she lives here with me. Shes not a burden, nor is she a child to be waited on. Weve divided up the chores. I do the cooking and sort out our meals, and Emily helps with cleaningwashing up, making her bed, sweeping, and tidying shared spaces. We each know our tasks. Theres no shouting or orders. Everything is talked through.

I take care of her expenses: clothes, school supplies, packed lunches. Her schools just a couple of streets away from ours.

Since she moved in, things have gotten harder financially. But honestly, I dont mind. Id rather it be this way than know shes alone, without support, facing the same uncertainty she lived through with her poorly mother.

Emily has no one else. As for me, I dont have children living with me. I believe anyone in my shoes would have done the same. What do you think of my story?

– Dad, please don’t come over anymore! Every time you go, Mum starts crying and she cries until morning. – I fall asleep, wake up, fall asleep again and wake up, and she keeps crying and crying. I ask her, “Mum, why are you crying? Is it because of Dad?..” – And she says she’s not crying, just sniffling because she’s got a cold. But I’m big now and I know there’s no cold that makes your voice sound like tears. Ollie’s dad sat with her at a table in a café, stirring his coffee in a tiny white cup that had already gone cold. And Ollie hadn’t even touched her ice cream, though in front of her was a colourful masterpiece: scoops of every colour, topped with a green mint leaf and a cherry, all drizzled with chocolate. Any six-year-old girl would be enchanted — but not Ollie, because last Friday, she’d made up her mind to have a serious talk with Dad. Dad stayed silent, very silent, before finally asking her: – So what are we supposed to do, love? Never see each other again? How am I supposed to live like that?.. Ollie scrunched up her nose — which looked just like Mum’s, a little potato, she thought — and answered: – No, Dad. I couldn’t manage without you either. Let’s do this instead. You call Mum and tell her that from now on, every Friday you’ll pick me up after school. – We can go for a walk together, or have coffee and ice cream in a café if you want. I’ll tell you all about how Mum and I have been doing. Then she thought for a moment more and added: – And if you want to see Mum, I’ll take a photo of her on my phone every week and show you. Would you like that? Dad didn’t look at his clever daughter, just smiled a bit and nodded: – Alright, love. Let’s live like that now, then. Ollie sighed with relief and dug into her ice cream. But she hadn’t finished her conversation yet — there was something important she still needed to say. So, as a streak of melted ice cream gave her a “moustache”, she licked it off and turned serious, almost grown-up. Almost like a woman who needed to take care of her man. Even if he was old now — last week was Dad’s birthday. Ollie had made him a card at school, colouring in a huge ‘28’ with special care. Her face went serious again, her eyebrows drawn together: – I think you should get married… And, magnanimously fibbing, added: – You’re… not very old yet… Dad appreciated his daughter’s “goodwill gesture” and chuckled: – “Not very”? You think so? Ollie said enthusiastically: – Not very, not very! Look at Uncle Steve, who’s come round to see Mum twice — he’s even a bit bald, right here… And Ollie pointed to the top of her head, smoothing her curls with her hand. Then she realised, as Dad tensed and looked sharply at her, that she’d let slip Mum’s secret. She clapped both hands to her mouth and her eyes went wide with horror and confusion. – Uncle Steve? What “Uncle Steve” keeps visiting you guys, then? Is he Mum’s boss?.. – Dad said, almost shouting, almost loud enough for the whole café. – I don’t know, Dad… – Ollie got flustered at her father’s reaction – Maybe he is her boss. He comes, brings me sweets. And cake for us all. – And, – Ollie pondered whether to share this private info with her “unreasonable” Dad, – brings Mum flowers. Dad clasped his hands on the table and stared down for a long time. Ollie understood that, right then, he was making an important decision. So the young woman waited, not rushing the man towards any conclusion. She already suspected all men are slow thinkers, and need a good push in the right direction. And who better to push than the woman — especially one of the dearest in his whole life? Dad sat in silence, until at last he gave in. He sighed loudly, lifted his head, and spoke… If Ollie was a bit older, she’d have realised he used the tragic tone of Othello asking Desdemona his fateful question. But she didn’t know about Othello, or Desdemona, or any of the great lovers of literature yet. She was just collecting life experience, watching people be happy and suffer, sometimes over the smallest things. And so, Dad said: – Let’s go, love. It’s late. I’ll walk you home and I’ll have a word with Mum. Ollie didn’t ask what Dad was planning to say to Mum, but she understood it was serious, and quickly finished her ice cream. Then she realised what Dad was about to do was far more important than even the tastiest ice cream and, with a flourish, tossed her spoon on the table, slid off her chair, wiped her mouth with the back of her hand, sniffed, and, looking straight at Dad, said: – I’m ready. Let’s go… They didn’t just walk home, they practically ran. Well, Dad ran. But he held Ollie’s hand, and so she almost “flew” beside him like a little flag. When they burst into the building, the lift doors were closing, taking a neighbour upstairs. Dad looked a bit lost at Ollie, who peered up and said: – Well? What are we waiting for? It’s only seven floors… Dad scooped Ollie up and dashed up the stairs. When Mum finally answered the door to Dad’s frantic ring, he got straight to the point: – You can’t do this! Who’s Steve? I love you. And we have Ollie… Then, holding Ollie close, he hugged Mum as well. And Ollie hugged them both around the neck and closed her eyes. Because the grown-ups were kissing… That’s how it goes in life sometimes — two stubborn adults were brought back together by a small girl who loved them both, and they loved her, and each other, but nursed their pride and their grudges… Share your thoughts in the comments! Give us a like.

