18th August
I never thought Id wear white again. After losing my husband, my world dulled to monotonous shades of grey, with nothing mattering except breathing and caring for our daughter then just an eight-month-old baby. But his parents never let me fall apart. They took me in as their own, honestly and wholeheartedly.
They told me I was their daughter and that our little girl was still their granddaughter. That, even though he was gone, nothing would ever change that.
Five years later, his mother turned up at my house with that smile Id come to know the one that meant she was plotting something.
Love, theres someone Id like you to meet, she said, stirring her tea at my kitchen table.
Oh, do we have to? I replied, rolling my eyes, but secretly I was grateful she still saw me as family.
Hes my nephew. An engineer, divorced, no children. And he can cook, she said, a twinkle in her eye.
He can cook? I couldnt help but laugh, as if that was the most important part.
He turned out exactly as shed described patient with my daughter, gentle with my wounds, and, yes, an infinitely better chef than me. At first it felt odd after all, he was a relative of my late husband, sort of. But his father put me at ease.
He would want you to be happy, love. And this man is worthy, he assured me with quiet strength.
A year later, in the same park where Id once walked hand-in-hand with my late husband, he knelt down not just to me, but to my daughter as well.
Will the three of us get married? he asked, his question really meant for her.
My daughter, then six, eyed him very seriously.
Will I still get to see Grandma and Granddad?
Every Sunday, he promised, solemn as a judge.
So we said yes.
The morning of the wedding, as I was getting ready, his mother burst in with tears rolling down her cheeks.
Im just so happy for you. And I know he is too, she whispered.
Thank you, for never letting go of me, I replied, hugging her tightly.
When it was time to walk down the aisle, I knew without a doubt who would give me away. His father appeared at the door in a smart suit, eyes brimming with tears. My heart squeezed and swelled all at once.
Ready, sweetheart? he asked, offering his arm.
Im ready, Dad, I answered. Because it was true.
As we walked down the aisle, I heard a few whispers behind us. Someone murmured, Isnt that her first husbands father? He leant in close to me and quietly said:
Let them talk. If I must, Ill walk you down the aisle again.
I had to laugh, through my tears.
When we reached the groom, his father didnt just place my hand in his he gave us both a hug.
You are both my children now, he said loudly, for all to hear. And for the gossips in the back: this isnt strange. This is love.
The ceremony was simple and sincere. My daughter carried the rings. His mother wept on the front row. And when we were finally declared a family, I felt a breeze, a warmth, as though we were being blessed by an unseen hand.
At the reception, his father raised a glass. He spoke about the families we choose, about love that never ends, and about how Ill always be his daughter, even now with two sons-in-law one above, one by my side.
Later, I watched him spinning my daughter around the dance floor, making her shriek with laughter, while his wife snapped endless photos, heart bursting with pride the very image of a devoted grandmother.
Nowadays, when people ask why my former father-in-law gave me away at the altar, I just smile and say:
He never was former. He is my dad.
And if you were me, what would you do?