The most devastating experience I had in 2025 was discovering my husband was cheating on me… and realising that my brother, my cousin, and my father had all known about it the entire time. We’d been married eleven years. The woman my husband was having an affair with worked as a secretary at the same firm as my brother. Their relationship started after my brother introduced her to my husband—not by accident. They kept crossing paths at work, meetings, business events, and social gatherings my husband attended. My cousin also saw them in the same circles. Everyone knew each other. Everyone met often. For months, my husband lived with me as if nothing had happened. I went to family get-togethers and spent time with my brother, cousin, and dad, not knowing they each knew about the affair. None of them warned me. None of them said a word. No one prepared me for what was going on behind my back. When I found out about the infidelity in October, I confronted my husband first. He admitted it. Then I spoke to my brother. I asked him directly if he’d known. He said “yes.” I asked how long. He replied, “for months.” When I asked why he’d said nothing, he told me it wasn’t his problem, it was a matter between a couple, and “men don’t talk about these things with each other.” Then I talked to my cousin and asked the same questions. He knew too. He’d seen behaviour, messages, and attitudes that showed what was happening. When I asked why he hadn’t warned me, he said he didn’t want trouble and it wasn’t his place to interfere. Finally, I talked to my father and asked if he’d known. He said “yes.” I asked how long. He said, for a long time. Why hadn’t he told me? He said he didn’t want conflict, that matters like this are for couples to sort out, and he wouldn’t get involved. Really, all three gave me the same answer. I moved out of the house, and it’s now up for sale. There were no public arguments or physical confrontations, because I refuse to demean myself for anyone. The woman kept her job at my brother’s company. My brother, cousin, and father stayed close to both of them. For Christmas and New Year’s, my mum invited me to celebrate at hers with my brother, cousin, and dad. I told her I couldn’t go. I explained I wasn’t able to sit at the table with people who’d known about the affair and decided to stay silent. They celebrated together. I wasn’t there either time. Since October, I haven’t spoken to any of the three. I don’t think I’ll ever be able to forgive them.

“Dad, please don’t come to visit us anymore! Every time you leave, Mum starts crying and doesn’t stop until morning. I ask her, ‘Mum, are you crying because of Dad?’ but she always says it’s just a sniffle. But I’m old enough to know that sniffles don’t sound like tears. Dad sat with me at a café, stirring his cold coffee while my ice cream—an absolute masterpiece—remained untouched. Any six-year-old girl would be excited, but not me. I had decided, even last Friday, it was time for a serious talk with Dad. He was silent for ages before saying, ‘So what should we do, sweetheart? Not see each other at all? How will I manage?’ I wrinkled my nose—just like Mum’s—and said, ‘No, Dad. I can’t be without you either. Here’s what we’ll do: call Mum and tell her you’ll pick me up from nursery every Friday. We’ll cafe if you want, and you can tell me all about your and Mum’s week. If you ever want to see Mum, I’ll take her picture every week and show you. Deal?’ Dad smiled and nodded. We agreed. I felt relieved and finally had my ice cream, but I wasn’t done yet. With chocolate moustaches, I turned serious and said, ‘I think you need to get married… You’re not that old!’ He chuckled at my generous fib. ‘Not that old, not that old!’ I insisted, ‘Mum’s friend, Uncle Steve, who’s been round twice, is actually quite bald right here.’ I touched my head and suddenly realised I’d let out Mum’s secret. Dad’s reaction was intense—‘Who’s this Steve? Mum’s boss?’ I shrugged. ‘Maybe. He brings sweets. And cake. And flowers for Mum.’ Dad stared at his hands, deciding something important. I waited, realising men need a gentle nudge from a woman—especially one they love. Finally, Dad sighed, raised his head, and spoke with tragedy and love, though I didn’t know about Romeo or Othello, I understood people suffer and find joy over tiny things. ‘Let’s go home. I want to talk to Mum.’ I knew this was important. I quickly finished my ice cream, wiped my lips, sniffled, and looked seriously at Dad: ‘I’m ready. Let’s go.’ We didn’t walk—we half ran. Dad took my hand, and I fluttered behind like a bright little flag. When we reached our building, the lift was just leaving. Dad scooped me up and raced up the stairs. At last, when Mum opened the door after Dad’s anxious ringing, he got right to the point: ‘You can’t do this! Who is Steve? I love you. We have Oly…’ Still holding me, Dad hugged Mum. I wrapped my arms around both their necks and closed my eyes because the grownups were kissing… Sometimes, in life, it only takes a loving little girl to bring two stubborn adults back together—because she loved them both, and they loved her, and each other, but let their pride get in the way… Share your thoughts in the comments below and give us a like if you enjoyed this story!

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